How to Take Care of Relaxed African Hair

Co-authored by Ndeye Anta Niang

Last Updated: October 23, 2022 Approved

To take care of African hair, the most important element is moisture. You want to keep your hair hydrated and conditioned as much as possible. To do this, apply leave-in conditioner and natural oils to your hair every day. You can also wash your hair with conditioner instead of shampoo. For best results, wash and deep condition your hair once a week, apply a protein treatment once a month, and relax your hair after 8-16 weeks. With some maintenance and patience, you can easily take care of your relaxed hair!

Part 1

Part 1 of 3:

Washing Your Hair

Download Article

1
Wash your hair 1-2 times a week to prevent excessive dryness. African hair should not be washed every day. To preserve your natural oils and prevent breakage caused from dryness, wash your hair about 1 time a week.^{[1]
X
Research source}
- If your hair is greasy or your scalp is itchy, you can wash your hair more than once a week. This is just a guideline.
2
Detangle your hair with your fingers when you are in the shower. Instead of using a brush or a comb, get major tangles out of your hair with your fingers. As your hair is wet, comb through it with your fingers and separate the strands with any knots or tangles. Start from the ends of your hair and work your way up the strands. Detangle your hair before you apply shampoo or conditioner.^{[2]
X
Expert Source

Ndeye Anta Niang
Hair Stylist & Master Braider

Expert Interview. 10 January 2020.}
- If your hair is very knotted, apply your shampoo or conditioner first. This lubricates your hair and makes it easier to untangle. In addition, you can use a wide-tooth comb to help untangle it. Only use this if you have to.
Advertisement
3
Try washing your hair with conditioner instead of using shampoo. Shampoos are often too harsh for African hair. To wash your hair yet still provide moisture, use conditioner instead! Apply a generous amount to your hair after you completely wet it, and work the conditioner through your hair with your fingers. In addition, rub the roots of your hair with the conditioner to cleanse your scalp. Finally, rinse your hair thoroughly after 1-3 minutes.^{[3]
X
Research source}
- If you don’t want to use conditioner as your shampoo, ensure you use sulfate-free shampoo. Sulfates in shampoo often strip your hair of natural oils, which help prevent breakage.
4
Use a deep conditioning treatment 1-2 times a week. Apply a generous amount from root to tip after you wash your hair. Let the conditioner sit on your hair for 15-45 minutes. For best results, wrap your hair in a plastic shower cap. Rinse the conditioner out completely after it sits on your hair for a while.^{[4]
X
Expert Source

Ndeye Anta Niang
Hair Stylist & Master Braider

Expert Interview. 10 January 2020.}
- Applying a deep conditioner prevents hair breakage by infusing your hair with intense conditioning ingredients.
- Your hair can be damp or dry when using deep conditioner.
- For a deeper treatment, sit under a hair dryer after you put on the shower cap. The heat will help the conditioner penetrate your hair deeper.
- Look for deep conditioners for chemically treated or relaxed hair with ingredients like coconut oil, argan oil, aloe vera juice, and honey.^{[5]
  X
  Research source}
5
Apply leave-in conditioner and natural oils to your hair while it is damp. After you get out of the shower, use a generous amount of leave-in conditioner and apply it to all of your hair from root to tip. Then, squeeze a quarter-sized amount of a natural oil into your hands, rub your palms together, and run it through all of your hair. Your hair will soak up the leave-in conditioner quickly, so don’t be afraid to cover the strands!^{[6]
X
Research source}
- Your hair needs moisture to keep its elasticity and resist damages, especially after you relax it.
- For best results, use a water-based leave-in conditioner. Look for ingredients including aloe vera and glycerine as well.

Part 2

Part 2 of 3:

Protecting Your Hair

Download Article

1
Use natural products instead of alcohol or synthetic ingredients. Hair products with harsh ingredients will strip your hair of any natural oils and cause excessive dryness. To prevent this, always use natural ingredients, like coconut, jojoba, or argan oils. These are best for African hair.^{[7]
X
Expert Source

Ndeye Anta Niang
Hair Stylist & Master Braider

Expert Interview. 10 January 2020.}
- Shop for products at beauty or health food stores.
- You can also use products specifically made for African hair.
- Avoid products with petroleum or petrolatum.
2
Be gentle with your hair at all times to avoid damages and breakage. Your hair follicles are fragile after you relax them, so you always want to handle your hair with care. When you apply product, wash your hair, or brush your hair, treat it as if each strand is made of gold. Brush your hair gently, and run your fingers through your hair slowly rather than aggressively.^{[8]
X
Research source}
- For example, when combing your hair, you can remove the brush from your hair at the ends, rather than combing all the way through.
- In addition, you can use wide-tooth combs or brushes rather than brushes with firm, hard bristles.
3
Wrap your hair in a silk scarf to keep it protected while you sleep. Wrap your hair around your head following its natural shape, and then place a silk scarf across the top of your head. Gather the ends of the scarf at the back of your head, and secure the scarf with 2 knots to keep it in place. Then, twist the ends of the ponytail several times so it does not come undone. Pull the end of the scarf across your forehead, and tuck it underneath the scarf near your eyebrow.^{[9]
X
Research source}
- Silk scarves provide a soft buffer between your hair and your pillowcase. This prevents breakage caused by moving your head in your sleep.
- This also saves you time in the morning! If you wrap your hair, it will stay straight and tangle-free as you sleep.
4
Use heating styling tools sparingly. Frequent use of flat irons and curling irons eventually leads to hair dryness and damages. Use them as minimally as you can, and always use the lowest heat setting if you do decide to use them.^{[10]
X
Research source}
- Using styling tools occasionally is okay, just make sure to use a heat-protectant serum or spray first.
5
Create protective hairstyles to avoid breakage. There are countless options for protective hair styles! To find a protective hairstyle, search online and pick out some style ideas. For a simple solution, pull your hair back into a sleek ponytail, and secure a hair tie around your hair at the base of your neck. After 1 or 2 weeks, you can find a stylist to give you all over braids, rope twists, or cornrows.^{[11]
X
Research source}
- These styles keep your relaxed hair protected from damages while giving you a stylish, elegant look.
- You can create a board on Pinterest, for example.

