How to Attract a Virgo Man As a Pisces Woman

Written by Stina Garbis | Edited by Caroline Heiderscheit

Last Updated: February 8, 2024 Fact Checked

The soft, sentimental Pisces and practical, analytical Virgo may seem like polar opposites, but these two definitely have what it takes to find everlasting love. Pisces, if you're looking to grab a Virgo's attention, trust that your beauty, grace, and empathetic nature will be a huge help to you. With a little guidance, you'll have no trouble connecting with a dependable, thoughtful, and completely dreamy Virgo man. For everything you need to know about attracting a Virgo man as a Pisces woman, read on.

This article is based on an interview with our psychic astrologer, Stina Gabris, owner of Psychic Stina. Check out the full interview here.

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Flaunt your ethereal beauty.

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Virgos admire natural, elegant, and effortless looks. That’s you to a T, Pisces! As a Pisces, you're graced with a magnetic, almost magical appearance. To attract your Virgo crush, Astrologer Stina Garbis suggests that you "dress well, have nice hair, perfect makeup, have attention to detail in your personal appearance— you will make them and everyone else turn their heads."^{[1]
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Expert Interview. 14 February 2022.} Other things to think about include maintaining great posture, holding eye contact, and projecting confidence. To play up your enchanting appearance and hook a Virgo man, sport delicate, refined looks in his company.
- Wear your hair down, in braids, or in a high ponytail. If you sport a shorter style, wear a floral headband.
- Go for flowy or floral outfits. You’ll get bonus points if the material is soft to the touch.
- Try to incorporate soft colors, like light pinks, lavenders, blues, and whites.

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Ask for his help.

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To a Virgo, feeling needed is the ultimate turn-on. Astrologer Stina Garbis emphasizes, "Virgo’s [...] love to pitch in to help."^{[2]
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} If you're up for it, she even suggests that you, "Allow [Virgos] to give advice no matter how cringey, [...] let them mansplain from time to time." Whether it’s housework, a tech problem, or a souffle falling flat, ask your Virgo crush for help and he'll end up feeling closer to you. Create excuses to ask for his expertise in order to make him feel like he's valuable to you and in turn, make him more attracted to you.
- “Hey, I hate to bother you. Do you know anything about steam cleaning? I’d love your help if you have the time.”
- “My tablet is frozen again. No chance you’d want to help me figure this out, would you?”
- “Do I remember correctly that you’re a bit of a baking extraordinaire? I think I may be out of my depth here. Will you help me with this next batch?”
- Reader Poll: We asked 417 wikiHow readers who've dated Virgo men, and 78% of them agreed that the best way to get them to take interest in you is by asking for help with a project. [Take Poll]

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Thank him for his effort.

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A Virgo wants to feel genuinely appreciated, especially by his crush. Acknowledge your Virgo crush's care and concern for you, and you'll make him the happiest guy on the planet. Luckily, “Thank you” rolls off the tongue pretty easily if you’re a Pisces because you love reminding people that you care. Look out for any and all opportunities to show your Virgo that you're grateful for him.^{[3]
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- Thank him for big acts of service: “I can’t believe you made me dinner! You knew I had a hard week. Thank you so much. This means the world, honestly.”
- Appreciate his smaller gestures, too: “Thanks for holding the door. That’s so sweet of you!”

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Get him to relax.

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Pisces have a gift for destressing, which any Virgo could use 24/7. You're the queen of comforting others. Look out for signs that your Virgo is stressed, like if he's pacing around or maybe sweating. Engage in a little light banter, throw an arm over his shoulder, or offer some words of reassurance to help ease his tension. He’ll love you for helping him take a load off!^{[4]
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- Offer him a quick massage. While you work, engage in lighthearted conversation topics, like fantasy football or a movie.
- If you’re out with friends and you sense he’s stressed, find an excuse to touch him. Put an arm over his shoulder, press your knee to his, or pat his leg.
- Pisces have a gift for thoughtful pep talks: “I know you’re stressed, but you’re amazing. Look at all you’ve accomplished so far!”

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Clean up around you.

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To show a Virgo that you care, acts of service are the way to go. This sign is famous for needing order in their lives, so they often feel stressed in disorganized spaces. Astrologer Stina Garbis recommends that you, "Pick up after yourself and be conscientious of cleanliness and hygiene."^{[5]
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Expert Interview. 14 February 2022.} If the two of you are hanging out, take a minute to clean up after yourself. Put your shoes by the door, throw your trash away, and avoid leaving food out. This'll read as a thoughtful gesture to your Virgo crush, and it'll definitely be an attractive habit to him.
- At your house, consider completing a quick clean before he stops by. He’ll love that you cared enough to make him feel comfortable.
- Pisces, cleanliness might not always be your strong suit. When you're at his place, try setting a recurring alarm reminding you to do a quick clean.
- Pro tip: ask a pal to send you reminder texts when you’re with your Virgo crush!

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Be kind and sincere in conversation.

