Q&A for How to Treat a Scorpio

He will remain loyal to you. Unless you fail to be loyal to him.

It is said that this is particularly strong character trait of Scorpios, a need to be private and to keep confidences. This can work in your favor if you tell such a person something secret and never want it divulged. Of course, it can be frustrating too, if they refuse to tell you something you really need to know, especially about themselves. Learn to manage it by making your boundaries clear as to when you will and won't accept secretive behavior; they'll respect you for being honest and clear.

Remember that your perspective may be colored by your own preferences and a need for this person to do things your way. If this person is getting on your nerves, examine your own attitude first before considering they need to change.

It is usually a good idea to let a person who is angry have some space first, to give that person the opportunity to calm down. Most likely if he or she is hard to talk to after something upsetting, then time is needed for thinking and processing what has happened. Suggest the two of you get back together again a few hours later to talk things through and show that you clearly respect their need for some thinking time.

It is likely that you have had a bad experience with someone you consider to be a Scorpio. This doesn't mean that all people are mean or that even someone who is mean sometimes is always mean. Look for the good things in the people you think are behaving meanly. And if they really are being mean, call them out on it nicely, but also firmly, in a way that makes it clear you won't tolerate negative behavior or words.

If you are born on or between the dates of October 24 and November 22, you are a Scorpio.