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A guide to creating the most exciting and memorable 21st birthday experience
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Turning 21 is a big milestone, so it’s only natural that you’ll want to celebrate it in style! Coming up with the perfect activity can take some thought, but if you need help brainstorming ideas, you’ve come to the right place. Read on for a complete guide to 21st birthday activities, party themes, and celebration inspiration.

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  • Throw a party at home! Host a themed costume party, a slumber party, or a game night.
  • Go out and enjoy dinner or brunch with your friends. Visit attractions like an amusement park, a spa, a concert, or go on a road trip.
  • Do outdoorsy party activities like a picnic or scavenger hunt. Host a bonfire with lots of s’mores.
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Share a fancy dinner with friends.

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  1. Invite a group of friends you’d like to hang out with and make reservations at a restaurant for your birthday evening. Indulge and pick something fancy if you can afford it, or go to your favorite restaurant and get whatever you want.[1]
    • Try a tapas, fondue, or family dining restaurant—somewhere that will give you dishes that can feed a whole table of people rather than everyone ordering individually.
    • If you're having a big party and want catering, order everyone the same entre to save some cash. It'll be much cheaper than giving people an option.
    • You could also sign up for a cooking class and make the gourmet dinner yourself—with a couple of friends helping!
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Bring a picnic to the park or beach.

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  1. Maybe a celebratory meal sounds good to you, but you’re looking for a more creative venue. No problem! Find a picturesque park, a scenic viewpoint, or a beach where you and your friends can go for a picnic. Bring food, blankets, drinks, and even a tent if it’s going to be a sunny day.
    • Planning the picnic is easier if everyone brings something. Ask each guest to bring some food, and coordinate in a group chat to ensure nobody brings the same thing.
    • If you go to a park, you could turn a simple picnic into a whole field day! Play lawn games and outdoor team games like tug-of-war, capture the flag and relay racing.
    • When you're planning an outdoor party, always have a backup plan in case the weather is stormy.
    • Reader Poll: We asked 303 wikiHow readers what their go-to finger food is for a party, and only 10% of them said mini sandwiches and sliders. [Take Poll] However, sandwiches are usually a great idea for a picnic!
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Go on a pub crawl.

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  1. Lots of people choose to go out and drink at a bar for their 21st birthday—but what about a whole string of them? Turn your birthday into a pub crawl and pick a few different places you’d like to visit with your friends. Spend the night hanging out at each bar and sampling a drink or two before moving to the next.[3]
    • Make sure you have a designated driver or hire a driver to bring your group to each bar.
    • For some variety, try hitting up different types of bars! For instance, you might visit an Irish pub, a tiki bar, a lounge, a beer garden, or a bar with live music.
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Throw a costume party.

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  1. The sky’s the limit! In addition to costumes, be sure to get some themed decorations, snacks, and drinks for the occasion. Ensure your costume theme is broad enough to appeal to friends and family alike. You could make a couple of costumes or props for people who show up without them.
    • For example, you might throw a Y2K-themed party and have everyone show up in early 2000s fashion.
    • Other themes might include your favorite movie franchise, TV show, or game.
    • Themes can also be an aesthetic or time period, like “masquerade,” “Hollywood glamor,” or “disco”
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Host an old-fashioned slumber party.

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Do a game night with friends.

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  1. Pick a few of your favorite games, whether they’re board games, card games, video games, or a combination of all 3—and be sure to include some childhood favorites, too. Set out snacks and drinks for everyone, and spend the night gaming!
    • Classic games could include Twister, Pictionary, Monopoly, Clue, Settlers of Catan, and Jenga.
    • If you pick a video game, be sure to pick something multiple people can play at once. For example, you could have a Mario Kart or Super Smash Bros tournament.
    • You could also have a tabletop RPG (roleplaying game) night and do a session of your favorite RPG—like playing Dungeons & Dragons, for instance.
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    Ashton Wu is a Board Game expert at Shelfside. After delving into the Yugioh tournament community while growing up, Ashton launched himself into the board gaming community in 2014 and went into reviewing board games as a career full-time in 2019. His YouTube channel Shelfside has over 35K subscribers and over 4 million views, assisted by written reviews on the Shelfside website and BoardGameGeek.com. He also consults with gaming companies to build high-quality gaming products. Ashton is a tournament commentator, board game playthrough director, and host of the Shelfside Podcast, where he talks about board games with his business partner, Daniel. He received a Bachelor of Arts in Economics at the University of California, Santa Barbara, in addition to the Technology Management Certificate.
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    Want to plan the perfect game night? Start by locking down a comfortable location. Whether it's a game store, park, or your own home, choose a place where everyone can relax and have fun. If you're hosting at home, tidy up the space and make sure there's enough seating. And remember, board games are best played when sitting upright at a table, not on the floor!

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Treat yourself to a spa day.

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Rent a party bus.

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Visit an amusement park.

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Plan a bonfire.

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This article was co-authored by Seth Hall and by wikiHow staff writer, Glenn Carreau. Seth T. Hall (ICF ACC, CLC, and MNLP) is a Certified Life Coach and Founder of Transformational Solutions, a Los Angeles-based life-coaching company that helps people achieve their toughest goals, find their own voice, and think outside the box. He has been a life coach for over 10 years, specializing in personal development, relationships, career and finance, and wellness. He has helped his clients break the negative cycles in their lives and replace them with a positive, proactive mindset. Seth believes that everyone has the potential to live a fulfilling and rewarding life, and works passionately to help them reach their full potential. With a deep understanding of how our minds work and the power of positive thinking, he encourages his clients to find their unique paths in life and find success on their own terms. He is a certified master practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming, a featured co-author for WikiHow, and co-author of "The Mountain Method”, “The Happy Tiger”, and “The V.I.S.I.O.N.S. Program”. This article has been viewed 27,076 times.
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