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Virgos crave authentic, kind words from the people around them. Pisces, this is a huge win for you. There is no other sign in the zodiac quite as genuine and empathetic as you are. When you two talk, speak in a gentle, affectionate tone. Ask thoughtful questions, offer genuine compliments, and challenge your Virgo's self-criticism. Astrologer Stina Gabris explains what "If you make yourself open and available, [it can help] get a shy and receptive sign like Virgo to approach."^{[6]
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- If he mentions feeling stressed, show an interest in that: “Do you know what brought that feeling on?”
- Ask for details about his work and projects: “Wow, your bathroom turned out great. You really put up this wallpaper yourself?”
- Use a gentle tone to push back against his negative self-talk: “I think you’re being too hard on yourself. You’re one of the smartest people I know.”

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Empathize with his stress.

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A Virgo wants someone who takes his high-strung nature in stride. When you’re getting closer to a Virgo, boost his spirits without minimizing his feelings. Virgos deal with big, overwhelming stress on the day-to-day—so take his feelings seriously to avoid rubbing him the wrong way. Astrologer Stina Garbis recommends that you " Listen to them and let them talk when they need to talk and let them complain without stepping in."^{[7]
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.}Simply empathize with him, and he'll be thrilled. Luckily, that's a talent of yours, Pisces.^{[8]
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- “Wow, that does sound so stressful. How are you feeling now?”
- “Yes, I can totally see why you feel that way. I would, too.”
- “Those feelings make a ton of sense. Do you want to talk more about that?”

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Show him you’re reliable.

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To impress a Virgo, you'll need to prove that he can depend on you. As a Pisces, you may struggle just a bit to show up on time and remember important dates, but a Virgo needs someone who can be there when it really counts. To prove that that's you, rise to the occasion and focus on being reliable. Treat his time with respect and plan your schedule around him.
- Set times aside in your weekly schedule just for your Virgo crush. Never miss an appointment without a great excuse.
- Be mindful of his big events. Make sure you always offer good luck and congratulations. If you grab him treats to celebrate when he finishes, that’s even better.
- When the two of you have plans, always assume that they’re a big deal to him. Don’t cancel unless you have a great excuse.

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Accept that he can be critical at times.

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A Virgo critiques others constantly, but you can trust that he means well. This is a sign that gets a bad reputation for being cold, but the truth is, they're just analytical. Virgos believe they'd be doing their loved ones a disservice by keeping observations to themselves. Ask him to give you the well-meaning motivation behind his criticism. Or, look for his good intentions yourself. If you want his behavior to change, but Astrologer Stina Garbis emphasizes that it's important to frame the ask correctly: "Try not to give too much advice to a Virgo man, they like to think they know it all."^{[9]
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- Ask him to clarify: “I get what you mean. But could you explain why you think I should be more organized in kinder terms? How do you think it’ll help me in my life?”
- Look for the positive intention yourself: He watches me search for my car keys for like an hour every day. He probably thinks getting organized will improve my life.

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Help him cope with your strong emotions.

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A Virgo may struggle to keep up with a Pisces’ emotional range. In a relationship, neither of you should feel like you have to fight your authentic nature in order to be happy together. So you, Pisces, don’t need to subdue any strong feelings just to please him. Instead, come up with a strategy to make sure this dynamic doesn't hurt your relationship.^{[10]
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- If you’re in a mood, be upfront about that: “Hi. Just FYI, I’m feeling moody. I’m not mad, but I’m going to be alone in my room for the night.”
- Once your mood has passed, follow up with him: “Thanks so much for giving me space last night. I really needed it. Just want to reiterate that it had nothing to do with you!”
- Let him know that he's free to ask questions now that you’re feeling better: “Let me know if you have anything to say or ask. I’m here to listen!”

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Show him that you’re trustworthy.

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A Virgo and Pisces both expect devotion from their partners. Luckily, they know how to be fully devoted themselves, too. Communicate your intentions clearly with each other. A Virgo may prefer to show his devotion through actions, but initiate a conversation about expectations to ensure you're on the same page. Continue to initiate discussions as your relationship changes over time.
- When you two decide to be exclusive, stay loyal.
- When you decide things are serious, factor him into your big decisions.

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Bond over shared rituals in your relationship.

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By enjoying routines together, Virgo and Pisces can find a deep connection. You know those movie couples who wake up, make a cup of coffee, and do the morning crossword together? That’s Virgo and Pisces energy. You two are all about intentionality and really sharing your lives, so search for opportunities to create sweet routines with each other.
- Offer to grab coffee and breakfast in the mornings. Share it with your Virgo crush in bed or at the dining table. Make this a habit whenever you stay over on the weekends.
- Get used to working in the same space. Even without chatting, the two of you can bond through shared peace, quiet, and productivity.

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Stina Garbis
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Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.

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Being mysterious and not completely upfront about everything gives them a chance to become interested in you and want to know more. Be deadly attractive with every detail in place.

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