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Going through a divorce is a painful experience for both partners—the ordeal is comparable to the loss of a loved one and creates big changes for both people. Even though every divorce is unique, studies show that men and women generally experience them differently, with men facing unique challenges most women may not and vice versa. In this article, we’ll review the most common ways a man changes after a divorce and why, plus explore ways to cope with the changes.
Things You Should Know
- Men may bottle up their feelings and feel isolated after a divorce, resulting in stress, anxiety, loneliness, internalized guilt, or a loss of identity.
- Divorced men are more likely to suffer from poor diet, substance abuse, and other risky behaviors compared to married men.
- Newly divorced men may rush into new relationships or be afraid to start dating again, depending on how their marriage ended.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
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If you’re struggling to cope with a divorce, speak with a counselor or therapist about focusing on your mental health. Interact with your support network regularly and keep up self-care activities that address both your emotional and physical well-being.Thanks
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References
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/the-differences-in-divorce-for-men-and-women
- ↑ https://www.unhappymarriage.info/why-divorce-is-harder-for-men-than-women/
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/the-differences-in-divorce-for-men-and-women
- ↑ https://www.bonobology.com/alone-after-divorce-why-men-cant-cope/
- ↑ https://www.unhappymarriage.info/why-divorce-is-harder-for-men-than-women/
- ↑ https://www.unhappymarriage.info/why-divorce-is-harder-for-men-than-women/
- ↑ https://www.familylawsandiego.com/family-law-blog/2018/july/4-reasons-why-divorce-is-harder-on-men-than-wome/
- ↑ https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health
- ↑ https://dadsdivorce.com/articles/4-reasons-divorce-harder-guys/