This article was co-authored by Moshe Ratson, MFT, PCC. Moshe Ratson is the Executive Director of spiral2grow Marriage & Family Therapy, a coaching and therapy clinic in New York City. Moshe is an International Coach Federation accredited Professional Certified Coach (PCC). He received his MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Iona College. Moshe is a clinical member of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT), and a member of the International Coach Federation (ICF).
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It is important to know your roots. Much of our ancestral narrative is built through stories: your grandparents told your parents about the family history, and your parents may have passed some of these stories along to you. You may have not been told anything about your family history. No matter your starting point, read on to learn how you can better understand where you came from!
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Ask questions. Find out as much as you can about your family history. Look through old photo albums, and ask your family members what they know. Ask for the names of grandparents, great-grandparents, and other relatives, as far back as they can remember. Determine the names, locations, and timelines of the ancestors you want to know about.
- Make sure to get the exact spelling. Learn about any spelling changes that may have taken place over the years. Perhaps your ancestors changed their names when they moved to a new country or community.
- Family members can be the simplest way to the past. Do not assume that your parents, grandparents, and other relatives have already told you everything that they know. Older relatives may remember further back.
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Build on prior research. Find out whether your family has done any genealogy research before. Look for any existing (online or physical) documents that tell about your family. Also, look for pictures that can give you a sense of what life was like back when the photo was taken. Look for family trees, records, and research projects that might give you a solid starting point.
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Make a family tree to organize what you know. Start with yourself, and map out everything that you know about your family history. Trace the chain of ancestry backward through your parents, your grandparents, your great-grandparents, and beyond. Add birthdays, death dates, marriages, locations, and any other relevant information.
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Make a simple "direct route" list first. Branch into the past from you to your mother and father, then their parents, and then their grandparents By the time you list your great-grandparents, you already have 15 people on your "tree". To start your quest, find out as much as you can about those 15 people. Try running a simple web search.
- Find out when and where these ancestors were born.
- Note when these people married, and how many children they had.
- Figure out when and where these people died.
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Search the census records. Use the US Census online at Ancestry.com. Start with the most recent ancestors: find their names on each census, and work backward into the past. The online censuses are indexed – so if you put in the name and birthday, it may bring up the correct person along with other possibilities. As you start building the family tree, note the details that suggest other areas to search – e.g. someone's occupation.
- If your family member doesn't show up on the census, try editing the search. Add or remove words to clarify the results.
- Search for their maiden name as well as the married name of female ancestors. The census records may confirm or suggest a marriage date.
- Be aware that the spelling of names may have changed. Some ancestors may not have been able to read or write well, and they may have used uncommon spellings. Old censuses may indicate whether or not a person was literate.
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Narrow down your search results. After checking the census history, try a search of all records. It may help to narrow the records down to marriage and divorce, or immigration, or military. Search any census category that might include your ancestors. Try using tax and voter lists.
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Use naturalization papers. If your ancestors came from another country, you may need to look for their immigration and naturalization papers. Naturalization papers have two parts: the papers and the final application. Unless you have that second paper, you can't be sure they were naturalized. They could have waited several years between the two, and the final paper could be in a different courthouse – even a different part of the country. Use the census to trace where your ancestors lived, and look for naturalization records in those places.
- Consult the passenger lists of ships. If your ancestors immigrated across the sea, you might be able to figure out exactly when if you find their name.
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Track down physical records. If you know where your ancestors were married, go to that location (church, courthouse, etc.) and ask for access to their records. Marriage certificates often feature the names of the parents of the bride and groom's parents. This may be a useful clue to get you on track. See if the location was used for other ancestors, and look for their records as well.
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Find your ancestors' gravestones. If you know where your deceased relatives are buried or commemorated, visit the cemetery in person. Look for clues: birth and death dates, names that don't match your records, or other relatives buried nearby. Don't be afraid to travel to distant cemeteries if your ancestors lived and died in various places. You might find it valuable to physically trace your ancestry by making it a journey.
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Use baptism records to suggest birthdays. If your ancestors' church baptized children, look through the baptism records. If you don't know an ancestors exact date of birth, the baptism can help you approximate when a given family member was born. Most baptisms are done soon after birth. You should also be able to find marriage and death records in the church archives.
- Church records are not always complete. If the church is far from you, call before you travel.
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Explore online ancestry-research services. In most cases, you will pay someone to go out and research your family tree. You will need to provide as much relevant information as possible, including names, locations, dates, professions, and connections. This can be a great option if you don't have the time, energy, or inclination to do the legwork yourself.[1]
- Be careful. Some of these services are scams. Read reviews and inform yourself before you pay any money.
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Contact local ancestry research groups. Find out if there is a genealogy research group in your area, or the area where your ancestors lived. These groups may have some records of your family. Many of these societies are based online, although they may also keep physical records.
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Use free trials. Websites such as ancestry.com are build to find this sort of information, and their free trials can help you dive quickly into the past. Each trial gives you access to a large database for a short period of time. You will need to be motivated, and you will need to dedicate a brief and intense effort to your research. However, you might be able to learn a lot.
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Consider DNA testing.[2] There are a number of services that run saliva samples through lab tests to isolate hereditary genetic factors. You may be able to tell, for instance, that you have genes only found in a specific part of the world. These services are usually more expensive than paying someone to look through the records. For the price, however, you might be able to learn much deeper information.
Expert Q&A
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QuestionAre there any ways to trace my ancestry?Mari CartagenovaMari Cartagenova is a Psychic Medium & Animal Communicator based in Westford, Massachusetts. Mari has been seeing and speaking to Spirits since she was a child, and she loves to share her psychic gifts and abilities to help others. She specializes in mediumship, intuitive psychic guidance, past life or soul reading, and animal communication. Mari is the 2019 Award-Winning Best American Psychic and a Certified Advanced Spirit Worker.
Psychic Medium & Animal CommunicatorYou can also trace your ancestry in a spiritual sense, where you use techniques such as past life regressions or meditations to connect with your spirit guides and loved ones. Entering this meditative state allows you to focus on these guides and ask for insights about your lineage, such as where your family was five generations ago, etc. Also, consider seeking the help of a professional who offers past life regression services, which can help you explore the lives you or your ancestors lived centuries ago. Consulting with a spiritual advisor or medium can also facilitate communication with deceased loved ones, which can provide guidance and information about your family history. -
QuestionAre home DNA test results reliable?Community AnswerIt depends on the company, so you should do some research on DNA testing companies to determine which one is the most legitimate and reliable. Ancestry and 23andme are both considered reputable.
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QuestionHow can you find out where you are from easily?Community AnswerYou can buy a kit on ancestry.com. All you have to do is spit in a tube and send it back and they'll contact you with the results.
Tips
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If you are from Canada, visit AutomatedGenealogy.com. It is a site where volunteers have transcribed census records.Thanks
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If you are from Maine, search for marriages, deaths, military records, etc., at Maine GenealogyThanks
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Searching for your Iowa roots? IAGenWeb is the gateway to Iowa genealogy online.Thanks
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About This Article
With modern technology, tracing your ancestry has never been easier. Check census records on ancestry.com by searching your family’s names and working your way backwards. You can also pay for a DNA testing service, which uses saliva to see whereabouts in the world your ancestors are from. Alternatively, contact a genealogy research group online or in your local area, which can help you find your ancestors. If you want to make a family tree, ask your relatives about their families and look through old photos to help you piece it together. Ask them if anyone in your family has tried to make a family tree before so you can build on their work. For more tips, including how to find ancestors that came from another country, read on!