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You’ve been chatting with this guy for a little while, but you’re getting some pretty weird vibes from him. Are you just overthinking things, or is the new man in your life a genuine creeper? We’ve got your back. Keep reading for red flags and warning signs that this guy is bad news. Even if he doesn’t match up with the signs on this list, don’t be afraid to follow your gut—your sense of comfort always comes first, and you deserve to be around people who make you feel safe and at ease.
This article is based on an interview with our licensed psychologist, Sarah Schewitz, Psy.D. Check out the full interview here.
Steps
Community Q&A
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QuestionI’ve been dealing with with a guy who’s been a bit of a creep around me and when I confronted him about it he said “weird luck”. What would likely be the best call of action from there?RockdagreatlifelovinalphaCommunity AnswerCall the police. He sounds insane. Distance yourself from him as much as you can.
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QuestionSo there is this boy I have a crush on. He literally stares at me too much and whenever I am on a specific location, he always tends to be there. Is he a creep?RockdagreatlifelovinalphaCommunity AnswerHe is a creep and is stalking you. You should not have a crush on him. Call the cops.
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QuestionI have an ex that is a gay crossdresser, but he's stalking me, and I simply don't get it. If he's interested in men, why doesn't he just go away?Community AnswerIf he's stalking you, call the police. That's illegal.
Tips
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Don’t be afraid to walk away or ask for help if you ever feel unsafe with a guy. If you’re out in public, you could ask a bartender or waiter for help getting away.[14]Thanks
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Feel free to unmatch and block any guys who give you creepy, unsettling vibes. Your sense of safety and comfort is worth far more than their personal pride![15]Thanks
Warnings
- Don’t be afraid to call the police if a guy is stalking you and invading your personal privacy.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/domestic-abuse-how-to-spot-relationship-red-flags/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/cutting-edge-leadership/201404/5-secret-powers-eye-contact
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/nonverbal-communication.htm
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sexual-futurist/202103/never-date-man-who-doesnt-have-any-real-friends
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/domestic-abuse-how-to-spot-relationship-red-flags/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/trust-yourself/202207/how-handle-difficult-conversations-gracefully
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202209/9-things-that-can-make-a-man-seem-creepy
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/domestic-abuse-how-to-spot-relationship-red-flags/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/social-instincts/202209/9-things-that-can-make-a-man-seem-creepy
- ↑ https://www.teendvmonth.org/resources/signs-teen-dating-violence/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-athletes-way/201512/5-polite-ways-to-disarm-rude-people
- ↑ https://www.rainn.org/news/early-warning-signs-dating-violence
- ↑ https://ncadv.org/signs-of-abuse
- ↑ https://www.rainn.org/articles/online-dating-and-dating-app-safety-tips
- ↑ https://www.rainn.org/articles/online-dating-and-dating-app-safety-tips
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