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Capricorn men are ambitious, hard-working, and loyal. They can also be closed off and a little too serious and practical sometimes. Don’t worry though—with the right partner, a Capricorn man will open up and be super dedicated and loving. Below we’ve put together some tips to help you navigate a relationship with a Capricorn man so can keep him hooked and happy.
Have interesting conversations. This will help you to get beyond a Capricorn man's formal exterior and engage the quirky, charming man inside. Capricorn men often very reserved, witty and have a dry sense of humor, so spark up quiet, intelligent conversations.
Choose outings that make a good environment for conversations. Capricorns prefer quiet dinners out or at home. Avoid bringing him to a loud bar or party. He will just get bored or annoyed.
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Dress elegantly. A Capricorn man is very sensual, but his drive for social status and success will ultimately determine if he thinks of you as a potential partner. Avoid wearing clothes that are too tight or revealing. Dress in mature, conservative clothes. Pick out something you would wear to dinner with his parents.
You don't need to be a stunner to get his attention. Capricorns prefer intellect over beauty.
If you have glasses, wear them. They can make you seem more intellectual.
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Attend work functions. You are likely to find a Capricorn man at places where he can climb the ladder and better his social status. This means you aren't likely to find a Capricorn at usual dating spots like bars or night clubs. His idea of an exciting night out is very likely the company holiday party. Look for a Capricorn man at work-related events or networking conventions, or social events like a charity drive.
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Don't dig into his personal life. Capricorns have a suspicious nature. If you press him too hard for information, you will likely have a difficult time earning his trust. You will want to avoid prying about his past or other areas that are too personal if you haven't yet won his trust.
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Be patient. The first thing you have to learn in order to love a Capricorn man is to be patient. A Capricorn man will not give his love to just anyone. He will trust gradually as you show him that you are just as dedicated to commitment.[1]XResearch source
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Stick to your plans. If you have a date at a specific time, don't be late. A Capricorn man likes to make firm plans and seeks out dependable partners that will see things through. Breaking plans or changing things at the last minute without discussing it will likely frustrate him.
Be direct. If you need to tell him something and are not sure how to do so, get straight to the point. Don't talk in circles, tell him how you feel and why.
Capricorns like to be in charge, but will listen to reason. Instead of trying to get your way by arguing the loudest, have rational discussions when tough issues come up.
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Support his dreams and goals. Capricorns are very driven and will want a long-term mate to be supportive of his desire for success.[2]XExpert SourceTara Divina Vedic AstrologerExpert Interview. 20 November 2019. Discuss the future, and find out what sort of accomplishments he aspires to achieve. He will really appreciate it.
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Do not be insecure. Once you have earned the love of a Capricorn man, he will be a loyal partner to you. When he tells you that he loves you, you will see he truly means it.[3]XResearch source
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Notice the things he does for you. When a Capricorn does something for you, he is showing his affection. A Capricorn will not likely speak openly about his feelings and love for you, but he will show they care.
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Don't be surprised when he is working late. It likely isn't a sign that he is avoiding you or needs some space. Try to remember how driven he is to reach his goals. He will put duties and responsibilities ahead of his emotional needs. Capricorns tend to be workaholics, so you might have to compete with work quite often.
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Be honest. Capricorns usually have a lot of integrity. He expects a love interest will reciprocate the same kind of honesty. If you betray him, you may never be able to regain the same level of trust.
Make the first move. If you are just starting to get involved with a Capricorn man, you might need to act first to spark something physical. Since he likes to create friendships before getting involved in something more serious, you might have to take the initiative.
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Explore your sexuality together. A Capricorn man loves to be masterful in the bedroom. Try reading the Kama Sutra together and let him try to perfect new moves. This will keep him aroused.[4]XResearch source
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Let him dominate you in bed. Capricorn men like to take charge, so let him control things at first. Once you have satisfied his desire to conquer, then show him what you can do.