Part 3

Part 3 of 3:

Maintaining Hair Health

Download Article

After you relax your hair, your ends will be extremely dry. You can easily snip them off yourself or get a trim at a salon. Routinely trimming your ends keeps your hair healthy, removes split ends, and revitalizes the follicle. For best results, get a haircut every few weeks.^{[12]
X
Research source}
2
Get a protein treatment 1 week before your next relaxer treatment. In addition to regularly using leave-in conditioner and deep-conditioning products, invest in a repairing protein treatment. Protein treatments infuse the hair with rich nutrients, which reduces the amount of follicle damage and strengthens the hair. Search online for a salon near you that offers protein treatments, and call to schedule an appointment.^{[13]
X
Research source}
- It is best to get a protein treatment done by a professional. If you apply the protein treatment for too long or incorrectly, it can damage your hair even more.
- For best results, get a protein treatment about once a month.
3
Reapply your relaxer after 8-16 weeks. It may be tempting to touch up your roots as they grow in, but if you can fight the temptation, wait 2-4 months in between your relaxer treatments. This keeps your hair as healthy as possible and prevents hair damage in between treatments.^{[14]
X
Research source}
- Applying straightening chemicals to your hair can lead to damage, breakage, and potentially permanent hair loss.
- You may want to relax your hair more frequently if your hair grows very quickly or if you have short hair. It is best to wait as long as possible if you can!
4
Avoid using chemical hair dyes. Your hair is already processed, and using additional chemicals to change your hair will damage it further. Rock your natural hair color instead!^{[15]
X
Research source}
- In addition, avoid bleaching your hair. This uses harsh chemicals that will over-process your hair.

Expert Q&A

Search

Add New Question

Question

How long do you have to wait to wash your hair after a relaxer?

Laura Martin
Licensed Cosmetologist
Laura Martin is a Licensed Cosmetologist based in Milledgeville, Georgia. She has been working as a hair stylist since 2007, and began a career as a cosmetology teacher in 2013. She worked as a teacher at Arrojo Cosmetology School, teaching cosmetology practices, hairstyling, and hair color application. She also brought her cosmetology expertise to her work as a staff writer for fashion blog Style Noted, writing pieces related to hair and fashion. She received an MFA in Creative Writing from Georgia College & State University, where she was also an English Teaching Fellow. Additionally, she received a BA in Creative Writing and Literature from New York University.

Laura Martin

Licensed Cosmetologist

Expert Answer

You should wait at least a few days for best results. However, waiting a week is ideal.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 13 Helpful 24
Question

How long do you have to wait between relaxers?

Laura Martin
Licensed Cosmetologist
Laura Martin is a Licensed Cosmetologist based in Milledgeville, Georgia. She has been working as a hair stylist since 2007, and began a career as a cosmetology teacher in 2013. She worked as a teacher at Arrojo Cosmetology School, teaching cosmetology practices, hairstyling, and hair color application. She also brought her cosmetology expertise to her work as a staff writer for fashion blog Style Noted, writing pieces related to hair and fashion. She received an MFA in Creative Writing from Georgia College & State University, where she was also an English Teaching Fellow. Additionally, she received a BA in Creative Writing and Literature from New York University.

Laura Martin

Licensed Cosmetologist

Expert Answer

Eight weeks is standard for a retouch. You do not want to reapply a relaxer to an area that has already been relaxed; it is very likely to cause breakage.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 6 Helpful 32
Question

What does it mean for your hair to be relaxed?

Laura Martin
Licensed Cosmetologist
Laura Martin is a Licensed Cosmetologist based in Milledgeville, Georgia. She has been working as a hair stylist since 2007, and began a career as a cosmetology teacher in 2013. She worked as a teacher at Arrojo Cosmetology School, teaching cosmetology practices, hairstyling, and hair color application. She also brought her cosmetology expertise to her work as a staff writer for fashion blog Style Noted, writing pieces related to hair and fashion. She received an MFA in Creative Writing from Georgia College & State University, where she was also an English Teaching Fellow. Additionally, she received a BA in Creative Writing and Literature from New York University.

Laura Martin

Licensed Cosmetologist

Expert Answer

Relaxed hair has been chemically straightened. The chemicals break the bonds in the hair, relaxing the curl pattern.

Thanks! We're glad this was helpful.
Thank you for your feedback.
If wikiHow has helped you, please consider a small contribution to support us in helping more readers like you. We’re committed to providing the world with free how-to resources, and even $1 helps us in our mission. Support wikiHow
Yes No

Not Helpful 4 Helpful 21

See more answers

Ask a Question

200 characters left

Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered.

Submit

Tips

If you can, get your hair relaxed by a professional stylist. This ensures you use the best relaxing products possible and that the relaxer is applied and processed correctly.^{[16]
X
Research source}

Thanks
Helpful 3 Not Helpful 1