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Sweet and snuggly ways to cuddle in bed and on the couch
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Whether you’re feeling stressed, anxious, or just a little distant from your partner, you’re probably in the mood for a good snuggle. There’s no right or wrong way to snuggle with someone, but there are a few positions that have stood the test of time. Take a look through our list of snuggling positions to pick a few out for your next cuddle sesh.

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The Spoon

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  1. If you want to be “big spoon,” rest your stomach against your partner’s back and wrap your arms around them. If you want to be the “little spoon,” push your back into your partner’s stomach and let them hold you.[1]
    • This is a classic snuggling position that most people know how to do instinctively. It lets the big spoon feel like a protector, while the little spoon gets to feel loved and cared for.
    • Typically, whoever is taller will be big spoon and whoever is shorter will be little spoon. Feel free to mix it up however you’d like, though!
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    How do I know when to stop snuggling?
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    When your boyfriend/girlfriend says, "I do not want to snuggle" or tries to get some space. Snuggling in moderation is great, but too much can be suffocating.
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    How long should I snuggle for exactly?
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    There is no specific time limit. As long as you and your partner are comfortable, you can snuggle for as long as you want.
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    How do I get rid of the feeling (probably butterflies) in my stomach when I try to snuggle?
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    It will go away on its own after a bit. You will get more comfortable with this and you will feel happy and excited instead of nervous. Just snuggle a bit more and you will feel better.
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This article was co-authored by Imad Jbara and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth. This article has been viewed 1,137,920 times.
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If you want to snuggle, ask your partner to sit down, then offer to get them a drink or a snack to make sure they’re comfortable. Invite them to take off their shoes or get under a blanket if you have one, then sit as close to them as you comfortably can. Play with their hands or their hair, or find other ways to initiate physical contact, then shift so that either your arms are around your partner or their arms are around you. Use pillows to get comfortable if you need to, and enjoy a movie together or just talk to each other. If you want to learn how to snuggle yourself or with a pet, keep reading!

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