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This article was co-authored by Tara Divina. Tara Divina is a California-based Vedic Astrologer. Vedic Astrology, also known as Jyotish, is an ancient, sacred art of self-understanding and divination. With nearly 10 years of experience, Tara gives personalized readings that answer her clients' biggest questions about relationships, money, purpose, career, and other big life decisions. This article has been viewed 299,195 times.
Capricorn men can be slow to win over, but if you fall in love with one, be patient and nurture his dreams to bring out his best side! If things seem to be moving slowly when you first start dating a Capricorn man, be patient with him. Capricorn men often want you to earn their affections and trust, but once you’ve got it, they’ll be all yours. Try to be honest and dependable, which Capricorns really appreciate. For example, don’t make them jealous or turn up late to important events. They’re also ambitious and hard-working people, so try to support his goals and dreams for the future. For more tips, including how to dress to attract a Capricorn man, read on!
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Have interesting conversations. This will help you to get beyond a Capricorn man's formal exterior and engage the quirky, charming man inside. Capricorn men often very reserved, witty and have a dry sense of humor, so spark up quiet, intelligent conversations.
Dress elegantly. A Capricorn man is very sensual, but his drive for social status and success will ultimately determine if he thinks of you as a potential partner. Avoid wearing clothes that are too tight or revealing. Dress in mature, conservative clothes. Pick out something you would wear to dinner with his parents.
Attend work functions. You are likely to find a Capricorn man at places where he can climb the ladder and better his social status. This means you aren't likely to find a Capricorn at usual dating spots like bars or night clubs. His idea of an exciting night out is very likely the company holiday party. Look for a Capricorn man at work-related events or networking conventions, or social events like a charity drive.
Don't dig into his personal life. Capricorns have a suspicious nature. If you press him too hard for information, you will likely have a difficult time earning his trust. You will want to avoid prying about his past or other areas that are too personal if you haven't yet won his trust.
Be patient. The first thing you have to learn in order to love a Capricorn man is to be patient. A Capricorn man will not give his love to just anyone. He will trust gradually as you show him that you are just as dedicated to commitment.[1]
Stick to your plans. If you have a date at a specific time, don't be late. A Capricorn man likes to make firm plans and seeks out dependable partners that will see things through. Breaking plans or changing things at the last minute without discussing it will likely frustrate him.
Be direct. If you need to tell him something and are not sure how to do so, get straight to the point. Don't talk in circles, tell him how you feel and why.
Support his dreams and goals. Capricorns are very driven and will want a long-term mate to be supportive of his desire for success.[2] Discuss the future, and find out what sort of accomplishments he aspires to achieve. He will really appreciate it.
Do not be insecure. Once you have earned the love of a Capricorn man, he will be a loyal partner to you. When he tells you that he loves you, you will see he truly means it.[3]
Notice the things he does for you. When a Capricorn does something for you, he is showing his affection. A Capricorn will not likely speak openly about his feelings and love for you, but he will show they care.
Don't be surprised when he is working late. It likely isn't a sign that he is avoiding you or needs some space. Try to remember how driven he is to reach his goals. He will put duties and responsibilities ahead of his emotional needs. Capricorns tend to be workaholics, so you might have to compete with work quite often.
Be honest. Capricorns usually have a lot of integrity. He expects a love interest will reciprocate the same kind of honesty. If you betray him, you may never be able to regain the same level of trust.
Make the first move. If you are just starting to get involved with a Capricorn man, you might need to act first to spark something physical. Since he likes to create friendships before getting involved in something more serious, you might have to take the initiative.
Explore your sexuality together. A Capricorn man loves to be masterful in the bedroom. Try reading the Kama Sutra together and let him try to perfect new moves. This will keep him aroused.[4]
Let him dominate you in bed. Capricorn men like to take charge, so let him control things at first. Once you have satisfied his desire to conquer, then show him what you can do.
"Actually, this article was confirmation, as it helped me to gain my patience with this Aries-Capricorn relationship I'm in. This article may have well saved my relationship. Aries women are so impatient, and this relationship is definitely working on my patience in this relationship. I feel in my heart that he is so worth my patience."..." more
