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Chatting is easier than ever these days with your friends, family, and that special someone only a click away! Texting can get complicated, though, especially when someone sends you a slew of emojis or a even a single emoji as a reply. What do they mean and how do you respond? No need to worry because we’ve compiled a list of great ways you can respond to a variety of emoji texts.

This article is based on an interview with our professional dating coach and licensed social worker, Julianne Cantarella. Check out the full interview here.

Replying to Emoji Comments

  1. Respond with emojis that express your thoughts and feelings.
  2. Reply with how their emoji made you feel.
  3. Send them a reaction GIF or meme.
  4. Respond with a simple “LOL” or “OMG.”
  5. Ask them to explain what their emojis mean.
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Send a few emojis back.

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  1. This is a great way to be playful, flirty, or funny. Mirror the sender’s message with your own string of emojis to express your thoughts and feelings. Toss in some humor and be lighthearted with your response—as long as you’re comfortable of course![1] Check out the meaning of these common emojis and pick one that fits your mood:[2]
    • 😃 (Grinning face with big eyes): “I’m really happy for you!”
    • 😂 (Face with tears of joy): “That’s hilarious!”
    • 😕 (Confused face): “Uhhh, what?”
    • 🥺 (Pleading face): “Aww, pwetty pwease?”
    • 🙃 (Upside-down face): “Whoops” or “Yikes!”
    • 😑 (Expressionless face): “Alright, I’ve had enough.”
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Flirt back with a frisky emoji of your own.

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  1. When you’re having a flirtatious conversation you’re comfortable with, the best way to respond is with a mirror tone that’s quick witted, and obviously flirtatious.[4] Have fun and see where the conversation goes! Here are some flirtatious emojis and their meanings:[5]
    • 😉 (Winking face): The winky face is just like a wink IRL—they’re flirting!
    • 😏 (Smirking face): Implying an innuendo or something sexual.
    • 😜 (Winking face with tongue): A wink with a little more spice.
    • 🍑 (Peach): This is usually a sexual innuendo. It can also mean a booty call.
    • If you’re uncomfortable in any way while texting, make it known by responding with, “That’s making me feel uncomfortable,” or, “I feel like I need to get to know you better before we start talking like that.”[6]
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Ask them to elaborate.

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  1. Maybe you sent them a long text about everything that went wrong in your day, or you asked them how they’re doing. No matter the situation, a single emoji text can come across as rude. Let them know you want an actual answer that leaves no room for misinterpretation by being upfront about it. Try responding with these open-ended questions:
    • “What do you mean by that? ”
    • “Can you tell me what that means?”
    • If you’re annoyed by their response, that’s understandable! Simply ignore the text if you don’t even want to ask.
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Be honest if you don’t understand.

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  1. Everyone has different meanings for emojis, so some things can get lost in translation and that’s okay! Ask them what they mean so you can both be on the same page.[7] The best thing you can do is ask, and who knows? Maybe you’ll learn something new! Here are some emojis with more explicit meanings:[8]
    • 😏 (Smirking face): A risque wink.
    • 😈 (Smiling face with horns): “Let’s get dirty.”
    • 🦴 (Bone): “Do you want to…?”
    • 🌶️ (Hot pepper): “It’s getting hot in here!”
    • If the meaning behind the emoji makes you feel uncomfortable, let them know that. Be soft but direct when telling them you’re uncomfortable.[9]
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Let the conversation end if there's nothing more to say.

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  1. An emoji could mean that they don’t know what else to say. Take the hint and let the conversation end. You can always pick back up tomorrow with a new topic! For example, you don't need to text them back if:
    • They respond with a “😊 (Smiling face with smiling eyes)” after you sent them a thinking-of-you text.
    • They send a “😂 (Face with tears of joy)” after you sent them a funny picture or story.
    • They send “👍🏽 (Thumbs up)” after a long text chain.
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References

  1. Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
  2. https://www.scienceofpeople.com/emojis/
  3. Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
  4. Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
  5. https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/love-digitally/201806/why-do-we-flirt-text
  6. Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
  7. Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
  8. https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/six_tips_for_reading_emotions_in_text_messages
  9. Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.

About This Article

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This article was written by Julianne Cantarella and by wikiHow staff writer, Aly Rusciano. Julianne Cantarella is a Dating Coach, Certified Life Coach, Licensed Social Worker, and the CEO and President of New Jersey's Matchmaker. With over a decade of experience, she specializes in helping women heal from a heartbreak and create healthy long-term relationships. Julianne created a comprehensive transformational date coaching program From First Date to Soulmate™ that has helped hundreds of women find love. She holds a Bachelor of Social Work (BSW) from Ramapo College of New Jersey and a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Fordham University. Julianne has contributed to numerous media such as Your Tango Online Magazine, 24Seven Wellness Magazine, and Talk of The Town Magazine. She has also been featured as a relationship expert on CBS, iHeartRadio, and PBS “This Emotional Life Project.” This article has been viewed 286,043 times.
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