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Budgies (or parakeets) are highly intelligent little birds that make fabulous companions. But budgies don’t communicate and emote in the same ways as other pets, like cats and dogs. It takes some close observation and a trained eye to tell if your feathery friend is happy and bonding with you. That’s why we compiled a handy guide of positive and negative behaviors and vocalizations to watch out for, as well as simple ways to get you and your budgie on the path to being great pals.
Things You Should Know
- Watch for the most obvious signs of an affectionate budgie, like cuddling or preening you, as well as tail wagging.
- Look for more subtle signs that indicate general comfort, like self-preening, singing, and a relaxed or slightly puffed-up posture while dozing.
- Give your budgie a little space if they growl, pant, fan their tail feathers, or bite you when you approach.
Steps
Helping Your Budgie Bond with You
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Make sure your bird's physical needs are met. A happy and loving budgie starts with taking proper care of them. Always be sure that your bird has a dish of ample, clean drinking water, and be sure to feed them by keeping their food dish full of fresh birdseed formulated for budgies.[20]
- For a complete and balanced diet, make sure your bird has access to seeds, grains, beans, vegetables, nutritious pellets, and occasional fruit.
- Also provide your budgie with cuttlebones, which offer them calcium and a way to grind down their beak.
- Never give your bird chocolate, avocado, salty foods, garlic, onion or any human snack foods.[21]
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House your budgie in a roomy enclosure away from disturbances. Your bird views their cage as a home within your home. Without a secure home, they won’t ever drop their guard or be affectionate. Ensure their cage is big enough, with plenty of enrichment, and away from threatening things like other animals, loud noises, or erratic foot traffic.[22]
- Budgie cages should be at least 14 in (36 cm) deep, 16 in (41 cm) tall, and 17 in (43 cm) wide, but even larger cages are recommended.
- Also keep the cage away from direct sunlight and out of reach of small children.
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Give your budgie plenty of toys to keep them amused. Budgies love to play and need plenty of mental stimulation. Providing your bird with fun, challenging toys will make them happy and content.[23]
- Install budgie-specific perches in their cage at varying heights to give them lots of verticality and room to explore. You might also consider installing a swing for a fun, moving perch.
- Get your budgie toys that are safe to chew on in a variety of shapes and sizes. Look for toys with wooden components, or solid, sturdy beads that can be bitten and chewed.
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Interact with your budgie gradually, taking small bonding steps. A budgie’s trust needs to be earned slowly. Start by simply sitting quietly near their cage. Once they appear comfortable, offer them food or treats through the bars. Then, deliver treats through the open door of the cage. After, let your budgie explore the room outside the cage, while keeping a close eye on them.[24]
- While around your budgie, speak in a calm, soft voice to get them used to your presence.
- Avoid forcing your budgie to do anything they don’t want to, like stepping onto your finger. Pushing them only erodes their trust in you.
Expert Q&A
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QuestionWhy is my budgie all puffed up?Pippa Elliott, MRCVSDr. Elliott, BVMS, MRCVS is a veterinarian with over 30 years of experience in veterinary surgery and companion animal practice. She graduated from the University of Glasgow in 1987 with a degree in veterinary medicine and surgery. She has worked at the same animal clinic in her hometown for over 20 years.
VeterinarianFluffing up feathers traps pockets of air and keeps the bird warm. Budgies do this when cold, but it can also be a sign of ill health. -
QuestionHow can you tell the gender of a budgie?Pippa Elliott, MRCVSDr. Elliott, BVMS, MRCVS is a veterinarian with over 30 years of experience in veterinary surgery and companion animal practice. She graduated from the University of Glasgow in 1987 with a degree in veterinary medicine and surgery. She has worked at the same animal clinic in her hometown for over 20 years.
VeterinarianThe color of the budgie's cere (the 'figure-8' spectacles at the base of the beak) gives a clue to an adult budgie's gender. Males have a blue cere, while females are usually browny-cream. -
QuestionWhy is my budgie bobbing its head?Pippa Elliott, MRCVSDr. Elliott, BVMS, MRCVS is a veterinarian with over 30 years of experience in veterinary surgery and companion animal practice. She graduated from the University of Glasgow in 1987 with a degree in veterinary medicine and surgery. She has worked at the same animal clinic in her hometown for over 20 years.
VeterinarianHead bobbing can mean a variety of things. Males head bob as part of a courtship ritual, while young birds may learn to head bob to get food. Some birds head bob as a territorial behavior.
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Tips
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When your budgie is not behaving the way you want it to, leave him or her alone for a few minutes and don’t reward bad behavior.Thanks
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Never chase your budgie with your hand! Just calmly put your hand in the cage, near the door, and let your budgie get used to your presence.Thanks
Tips from our Readers
- Be sure you are setting aside a good chunk of your time to spend focusing on your bird. They are very smart and can become easily bored once they get comfortable in your home. Only talking to them for a few minutes each day can make them frustrated, but once you've invested the time and energy to get their trust, your budgie will spend more time amusing themselves.
- Let your budgie get to know their surroundings. If you have them in a safe room, you could let them fly freely for a little bit.
- Do not grab toys in your budgie's cage quickly because they could get scared and lose trust.
References
- ↑ https://mickaboo.org/resources/reading-bird-body-language
- ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yCxbguW71M&t=57s
- ↑ https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/bird-health-signs-sick-bird-avian-vet-care
- ↑ https://www.budgiecentral.com/budgie-behavior-meanings/
- ↑ https://mickaboo.org/resources/reading-bird-body-language
- ↑ https://mickaboo.org/resources/reading-bird-body-language
- ↑ http://www.peteducation.com/article.cfm?c=15+1795&aid=3334
- ↑ http://www.peteducation.com/article.cfm?c=15+1795&aid=3334
- ↑ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yCxbguW71M&t=62s
- ↑ https://mickaboo.org/resources/reading-bird-body-language
- ↑ https://resources.bestfriends.org/article/bird-handling-techniques-how-hold-bird
- ↑ http://www.peteducation.com/article.cfm?c=15+1795&aid=3334
- ↑ https://mickaboo.org/resources/reading-bird-body-language
- ↑ https://mickaboo.org/resources/reading-bird-body-language
- ↑ http://www.peteducation.com/article.cfm?c=15+1795&aid=3334
- ↑ https://mickaboo.org/resources/reading-bird-body-language
- ↑ https://mickaboo.org/resources/reading-bird-body-language
- ↑ https://mickaboo.org/resources/reading-bird-body-language
- ↑ http://www.peteducation.com/article.cfm?c=15+1795&aid=3334
- ↑ https://www.animalhumanesociety.org/resource/parakeet-budgerigar-care
- ↑ https://www.avianwelfare.org/shelters/pdf/NBD_shelters_feeding_birds.pdf
- ↑ https://www.avianwelfare.org/shelters/pdf/NBD_shelters_housing_birds.pdf
- ↑ https://www.animalhumanesociety.org/resource/parakeet-budgerigar-care
- ↑ https://www.parrots.org/ask-an-expert/trust-building-with-a-budgie
About This Article
To tell if your pet budgie likes you, start by observing its body language and noticing if it’s wagging its tail, flapping its wings in place, or bowing its head, as these are indications that it likes you. If your bird gently mouths you with its beak, it’s likely a sign of affection. Additionally, if your bird hangs upside down in your presence, it means that it’s happy and feels safe around you. Then, listen for the bird to talk, sing, or whistle when you walk into the room, since budgies are vocal around people they like. To learn more from our Veterinary reviewer, like how to get your budgie to like you, read on!
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