PDF download Download Article PDF download Download Article

Can't stand the French exchange student's constant talking? Feeling liked you're being harassed as a tourist in Paris? Don't worry — the French language is full of many colorful ways to ask the person who's bothering you to kindly shut up. These phrases range from delicate and polite to raunchy and offensive, so knowing a wide range will ensure you have the perfect response for every occasion.

Method 1
Method 1 of 2:

Using Not-So-Polite Phrases

PDF download Download Article
  1. This phrase is pronounced "tay-twah." Use a long ay sound (as in "hay") for "tais" and a short 'o' sound (as in "rock") for "toi." The approximate meaning is "shush" or "hush."[1]
    • This phrase, as well as the other ones in this section, can be considered rude depending on how they're used. "Tais-toi" isn't too offensive, but it's not very polite. It can be outright insulting if you use it angrily or you use it for an authority figure like a parent, teacher, or boss.
  2. This phrase is pronounced "tehzay-voo."[2] Use a long ay sound (as in "hay") for "tais" an 'a'-like sound for "sez", and a long 'u' sound (as in "stool") for "vous." The approximate meaning is "be quiet."[3]
    • This is another moderately rude way to say "shut up" in French. Again, in some contexts it may be used in a friendly way. However, if you say it with a hostile feeling or you use it for someone you should be respectful towards, it will come across as rude.
    • Because this phrase uses the "vous" pronoun, you can use it when you're talking to groups of people as well as single individuals.
    Advertisement
  3. This phrase is pronounced "fairm tah boosh." Use a long a sound (as in "ray") for "ferme." Don't pronounce the final 'e' in "ferme." Use a short o sound (as in "rock") for "ta" and use a long 'u' sound (as in "stool") for "bouche." The meaning of this phrase is "shut your mouth."[4]
    • This phrase is almost always considered rude. The only situations when it might be laughed off is when you are using it jokingly with friends or family.
  4. If you're not worried about being offensive, you might try using this crude (but effective) phrase to get someone to shut up. This phrased is pronounced "tah gool." Use a short o sound (as in "rock") for "ta" and a long 'u' sound (as in "stool"). Don't pronounce the final e in "gueule."[5]
    • Be careful with this phrase. This is basically the most insulting way you can tell someone to shut up in French. You may hear good friends use it with each other, but it is not something you will want to use in "polite" company.
  5. Advertisement
Method 2
Method 2 of 2:

Utilizing Politer Alternatives

PDF download Download Article
  1. This phrase is pronounced "tayzay-voo, seel voo play." Use a long a sound (as in "ray") for "taise" and "plaît," a long L 'u' sound (as in "stool") for "vous," and a long 'e' sound (as in "bee") for "s'il." The approximate meaning is "be quiet, please."[6]
    • Here, notice that we're using the semi-formal "vous" pronoun again. This word is used when you're addressing someone formally (speaking to someone important or older than you). It's also used for speaking to groups of people.[7]
    • If you wanted to say this to someone you're close to, like a friend or family member, you might say "tais-toi, s'il te plaît," ("tay-twah, seel-tuh-play") which is derived from the informal tu pronoun.
  2. "Silence" is spelled the same way as the English word and means the same thing, but its pronunciation is different. This phrase is pronounced "Seelahnce, seel voo play." Use a long 'e' sound (as in "bee") and a short o sound (as in "rock") for "silence." The 'n' in "silence" should be very delicate — just barely articulate it. "S'il vous plaît" is pronounced the same way as above.
    • This phrase is useful for the sorts of situations that you'd use "silence" for in English. For instance, if you're a teacher trying to get the attention of a group of students so that you can begin a demonstration, you might try using this phrase.
  3. Another way to ask someone to be quiet semi-politely is to use this phrase. This is pronounced "see voo play, swa-yah trhahnkeeluh." "S'il vous plaît" is pronounced the same way as above. Use short e sounds (as in "bed") for both syllables of être. Use a short 'o' sound (as in "rock") and a long 'e' sound (as in "bee") for "tranquille." The approximate meaning is "please make yourself quiet."
    • The French 'r' sound you'll use in this phrase is a little tricky for English-speakers to master. You want to make a very light, "airy" 'r' sound by raising the back of your tongue to the top of your mouth without stopping the flow of air completely. This can take a little practice.
  4. This phrase is pronounced "calmay-voo, seel voo play." Use a short a sound (as in "apple") for the first syllable of "calmez," then a long a sound (as in "ray") for the second. "Vous" and "s'il vous plaît" are pronounced the same way as above. The approximate meaning is "calm down, please."
    • This phrase is useful when you're trying to get someone to be less loud but you want to avoid directly asking them to be quiet. For instance, if you're at a restaurant and you're worried that you're about to get kicked out because your friend is causing a scene, you might try this.
  5. Advertisement

Community Q&A

Search
Add New Question
  • Question
    How do I say "You are mean"?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    If you were speaking to a boy, you would say, "Tu es mechant." If you were speaking to a girl, you would say, "Tu es mechante." To an adult, you would say, "Vous etes mechant."
  • Question
    How do I say, "Not nice"?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    You can say "c'est pas gentil."
  • Question
    How do I say, " I dislike you"
    CredlyCrab
    CredlyCrab
    Community Answer
    It would be "Je ne t'apprécie pas" (I dislike you), or "Je ne t'aime pas" (I don't love you).
Ask a Question
200 characters left
Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered.
Submit
Advertisement

Tips

  • You can make any of the "shut up" phrases above even ruder by adding French insults and swear words. They aren't listed in this article, but you can find a very comprehensive list here.
  • Literally 'la gueule' refers to the mouth of an animal. It means "your mouth" (only that you have an animal's mouth). That is why you should never say this unless you are itching for a knuckle sandwich.
Submit a Tip
All tip submissions are carefully reviewed before being published
Name
Please provide your name and last initial
Thanks for submitting a tip for review!
Advertisement

Warnings

  • Just like in English, asking someone to shut up in French can be considered very rude, especially if you use the cruder phrases above. Be aware of this. When in doubt, always use a politer option, such as "please be quiet" (or "taise-vous, s'il vous plaît").
Advertisement

About This Article

Lorenzo Garriga
Co-authored by:
French Translator & Native Speaker
This article was co-authored by Lorenzo Garriga. Lorenzo is a native French speaker and French language connoisseur. He has many years of experience as a translator, writer and reviewer. He is also a composer, pianist, and globe-trotter, who has been travelling the world on a shoestring for almost 30 years with a backpack. This article has been viewed 136,235 times.
18 votes - 97%
Co-authors: 18
Updated: September 2, 2024
Views: 136,235
Categories: French Phrases
Article SummaryX

While it’s not very polite to tell someone to “Shut up” in any language, if you need to tell someone to be quiet in French, try saying “Tais-toi,” pronounced “Tay-twah.” This is similar to saying “Shush” or “Hush.” For a more polite way to ask someone to be quiet, say, “Taisez-voi, s’il vous plaît,” which is pronounced “tayzay-voo, seel voo play.” This is the equivalent of saying, “Be quiet, please.” For less polite ways to say “Shut up,” keep reading!

Did this summary help you?

Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 136,235 times.

Reader Success Stories

  • Anonymous

    Anonymous

    Jan 5, 2017

    "It was good and it helped."
Share your story

Did this article help you?

Advertisement