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You know that girl—the one all the boys want? That’s you after you finish reading this article. Figuring out what teen guys want is like unraveling a mystery, but we’ve cracked their code and are ready to help you turn heads. We’ve got all the answers about what teenage guys like in a girl. Keep reading for a list of their turn-ons, as well as how to avoid turn-offs.

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Confidence

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  1. Fortunately, you can fake it until you make it. Start by standing tall because good posture conveys confidence. Additionally, wear clothes that make you feel fabulous.[1] You'll also feel more confident if you remind yourself of your best qualities.[2]
    • Confidence makes you gorgeous, so don’t worry about things like your height, shape, or size.
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Charming Looks

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  1. Because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, there’s not one “look” that makes a girl attractive.[4] To look your best, highlight your best features and embrace what makes you unique.
    • It may help to have a morning and evening routine to help you look and feel your best. Make time to wash your face, brush your teeth, pick an outfit, style your hair, and, if you like, put on makeup.
    • Your body type really doesn’t matter as much as you might think.[5] The right guy for you isn’t going to care about your size or shape.[6]
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Flirty Behavior

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  1. Flirt by making eye contact and smiling when you see him. You might also wink or wave at him. When you talk to him, lean toward him, twirl your hair, and smile a lot.[11] Additionally, listen intently to what he’s saying and nod along so he knows you’re interested.[12]
    • He’ll also love getting compliments from you.[13] Make a point to tell guys when you like their outfit or to congratulate them on an accomplishment.
    • Reader Poll: We asked 700 wikiHow readers, and 63% of them agreed that playful banter is the type of teasing that’s the strongest indicator you have chemistry with a guy. [Take Poll]
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Curiosity

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  1. Pepper him with questions about his life, what he likes, and what his goals are.[14] Pay attention to what he says and ask follow-up questions. People love to talk about themselves! Here are some questions to get you started:
    • What do you like to do after school?
    • What clubs do you participate in?
    • What are your hobbies?
    • What’s your dream job?
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    What is the benefit of flirting?
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    Suzanna Mathews is a Dating and Relationship Coach and the Founder of The Date Maven. With over a decade of experience, she specializes in creating mindset tools, social strategies, and digital strategies that help her clients elevate dating and deepen connections. Suzanna holds a BA in Communications from Bethel College, North Newton, and an MA in Theater and Dramatic Arts from Wichita State University.
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    The core of flirting is simply playfulness. It is having fun and building a connection that may not lead anywhere. But it can make both the persons feel uplifted and make them smile. It can make them feel a bit better and enable them to have a good time.
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    How can you build your confidence?
    Suzanna Mathews
    Suzanna Mathews
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    Suzanna Mathews is a Dating and Relationship Coach and the Founder of The Date Maven. With over a decade of experience, she specializes in creating mindset tools, social strategies, and digital strategies that help her clients elevate dating and deepen connections. Suzanna holds a BA in Communications from Bethel College, North Newton, and an MA in Theater and Dramatic Arts from Wichita State University.
    Suzanna Mathews
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    Do not make an assessment based on looks. Maybe you have a good set of values, strong relationship skills, or a great personality. Not everyone possesses these qualities. Think about these assets and build your confidence.
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This article was co-authored by Suzanna Mathews and by wikiHow staff writer, Danielle Blinka, MA, MPA. Suzanna Mathews is a Dating and Relationship Coach and the Founder of The Date Maven. With over a decade of experience, she specializes in creating mindset tools, social strategies, and digital strategies that help her clients elevate dating and deepen connections. Suzanna holds a BA in Communications from Bethel College, North Newton, and an MA in Theater and Dramatic Arts from Wichita State University. This article has been viewed 75,788 times.
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