How to Get a Capricorn Woman to Chase You

Written by Tara Divina | Edited by Danielle Blinka, MA, MPA

Last Updated: October 22, 2024 Fact Checked

You’re crushing on a Capricorn, but how do you win her heart? Ambitious Capricorns are practical and flaunt success, but don’t let that intimidate you. She wants a partner who’s just as amazing as she is—someone like you! Although Capricorns usually don’t chase love, they’re the most determined to get what they want. Get ready for a hot pursuit because we’re about to tell you exactly how to get a Capricorn woman to chase you.

This article is based on an interview with our professional vedic astrologer, Tara Divina. Check out the full interview here.

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Be your real, authentic self.

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Capricorns value honesty and truth, so be transparent.^{[1]
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Expert Interview. 20 November 2019.} You don’t need to be her exact vision of a perfect partner for her to fall for you. What she really wants is authenticity. Be open about your values and opinions, and don’t be afraid to say what you really think.
- Let’s say you disagree with her about something. You could say, “I have to respectfully disagree.” Then, explain your opinion.
- Don’t ever lie to her. She’ll lose trust in you right away, and it’ll be hard to win her back.

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Dress posh and professional.

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Draw her in with looks that say, “I’m serious.” You don’t need to change out your jeans and tees for suits and ties. At the same time, well-fitting, quality clothes are going to impress a Capricorn woman. When you’re around her, wear clothes that make you feel established and powerful. The right outfit will make her want you more.^{[2]
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- For example, you might wear classic slacks and a button-down shirt.
- If you prefer jeans, choose a dark wash and pair them with a classy shirt.
- Match her style! Capricorns express their sense of style in different ways.

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Make the first move because she might be overthinking it.

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Capricorns lead with their head, not their heart. Because of this, they tend to think out their dating decisions and typically aren’t very spontaneous.^{[3]
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Expert Interview. 20 November 2019.} You’re more likely to draw her eye if you initiate a conversation. Choose your words right, and she won't be able to stop thinking about you.
- Start a conversation by asking her a question about her life, her interests, or where you are.^{[4]
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- You could say, “What do you do in your spare time?” “Have you been here before?” or “What’s happened in your life since the last time we spoke?”

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Be direct when flirting with a Capricorn.

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She'll be annoyed by cheesy lines and teasing banter. Unlike other signs, Capricorns prefer to take dating seriously. She just wants to get to know you. Have a real conversation with her, and she'll be thinking about you long after you part ways.^{[5]
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- Keep the conversation going by replying to what she says and asking her more questions.
- With a Capricorn, you can relax. She doesn't expect you to be anyone but you.

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Compliment her achievements and milestones.

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Capricorns pour their hearts into their work and truly value success. She’ll feel valued if you celebrate her accomplishments. Point out things that impress you, and give her meaningful compliments.^{[6]
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- “Your job sounds so interesting! I can tell your work is really important.”
- “It’s so cool that you earned two degrees.”
- “These paintings are amazing! You’re so talented.”
- “Congrats on finishing your project early. You’re always on top of things.”
- “These cookies are fly! You’re such a good baker.”

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Support her as she works toward her goals.

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Cheer her on when she has self-doubts.^{[7]
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Expert Interview. 20 November 2019.} Capricorns go big when it comes to goal-setting, so stumbling blocks are a given. During her toughest moments, she needs a cheerleader to lift her spirits. That’s where you come in! Remind her how awesome she is, and you’ll have her hot on your trail.
- Say things like, “No one works as hard as you do. This is just a minor setback,” or “If anyone can overcome this, it’s you!”

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Flaunt your ambition by pursuing your goals.

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Show her you’re just as ambitious as she is.^{[8]
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Expert Interview. 20 November 2019.} Capricorns want a partner who chases success as much as they do. She’ll be super impressed by your pursuit of your education, your career, and your hobbies. Talk openly about what you’re working on and where you plan to go in the future. You might say:
- “I’m making so much progress on my goals.”
- “Can’t stop, won’t stop until I get this degree.”
- “Getting a promotion is part of my 5-year plan.”
- “I’ve gotten so much work done this week! I feel like celebrating.”

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Make her laugh.

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Capricorn women value a sense of humor. Contrary to popular belief, they aren’t all work and no play. Bring out her softer side by telling a funny story or sharing a silly joke.^{[9]
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- Practice telling your funniest stories and jokes. You could watch yourself in the mirror or share them on social media.
- Joke around about things you have in common. Point out idiosyncrasies or make a sarcastic comment.
- Surprise her with the unexpected! A spontaneous comment or weird punchline is a surefire way to get a laugh.

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Show her you’re practical.

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As an earth sign, Capricorn women are very practical.^{[11]
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Expert Interview. 20 November 2019.} She won’t be impressed by disorganization, wasteful spending, and squandered time. Here are some ways you can be more practical:^{[12]
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- Be organized.
- Follow a routine and use your time well.
- Be disciplined, motivated, and focused.
- Set realistic goals.
- Manage your money well.

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Invest time and attention in her so she sees you’re worth it.

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Capricorns want to see a return on their efforts. She’s unlikely to chase you if she thinks you’ll keep running. In general, Capricorns match the energy you show toward them. Give her your time and attention so she sees you’re a good potential match.
- For example, you might send her daily texts.
- Similarly, invite her out, either alone or as part of a group.
- When you’re together, talk to her to show her you’re interested. Additionally, comment on her social media.

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Dazzle her with useful gifts and gestures.

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She isn't interested in a Disney romance—she's practical.^{[13]
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Expert Interview. 20 November 2019.} Instead of big romantic gestures, do nice things for her or give her gifts she can use. She’ll appreciate how thoughtful and practical you are.
- For example, you might volunteer to help her with something or bring her something she needs right now, like a coffee.
- When it comes to gifts, pick something related to her hobbies or something you know she collects. For instance, she’d rather have a book from her wishlist than a box of chocolates.

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Take things slow so she has time to fall for you.

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Build a friendship with her and let love blossom slowly. A Capricorn woman needs time to fall in love, so be patient. Focus on getting to know her and creating a connection. Give her time to miss you. In time, she’ll be up for the chase.
- It might take you longer to win her heart, but a Capricorn will be a loyal partner once she falls for you.

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Focus on touch to heat up the bedroom.

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Capricorns may be buttoned up, but they let loose in the bedroom. Because they’re earth signs, Capricorns are very physical. Turn her on with touch, and pay a lot of attention to her body during intimate moments. She won't be able to stop thinking about you!^{[14]
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- Start by touching her arm or thigh to get her interested.
- If you start dating, hold her hand, hug her, and kiss her. When you move to the bedroom, you might increase your foreplay.

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Persevere if she doesn’t notice you right away.

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You may have to work to impress a Capricorn, but it can pay off big. Once you win her heart, she’ll work hard to keep you. It may take time for her to catch your scent, so hang in there.^{[15]
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Capricorns are often afraid of rejection, so be careful with her heart.^{[16]
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Expert Interview. 20 November 2019.} If she thinks you’re going to hurt her, she might back off.

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A Capricorn might seem prim and proper from afar, but they’re actually really warm and caring once you get to know them.^{[17]
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Laziness is a HUGE turnoff for Capricorns, so grab life by the horns.

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