This article was co-authored by Brynne Zaniboni and by wikiHow staff writer, Raven Minyard, BA. Brynne Zaniboni is a Professional Photographer based in Los Angeles, California. With nearly 10 years of photography experience, Brynne is a Portrait, Fashion, and Music Photographer. Brynne is also the founder of Backroom Boudoir Photography, offering a range of boudoir shoots from birthday, to bridal, to maternity. She believes in the power of boudoir to celebrate every body and foster self-love and confidence. She has a Bachelor of Arts from California State University, Northridge.
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Boudoir photos are intimate, seductive photos taken to boost your confidence or give your partner a romantic surprise. If you’ve never taken boudoir photos before, the process can seem intimidating, but by working with the right photographer, you’ll be having a blast in no time. In this article, we’ll walk you through everything you need to know about boudoir photography, including what to expect from your session, what to wear, and the best pose ideas.
Things You Should Know
- Boudoir photos are taken by professional photographers and typically involve the client wearing lingerie and posing seductively.
- Anyone over the age of 18 can participate in a boudoir photoshoot, regardless of gender.
- Boudoir photographers will provide encouragement and posing tips to ensure you feel confident and comfortable.
Steps
What to Expect from a Boudoir Session
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Book your appointment. Your experience begins well before the actual boudoir photo shoot. Oftentimes, when you book your appointment, your photographer will reach out to discuss your vision for the session. They might set up a call or video chat or send you a questionnaire to help them understand what kind of photos, lighting, and mood you prefer. You’ll also determine if you’ll shoot at their studio or another location.[3]
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Meet your photographer and makeup artist. When you arrive at your session, your photographer will begin making you feel comfortable. They’ll likely be energetic and talkative to help ease any nerves you have, and they’ll walk you through what to expect from your day. You’ll then meet your makeup artist, who will help you choose how you want to be styled. Hair and makeup typically take 60 to 90 minutes, though this depends on the artist and session.[4]
- Because these photo shoots are intimate, the makeup artist will often leave before the photos begin. In most cases, it will just be you and your photographer on set.
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Decide which outfit to start with. Once you’re done with hair and makeup, you and your photographer will discuss your comfort levels to determine which outfit you’ll start in. Since clients are usually nervous, especially if it’s your first time, you’ll likely wear your least revealing option for the first few photos and change into more revealing sets as you get more comfortable.[5]
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Have your photos taken. Your photographer will likely ease you into the process by beginning with beauty shots. They’ll hype you up and talk you through everything to keep you comfortable. The photographer will help you with posing and may offer you props to use as well. The photo shoot typically takes about 2 hours, though this varies depending on the photographer and session.[6]
- If you feel uncomfortable, speak up. Boudoir photos are meant to help you feel confident, so you should be having fun during the session. Let your photographer know when you don’t like something so you can work together to find an alternative.
- Your photographer should always respect your boundaries. If you feel that your photographer is disrespecting you or ignoring your discomfort, don’t be afraid to end the session.
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Choose your favorite photos. Some boudoir photographers will let you view your photos on the day of the session. Together, you’ll narrow your selections down by choosing your favorite poses, lighting, and backgrounds. Your photographer will then edit the photos, and you’ll receive them when they’re done. The time frame for editing varies, so ask your photographer when you can expect them to be done.[7]
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Tip your photographer. Tipping is at your discretion, of course, but if you felt like your photographer provided excellent service, you can show your appreciation by giving them a tip. A tip is usually 10-20% of the total cost of the session.
Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow do I establish boundaries when doing a boudoir shoot?Brynne ZaniboniBrynne Zaniboni is a Professional Photographer based in Los Angeles, California. With nearly 10 years of photography experience, Brynne is a Portrait, Fashion, and Music Photographer. Brynne is also the founder of Backroom Boudoir Photography, offering a range of boudoir shoots from birthday, to bridal, to maternity. She believes in the power of boudoir to celebrate every body and foster self-love and confidence. She has a Bachelor of Arts from California State University, Northridge.
Professional PhotographerDiscuss expectations and boundaries before the shoot begins. Communicate with your photographer what poses, clothing, levels of nudity, or limitations you may have. Also, don't be afraid to express any discomfort that you may be experiencing during the shoot.
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