This article was co-authored by Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW and by wikiHow staff writer, Madeleine Criglow. Kelli Miller is a Psychotherapist based in Los Angeles, California. Kelli specializes in individual and couples therapy focusing on relationships, depression, anxiety, sexuality, communication, parenting, and more. She is the author of “Love Hacks: Simple Solutions to Your Most Common Relationship Issues” which details the top 15 relationship issues and 3 quick solutions to each. She is also the award-winning and best-selling author of “Thriving with ADHD”. Kelli co-hosted an advice show on LA Talk Radio and was a relationship expert for The Examiner. She received her MSW (Masters of Social Work) from the University of Pennsylvania and a BA in Sociology/Health from the University of Florida.
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Being lied to can be a really devastating and confusing experience. Whether it's your spouse, your friend, or a coworker, you likely want to get the truth out in the open somehow. This article is here to help give you the tools to do just that, no matter how difficult the conversation may be.
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QuestionWhat should I say to my girlfriend if I know she's hiding something from me?Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSWKelli Miller is a Psychotherapist based in Los Angeles, California. Kelli specializes in individual and couples therapy focusing on relationships, depression, anxiety, sexuality, communication, parenting, and more. She is the author of “Love Hacks: Simple Solutions to Your Most Common Relationship Issues” which details the top 15 relationship issues and 3 quick solutions to each. She is also the award-winning and best-selling author of “Thriving with ADHD”. Kelli co-hosted an advice show on LA Talk Radio and was a relationship expert for The Examiner. She received her MSW (Masters of Social Work) from the University of Pennsylvania and a BA in Sociology/Health from the University of Florida.
PsychotherapistYou should tell her you noticed she's uncomfortable and hiding something. This way, you might make her less defensive and more open to seeing their behavior. After her answer, try asking how you can make her feel more comfortable in sharing things with you in the future.
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- ↑ https://www.inc.com/travis-bradberry/what-to-do-when-you-catch-a-liar.html
- ↑ Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW. Psychotherapist. Expert Interview. 11 June 2020.
- ↑ https://www.today.com/parents/why-kids-lie-7-ways-get-them-tell-truth-1c7398399
- ↑ Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW. Psychotherapist. Expert Interview. 11 June 2020.
- ↑ https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/282129
- ↑ https://www.today.com/parents/why-kids-lie-7-ways-get-them-tell-truth-1c7398399
- ↑ Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW. Psychotherapist. Expert Interview. 11 June 2020.
- ↑ https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/282129
- ↑ https://www.fastcompany.com/3042260/8-methods-to-get-anyone-to-tell-the-truth
- ↑ https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/282129
- ↑ Kelli Miller, LCSW, MSW. Psychotherapist. Expert Interview. 11 June 2020.
- ↑ https://www.inc.com/travis-bradberry/what-to-do-when-you-catch-a-liar.html