This article was written by Kateri Berasi, PsyD and by wikiHow staff writer, Eric McClure. Dr. Kateri Berasi is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the Founder of Transcendent Self, PLLC, a group therapy practice offering affirmative, collaborative, and intentional care, based in Brooklyn, New York. With over ten years of experience in the mental health field, Dr. Berasi specializes in working with adults from the LGBTQIA+ community and creative industries through individual therapy, couples counseling, group therapy, and costume therapy. She holds a BA in Psychology, Art History, and French Language and Literature from George Washington University and an MA and MEd in Mental Health Counseling from Columbia University. Dr. Berasi also holds a PsyD in Clinical Psychology from Long Island University.
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If you want to quit crossdressing (wearing clothes intended for the opposite gender), we’ll help you achieve that goal. However, you may not want or need to quit, especially if your behavior is simply an articulation of how you feel. A lot of crossdressing enthusiasts get down on themselves because society has a way of shoving people into boxes, but that’s all the more reason to defy those boxes in the first place by ignoring them entirely. So, if you want to quit, we’ve got you covered. If you want help navigating how you feel, well…we’ve got your back there too.
This article is based on an interview with our licensed clinical psychologist, Kateri Berasi, founder of Transcendent Self, PLLC. Check out the full interview here.
Things You Should Know
- Crossdressing is completely harmless and if you want to continue crossdressing, it’s totally okay.
- If you do want to quit, focus on other hobbies, stay busy, and give away any crossdressing clothes to avoid the temptation.
- Resist the urge to feel bad about not conforming to traditional gender norms. There’s nothing wrong with who you are.
Steps
Expert Q&A
Tips
References
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- ↑ https://www.glamourboutique.com/male-to-female-transformation-tips/how-to-overcome-the-crossdresser-purge-and-binge-cycle-122428
- ↑ https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/healthyliving/Physical-activity-how-to-get-active-when-you-are-busy
- ↑ https://www.glamourboutique.com/male-to-female-transformation-tips/how-to-overcome-the-crossdresser-purge-and-binge-cycle-122428
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- ↑ https://shepherdexpress.com/lifestyle/sexpress/husband-crossdresser-d2/
- ↑ https://www.drkarenruskin.com/are-all-cross-dressers-gay-transgender-is-it-a-sexual-fetish/
- ↑ https://www.yalsa.ala.org/jrlya/2020/02/its-okay-to-be-confused-lgbtqai-teen-novels-as-sexuality-and-sexual-health-information-resources/
- ↑ https://anunslife.org/blog/nun-talk/how-do-nuns-deal-with-sexual-urges
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/disorders/gender-dysphoria-symptoms
- ↑ https://www.taylorfrancis.com/books/mono/10.4324/9780367853563/spectrums-shakespearean-crossdressing-courtney-bailey-parker
- ↑ https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/gender-dysphoria/symptoms/