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    How can I look sexier for my boyfriend?
    Elle Monus
    Elle Monus
    Image Consultant
    Elle Monus is an Image Consultant and the Co-Founder of True Image Group. With over 11 years of fashion industry experience, she specializes in holistic approaches to branding, size-inclusive image consulting, and personal styling. Additionally, Elle has had the opportunity to work on several New York Fashion Week shows and has been featured in multiple media outlets, such as Racked.
    Elle Monus
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    Try making a special surprise for date nights, wearing a dress that shows a little more skin than you're used to. A full-on glam look usually works! Of course, you should gauge how much to show taking into account what your boyfriend enjoys.
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    How do I make myself look hotter?
    Elle Monus
    Elle Monus
    Image Consultant
    Elle Monus is an Image Consultant and the Co-Founder of True Image Group. With over 11 years of fashion industry experience, she specializes in holistic approaches to branding, size-inclusive image consulting, and personal styling. Additionally, Elle has had the opportunity to work on several New York Fashion Week shows and has been featured in multiple media outlets, such as Racked.
    Elle Monus
    Image Consultant
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    You could try changing your style. For example, if you're typically into a more classic look, you could experiment with a more glamorous outfit. Do this gradually, though, starting off with some accessories before committing to the change.
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    How do I dress up for my boyfriend?
    Elle Monus
    Elle Monus
    Image Consultant
    Elle Monus is an Image Consultant and the Co-Founder of True Image Group. With over 11 years of fashion industry experience, she specializes in holistic approaches to branding, size-inclusive image consulting, and personal styling. Additionally, Elle has had the opportunity to work on several New York Fashion Week shows and has been featured in multiple media outlets, such as Racked.
    Elle Monus
    Image Consultant
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    Ask them if there's anything that they would love to see on you and work that into your wardrobe over time. You're more than welcome to try that out and see if you get a response.
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    How can I show him how much I love him?
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    Just say how you feel about him. Describe how he makes you feel special. Tell him that you don't feel the same with all other guys in your life. Just be transparent. For more ideas, check out the helpful tips in this article about showing love to your boyfriend on wikiHow.
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    What if he doesn't like me for me?
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    Break up with him. He's clearly not the right person for you.
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    How can I be more confident around my boyfriend?
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    Know that he likes you for you. Smile. Poke fun, but be nice. Try to talk about him. Guys love talking about themselves.
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    How do I know if he really likes me?
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    Ask him. Don't be closed off and don't make anyone do it for you. This shows confidence, which is beautiful!
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    What should I say when my boyfriend kisses me and compliments my appearance?
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    You should thank him! You could also something like "That's so sweet of you!" Never deny his compliment by saying things like "No, I'm not pretty" or "I'm ugly" or "So and so is prettier."
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    How do I get smart and hot for my man?
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    Your man should already think that you are, but if you want to show it off, dress in something that will make you feel hot. Maybe hit a couple of books to up your knowledge on topics of your choosing. You never really should change yourself for a man. He should love you the way you are!
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    What should I talk about with my boyfriend?
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    You can talk about how your or his day went. Talk about what he's up to and his interests. Share funny stories of things that happened at school or work.
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    How do I get my boyfriend's attention with my looks?
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    He doesn't care what you wear or how you look. He loves you. But you could try a new style. Don't go big and brand new. It probably won't end well. He likes you for you right now.
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    A boy is snapchatting me a lot and he's cute, does he like me or does he want to be friends?
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    It could be either. Just play it cool, keep chatting with him, it will likely become more obvious what his intentions are.
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    How can I build my self esteem?
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    Just know that you are beautiful and don't let anyone bring you down. Look at yourself in a positive way, and your confidence will be boosted.
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    My boyfriend used to always tell me I'm ugly. What can I do?
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    Don't you listen to him. He is not worth your time or worry. If you let others talk to you like that you won't get anywhere. If you truly do feel insecure about how you look, take up a sport to make yourself fitter, naturally make your hair, nails and skin more attractive, look after yourself, show your beautiful assets and be confident. Keep your head up. Don't let anybody get you down!
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    How do I wear makeup?
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    Ask a friend to help you, but if they don't know how, there are plenty of YouTube tutorials you can watch.
