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So you're planning on moving, but you haven't broken the news to your roommate yet. Telling your roommate you're moving out can almost feel like a breakup, but it doesn't have to be the end of your friendship if you don't want it to be. If you're nervous about this potentially awkward conversation, this article is here to help. We've got the best tips on how to handle this conversation so that you can address your move without hurting your roommate's feelings. That way, you can find a better living situation while remaining on good terms with your (soon-to-be-former) roommate.
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Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow can I make moving out less stressful?Michael Dickerson, PsyDMichael Dickerson is a Clinical Psychologist with over 6 years of experience working in college counseling. He specializes in anxiety, OCD, and men's mental health. Michael holds a BA in Psychology from California State University, Sacramento and a Doctor of Psychology (PsyD) from The Wright Institute in Berkeley CA.
Licensed Clinical PsychologistTry breaking it up into smaller, more manageable steps. Getting started on a small step will help you keep up your motivation.
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If your roommate starts to make you feel uncomfortable, politely excuse yourself.[7] Say, "This is making me uncomfortable, so I'm going to my room."Thanks
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Before you move, read over your lease/rental agreement to ensure you avoid any extra moving costs or fees.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.realestate.com.au/advice/5-ways-to-break-up-with-housemate/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-friendship-doctor/201011/when-youve-co-signed-lease-the-roommate-hell
- ↑ https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-2000-may-28-re-34896-story.html
- ↑ https://www.realestate.com.au/advice/5-ways-to-break-up-with-housemate/
- ↑ https://hellogiggles.com/break-up-with-your-roommate/
- ↑ https://hellogiggles.com/break-up-with-your-roommate/
- ↑ Michael Dickerson, PsyD. Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Expert Interview. 3 August 2021.