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“That’s so nice of you” is a thoughtful phrase that expresses appreciation for kind words or actions. Used as a compliment, it can strengthen your relationship with the other person and make them feel good. In this article, we’ll explain everything you need to know about the phrase “that’s so nice of you,” including what it means, whether it’s grammatically correct, how to respond to it, and other ways to say it.
“That’s So Nice of You” Meaning
“That’s so nice of you” is a phrase that shows gratitude for someone’s kind words, actions, or behavior. Use it as a compliment to thank someone for their thoughtfulness or generosity. If someone says it to you, respond with “I’m happy to help,” “It’s the least I could do,” “Thank you for noticing,” or “Just doing my part!”
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Oftentimes, “That’s so nice of you” is a warm and genuine phrase to show gratitude, but it can be used sarcastically, depending on context. Consider the situation and the tone of the other person to determine whether they’re being sincere.
- If they have an emotionless or overly exaggerated voice, for example, it could be sarcastic. If it comes after you’ve done something that isn’t very helpful, it could also be meant sarcastically. Pay close attention to the timing, delivery, and follow-up behavior of the person who says it.[3]
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According to etiquette coach Tami Claytor, “you want to be very specific” when thanking someone. Explaining why you’re grateful is more meaningful than a simple “thank you,” so you might want to include what the other person did or said. For example, you could say “That was so nice of you to look over the slides.”Thanks