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Whether you want to contact a deceased loved one, get in touch with a spirit guide, or just want to do something spooky with your friends, there are plenty of ways to talk to ghosts and spirits as long as you keep an open mind. For this article, we interviewed psychic Jennifer McVey to give you all the best tips on how to talk to spirits and protect yourself during communication. Plus, find out why people might want to communicate with spirits and get answers to other common questions.
How do I contact spirits?
Try meditating to connect with the spirits and write down any messages you receive in that state, or directly ask the spirit to send you a sign. Or, use a divination tool like a Ouija board, pendulum, or even tarot cards to ask the spirit questions. It may help if you have a dedicated altar to do spirit work.
Steps
Protecting Yourself While Talking to Spirits
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Make sure you’re in a calm and clear-headed mindset. In order to successfully contact spirits, it’s important to have a clear mind and focus on your intention. Determine a specific connection you want to make (like contacting your spirit guide, for example) and try to get rid of distracting thoughts through meditation, breathwork, or another calming method. If you don’t feel open to listening to what the spirits have to say, don’t force it and try again when you’re in the right mindset.[13]
- Avoid using alcohol, drugs, or any other mind-altering substances, as these can affect your judgment. If any of your friends are under the influence, don’t let them participate in the session, either.
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Protect your psychic and spiritual energy. If you try to contact the spirit world, you may come into contact with malevolent entities. Therefore, it’s important to strengthen your mind against negative energies before attempting to talk to spirits. For example:[14]
- Offer a prayer to the universe. While praying, ask for protection against malevolent spirits.
- Visualize yourself as a column of white light that spreads throughout the room. This visualization will dissuade negative entities.
- Use protective crystals (like black tourmaline or clear quartz) or herbs (like lavender or chamomile) to ward off negative energy.
- Mentally express an interest in communicating with positive spirits to draw them to you.
- McVey suggests saying an affirmation like "Only my highest good comes to me."
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Burn sage or sage incense. Sage is an herb known for its aura-cleansing properties. If you’re worried about the presence of malevolent spirits, burn some sage bundles or sage incense before contacting the spirit world. The sage will remove negative energies from the room and dissuade any unwanted visitors.[15]
- Sage incense can be bought online or at specialty herbal supply stores. This is a good option if you can’t obtain or burn actual sage herbs.
- Keep in mind that if you choose to burn sage bundles rather than incense, white sage is part of a closed Native American practice. Use another type of sage unless you’re of Native American descent.
- Some believe it’s better to burn sage after contacting the spirits, as burning it beforehand may make them more hesitant to talk to you.
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Stay calm and ask respectful questions. If you’re not sure how to talk to ghosts, think about how you’d talk to someone you just met. Introduce yourself and explain who you are. Avoid making demands or asking questions that may be offensive. Stick to basic questions at first, like “What’s your name?” and “How old are you?” Use a calm tone throughout the session and speak as you normally would—don’t try to use “old timey” speak, as this is unnecessary and may offend the spirits.[16]
- It’s also usually appropriate to ask ghosts why they’re there and how they feel. If they seem angry or intimidating, it’s okay to end the session.
- In general, most people recommend that you don’t ask ghosts about God or religion or when you will die. It’s usually better to base your questions around the spirit rather than focusing on yourself or your future.
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Don’t feed into fear. If you’re scared of ghosts and struggle to get over that fear during the session, it may actually attract negativity or spirits you don’t want to talk to. Take a deep breath and remember that you’ve already put up a protective barrier, through prayer, visualization, or another method. Remember, the spirits you want to talk to will not harm you.[17]
- This doesn’t mean to always ignore your fear altogether, however. Follow your instincts and trust your gut.
- If you’re too scared, it’s okay to end the session. Don’t force yourself to do something that makes you uncomfortable.
EXPERT TIPSpiritual DirectorJennifer McVey is a Spiritualist, Seer, and the Spiritual Director of Spiritual Answers and Solutions. With more than 22 years of experience, she specializes in manifesting, ghosts and spirit attachments, hypnotherapy, channeling, and spiritually based life coaching. Jennifer has also published 13 Affirmation Image and six Word Search Puzzle books in spirituality and self-help and has produced over 600 audio sessions.Jennifer McVey, Cht
Spiritual DirectorIf you're scared of ghosts, ask yourself where the fear comes from. If you ever find yourself terrified of something, always ask yourself what you're actually afraid of. Sometimes, when you're terrified of ghosts, you might actually be picking up on the ghost's feelings more than your own.