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    I have a problem with my private area - people say it smells like fish. I'm 13. I do use mild soap and water to wash with and use baby wipes after peeing. What else can I do?
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    Ask your mom to take you to an OBGYN. Your doctor will make sure you don't have any kind of infection and may be able to suggest something helpful.
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    How do I stop my friend from getting to him first if she likes him too?
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    Unfortunately, you must both abide by the girl code: support one another even if you don't get the guy when it is a race. The first one to get him wins.
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    What can I tell him when he says he wants to kiss me?
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    If you're not ready for it yet, you have the right to say no. If you want to go ahead with it, then go for it. Be bold while making your decision and think twice about it before taking any action (so you don't regret it later).
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    If I am a child what type of clothing should I wear?
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    Wear not what shows off the most skin, but what completely shows who you are. If your boyfriend doesn't appreciate it, then it's his problem.
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    What if my boyfriend doesn't want me for my looks?
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    Then your relationship is probably better for it. It means he sees something in your personality that he's attracted to. You should still put some effort into your appearance, or he might start to think you don't really love him, but it clearly isn't the most important aspect of the relationship.
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    He's a year older. What if I think he's cheating, and when I ask he says no, yet I feel like he's lying? What do I do?
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    Well it is good that you go with your instinct, but I would just keep an eye out to see if he is doing anything weird. Don't be a stalker, just pay attention. Then if he is weird dig a little bit deeper into it, like whenever he goes out just ask him where he is going and if he is hanging out with other girls try to hang out with them. Or don't go, then sneak over after to see what he's doing.
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    My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and it seems to me he doesn't notice me as much as before. Is there something I can do to maybe get him to notice me more again?
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    You could get a new hair cut, put on something bold on for your next date, or experiment with your make up. Also, just talk to him about it and let him know how you're feeling.
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    I am going on my first blind date, so I want to look perfect. What should I wear?
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    For a first impression, wear something that makes you feel beautiful, not just look nice. If you wear something that makes you feel good, you will be more confident and relaxed, which should relieve a little bit of the stress of a blind date. Everyone is different and likes different things, so be yourself!
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    We've been together 4 years. He is working and I'm studying, we barely have time for each other. I don't want to break up, but I say I do so he'll reassure me when he pulls back. Is that healthy?
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    No, it's not healthy. It sounds like you're both uncertain about this relationship, and it might be best for you both to move on. If you want to stay together, try to make more time for each other, even if it's just checking in by phone or text a couple of times a day. Don't tell him you want to break up just to get his attention, instead tell him how you truly feel, i.e., "I miss you and I feel like I'm not getting enough of your attention, and I'm worried about the future of our relationship."
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    If my boyfriend ignores me, and he say that he doesn't have much time to spend with me, what can I do to get his attention?
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    He may have other things going on (e.g. work, family, friends, etc.) that you should recognize and respect; he does have other priorities besides you. On the other hand, he might just not want to spend time with you. If he doesn't want to talk to you and completely (or mostly) ignores you, and/or doesn't want to try to compromise, this relationship probably isn't going to work out and you should end it now.
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    If I want to propose to him, what should I do?
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    If you want to propose, then go ahead and do it! You don't necessarily need a ring. Just make a romantic moment, and tell him what's in your heart.
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    How can I make my boyfriend love me more?
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    Be yourself around him.
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    How do I look sexy in front of my boyfriend?
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    Try wearing more revealing clothes that show off the best parts of your body. Wear a modest amount of makeup that highlights your best features. Be flirtatious, and make excuses to touch him.
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    My boyfriend finds it difficult to express his emotions and open up. How can help him do this?
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    Just be direct. Tell him that you'd like him to be more open about his feelings. Remind him that you love and support him no matter what. Remember that we live in a society that tells men they should keep their feelings hidden away, so try to be patient with your boyfriend.
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    My boyfriend always complains that I need to work out more and stop being lazy, but when I met him I weighed more then I do know. I'm not fat, why does he say this?
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    This sounds like verbal abuse, to be honest. He's trying to undermine your confidence so that you're dependent on him, or just because he wants to make you feel bad for some reason. Either have a talk with him and tell him these comments need to stop, or just find a better boyfriend.
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