This article was co-authored by Maya Diamond, MA and by wikiHow staff writer, Eric McClure. Maya Diamond is a Dating and Relationship Coach in Berkeley, CA. She has 15 years of experience helping singles stuck in frustrating dating patterns find internal security, heal their past, and create healthy, loving, and lasting partnerships. She received her Master's in Somatic Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies in 2009.
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Dating apps like Tinder can be a great way to meet new people, but boy is it frustrating when you’re putting your best foot forward and still struggling to get matches. Tinder is a piece of software, and like any kind of software, there are plenty of ways to hack it for your benefit. In this article, we’ll walk you through all of the hacks you can use to game that code and improve the number of matches you get. We’ll also break down everything you should be doing with your profile and bio to draw people in and cultivate stronger connections.
Things You Should Know
- Use the app every day and swipe mindfully on each profile. This will keep your profile high up in the algorithm to give you more matches.
- Selecting a diverse set of solid photos is absolutely essential, so review your photos and get feedback from friends to look your best.
- If you aren’t getting matches, do not hesitate to radically change your profile and try something new.
Steps
How Do You Get More Matches On Dating Apps?
Expert Q&A
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QuestionShould I try to attract as many people as possible on Tinder?Maya Diamond, MAMaya Diamond is a Dating and Relationship Coach in Berkeley, CA. She has 15 years of experience helping singles stuck in frustrating dating patterns find internal security, heal their past, and create healthy, loving, and lasting partnerships. She received her Master's in Somatic Psychology from the California Institute of Integral Studies in 2009.
Relationship CoachWhen you cast a wide net for people, you can attract the wrong type of people to you. It's better to be honest about what you like and what you're looking for so you can find a person that really connects with you.
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Make your profile about your interests, lifestyle, and personality so people get the real you. You'll have better luck making a connection if you're open about yourself.Thanks
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Be honest about why you're using Tinder. That way, you'll connect with people who want the same thing you do, which increases your chances of success.Thanks
Tips from our Readers
- Once you've got someone in your DMs, try to meet up with them in person ASAP. You can never tell how much you vibe with someone through DMs only and meeting in person will help you figure out if you want to actually pursue something or not a lot faster. If you don't think you want to meet with someone after a bit of chitchatting, don't linger, just unmatch them and save time for you and them.
- I use Tinder Gold and it got me a lot more matches. Some people aren't fans of it, but I feel like it's saved me time and is worth the money. I now have a bunch of matches to sort through every week.
References
- ↑ https://www.vox.com/2019/2/7/18210998/tinder-algorithm-swiping-tips-dating-app-science
- ↑ https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/soloish/wp/2015/11/04/why-swiping-right-on-everyone-isnt-a-winning-strategy/
- ↑ https://www.vox.com/2019/2/7/18210998/tinder-algorithm-swiping-tips-dating-app-science
- ↑ https://social.techjunkie.com/connect-tinder-facebook-does-show/
- ↑ https://www.bizjournals.com/bizwomen/news/latest-news/2019/02/what-an-analysis-of-online-dating-profile-photos.html?page=all
- ↑ https://social.techjunkie.com/no-matches-on-tinder/
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7698559/
- ↑ https://thelatch.com.au/dog-in-dating-profile-picture/
- ↑ https://www.boredpanda.com/hilarious-tinder-bios/?utm_source=cse.google&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=organic
- ↑ https://www.engadget.com/tinder-adds-prompts-feature-to-kickstart-conversations-163059012.html
- ↑ https://www.boredpanda.com/hilarious-tinder-bios/?utm_source=cse.google&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=organic
- ↑ https://psiloveyou.xyz/the-insanely-simple-tinder-hack-that-got-me-20x-more-matches-c191902180ea
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2011/12/your-use-of-pronouns-reveals-your-personality
- ↑ https://www.therconline.com/life-hacks/tinder-hacks/2465/