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Thank the spirits when you’re done talking to them. No matter which communication method you use, it’s important to show respect to the spirits. Thank them for their time, politely ask them to leave, and tell them goodbye. This closes the connection with the spirit world to ensure the spirits won’t linger. Thanking them shows them respect so they won’t become angry and try to mess with you or harm you. It may also make positive spirits more likely to talk to you again in the future.[18]
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Cleanse your space after the session. This will help remove any spiritual energy that may remain. Choose your preferred cleansing method; using rosewater, incense, or the smoke of a purifying herb like sage are all common. It may also help to cleanse and energize your own aura by soaking in a Himalayan salt bath, as well.[19]
What Should You Know Before Trying to Talk to Spirits?
Community Q&A
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QuestionCan dogs see spirits?Community AnswerSome people believe that dogs can see spirits. This is impossible to prove. However, if your dog avoids a certain part of the house, you may be living with a spirit.
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QuestionHow do I know there's a spirit nearby?Community AnswerHave a dog. Dogs can sense spirits because of the higher frequency of sound that the spirit gives off.
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QuestionShould I call spirits at night or during the day?Community AnswerYou can call them at any time. However, it's best to call them during the day because you will be less afraid. Fear can invite negative energy.
Tips
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Remember, spirits are not always honest. They could try to trick you, so take their answers with a grain of salt.Thanks
Tips from our Readers
- Spirits cannot do anything unless you allow them. Do not be afraid. They are dead. You are alive. You have a body. You live in the physical realm. They do not. They have no power, so don't let them trick you into thinking anything else.
- You don't need fancy equipment to talk to spirits. Apps sometimes work, and trust your gut and body (chills, bad feeling, touch, etc).
Warnings
- Many psychics discourage the use of Ouija boards as they can invite negative spirits into your home.Thanks
- Never use a Ouija Board alone. Having other people with you will deter malevolent spirits from messing with you.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.shamanlinks.net/shaman-info/the-spirit-world/talking-to-spirits/
- ↑ https://www.teenvogue.com/story/how-to-talk-to-ghosts
- ↑ https://theothersidetv.ca/ghost-hunting-resources/ghost-hunting-tips-tricks/8-ways-spirits-communicate-living/
- ↑ https://www.brown.edu/Departments/Joukowsky_Institute/courses/13things/9789
- ↑ http://www.strangerdimensions.com/2015/06/09/5-signs-your-ouija-board-session-has-gone-horribly-wrong/
- ↑ http://psychiclibrary.com/beyondBooks/pendulum-dowsing/
- ↑ https://www.shamanlinks.net/shaman-info/the-spirit-world/talking-to-spirits/
- ↑ https://mysteriousdestinationsmagazine.com/ghost-hunting-101-flashlight-sessions/
- ↑ https://www.earthwitchery.com/scry.html
- ↑ https://theothersidetv.ca/ghost-hunting-resources/ghost-hunting-tips-tricks/dowsing-rods-investigation/
- ↑ https://www.britannica.com/topic/automatic-writing
- ↑ https://theothersidetv.ca/ghost-hunting-resources/equipment/spirit-box/
- ↑ https://www.teenvogue.com/story/how-to-talk-to-ghosts
- ↑ https://www.teenvogue.com/story/how-to-talk-to-ghosts
- ↑ https://mindyogasoul.com/how-to-cleanse-your-space-energetically/
- ↑ https://www.teenvogue.com/story/how-to-talk-to-ghosts
- ↑ https://www.shamanlinks.net/shaman-info/the-spirit-world/talking-to-spirits/
- ↑ https://www.teenvogue.com/story/how-to-talk-to-ghosts
- ↑ https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/how-to-cleanse-your-home-of-negative-energy
- ↑ https://yougov.co.uk/society/articles/21446-who-are-people-communicate-spirits
- ↑ https://uwmpost.com/columns/tales-third-eye-spirit-guides
- ↑ https://yougov.co.uk/society/articles/21446-who-are-people-communicate-spirits
- ↑ https://www.britannica.com/topic/paranormal
- ↑ https://theothersidetv.ca/ghost-hunting-resources/ghost-hunting-tips-tricks/8-ways-spirits-communicate-living/
- ↑ https://www.keen.com/articles/psychic/what-is-the-difference-between-spirit-guide-and-angel
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