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You texted your crush or new S.O. hours ago, but still no reply. Should you double text them, and if so, how long should you wait? Double texting, or sending someone another text before they reply to the first one you sent, can be complicated according to experts. There’s more to it than you might think, and when you should (and shouldn’t) double text may surprise you. To help you navigate this tricky texting situation, we asked relationship experts what they recommend. Keep reading to learn everything you need to know about sending that follow-up text.
Is Double Texting Bad?
Texting again after someone texts you back usually isn't a good idea. It can make you come across as clingy, which can be a turn-off at the beginning of a relationship. Instead, wait at least 1 day, then text something lighthearted like “Just had the strangest experience at the coffee shop by my place 👀”
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