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Have you received a "WYD" message and now you're wondering what it means? Keep scrolling to read our complete guide on interpreting WYD on all platforms, including text and social media. We'll also explain how to reply to WYD and include examples so you can start using WYD, too!

WYD Meaning

“WYD” is a texting abbreviation for “what you doing” or “what are you doing.” It’s used to ask someone what they’re up to at the current moment, similar to “What’s up?” Or, it can be used rhetorically by someone who’s annoyed, e.g. “You left the door unlocked, wyd??”

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What does WYD mean in texting?

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  1. Typically, WYD is an informal way to start a convo with a friend or crush, similar to “What’s up?” The sender wants to know what you're actively doing right now. They may also be checking to see if you’re free to chat or hang out.[1]
    • You may see WYD with or without a question mark. Either way, WYD is always a question. The sender is expecting a response.
    • You might see WAUD or WUD (which also means “What are you doing?”) but these abbreviations are a lot less common.
    • When sending WYD through texting, the person is usually trying to keep it simple and act like they're not putting too much investment into the moment, even though they are reaching out.
  2. In this situation, the abbreviation is used by someone who’s annoyed or angry. WYD will appear sarcastically at the end of their scathing or judgy comment.[2]
    • "You left the door unlocked again, WYD?! 😩"
    • "You didn’t vote in the election? WYD with your life??"
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How to Use WYD

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  1. If you want to reach out via text or social media and see what they’re up to, WYD is a super easy way to do that.[5] Keep in mind that WYD is really informal, so you wouldn’t want to use it in an email to a teacher or manager. You might say:
    • "Hey Stefan! 👋 It’s been a minute. WYD?"
    • "WYD bestie?"
  2. Go this route if you want to make it clear immediately that you’re trying to make plans with the person. You could say:
    • "WYD? Wanna go bowling? 🎳"
    • "Hey, WYD today? Let's meet for lunch."
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How to Respond to WYD

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  1. Typically, WYD is a literal question, so if it's your bestie, just tell them what you’re up to! You don’t necessarily have to tell the truth if you don't like the person or you think they want something. If it's someone that's flirting with you, you could also try replying playfully. For example:
    • Your bestie: "haaaay WYD right now?"
      You: "Just listening to music and reading! 📚 🎶 HBU?"
    • Someone you’re avoiding: "WYD today?"
      You: "Super swamped with homework. TTYL"
    • Someone you're flirting with: "WYD?"
      You: "You know what I'm doing. 😉"
  2. If WYD is followed by an invitation, be sure to address that when you respond to the sender. For example:
    • Them: "WYD later? Let’s hit the mall."
      You: "K! 🎉 Meet you there in an hour."
    • Them: "Hey wyd, u free for lunch"
      You: "Can’t today, my sister is home from college so we’re chillin"
    • Guy on Tinder: "wyd girl"
      You: "😒 booty calls aren’t my jam bro"
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