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If you’re a big manga or anime fan, you’ve probably heard the phrase “tsuki ga kirei desu ne,” Japanese for “The moon is beautiful, isn’t it?” It’s a lovely saying, but what does it really mean? The answer is fascinating—and has roots in Japanese literature and pop culture. This article will tell you everything you need to know about this phrase, including what it means, where it came from, and how to reply if someone ever says it to you.

Things You Should Know

  • “The moon is beautiful, isn’t it?” could mean “I love you” in Japanese. It can be used to express romantic feelings indirectly, which is the norm in Japanese culture.
  • The most popular response is “Shin demo ii wa” (I can die happy), which is a way of saying “I love you too.”
  • You can also reply with “Sou desu ne” (It’s true, isn’t it?), which hints that you feel the same way, or “Anata mo utsukushii” (So are you) to be more flirtatious.
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“The moon is beautiful, isn’t it?” Meaning

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  1. It’s meant to express love indirectly, since in Japanese culture it’s sometimes considered rude to directly state your feelings or needs. Instead of saying “Sorry, I can’t make it to your party,” for instance, a more appropriate reply would be, “That would be a little inconvenient for me.”[1] Likewise, saying “I love you” might be too direct, so you might say “tsuki ga kirei desu ne” (The moon is beautiful, isn’t it) instead.[2]
    • The phrase is a kind of “code” or secret sign of affection. Not all Japanese people know it, but those who do will know what you’re trying to say.
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How to Respond

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  1. This could mean “I love you, too,” and it’s the most popular response. You could say this to convey very strong mutual love. While it’s indirect and a bit dramatic, they’ll know what you’re really saying.[3]
    • Remember that “ii” is pronounced “e,” as in “she.” The sound lasts for two syllables, so you should stretch out the sound a bit as you say it: “eeee.”[4]
  2. This could mean “You’re right” or “I agree,” which could be a subtle hint that you feel the same way. The phrase “Sou desu ne” is a common Japanese expression, so any speaker would be familiar with it.[5]
    • “Sou” is pronounced as “Soh,” as in “Oh.” The “oh” part is stretched out, like “Sooooo.”[6]
  3. Say this if you want to be more direct. While a Japanese person may not normally say this, it might be less surprising to hear from a non-Japanese person.
    • The “ii” is a long vowel, pronounced like “sheeee.”
  4. Say this to turn someone down indirectly, but clearly. This implication is that they may want you, but they can’t have you.
    • Although this statement sounds blunt in English, the grammar in Japanese is respectful and polite.
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Where did this phrase come from?

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  1. One day many years ago, the story goes, Japanese writer Natsume Soseki was teaching English when a student translated the phrase “I love you” directly into Japanese. He replied, “Japanese people never say things like that shamelessly. You’d better translate it as tsuki ga kirei desu ne (‘The moon is beautiful, isn’t it?’).”[7]
    • This story is probably false. There’s no record that Soseki ever said this—but it’s become a popular tale, nevertheless.
  2. In anime and manga, a character might look at the full moon with the person they love and say “tsuki ga kirei desu ne.” This can convey romantic tension, especially if the speaker isn’t sure if the other person feels the same way. A good example is the romance anime Tsuki ga Kirei (translated as “The Moon is Beautiful), where the title is a direct reference to this saying.[8]
    • It’s also heard in the anime Demon Slayer, based on the manga of the same name.[9]
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This article was co-authored by wikiHow staff writer, Johnathan Fuentes. Johnathan Fuentes is a writer based in the New York City region. His interests as a writer include space exploration, science education, immigration, Latinx cultures, LGBTQ+ issues, and long-form journalism. He is also an avid hiker and has backpacked in Alaska and Newfoundland, Canada. A son of Cuban immigrants, he is bilingual in English and Spanish. Prior to joining wikiHow, he worked in academic publishing and was a freelance writer for science websites. He graduated from Columbia University in 2021, where he studied nonfiction writing and wrote for the student newspaper. He is currently counting down the seconds until the release of Kerbal Space Program 2 in 2023—a game that will almost certainly take up what little free time he has. This article has been viewed 1,753,518 times.
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