This article was co-authored by Imad Jbara and by wikiHow staff writer, Danielle Blinka, MA, MPA. Imad Jbara is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a relationship coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingwoman services, 1-on-1 Coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. Imad services 100+ clients, men and women, to improve their dating lives through authentic communication skills. He has a BA in Psychology from the University of Massachusetts Dartmouth.
There are 12 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page.
This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources.
This article has been viewed 399,537 times.
Do you want the confidence to approach any woman? In this article, we’ll help you identify women who are interested in chatting with you and provide expert-backed tips on making the smoothest approach possible. We’ll also share the best ways to strike up a good conversation and how to ask her out on a date. Read on for our complete guide!
Steps
How Do I Approach a Girl I’m Interested In?
Expert Q&A
Video
Reader Videos
Tips
-
Just be yourself![15] Women are more impressed with someone who’s authentic and true to who they are.Thanks
-
Look your best so you project inner confidence. She’s more likely to be into you if you convey that you know your worth.[16] Wear clothes that make you feel attractive and maintain proper hygiene.Thanks
-
Interact with a stranger to warm up. Say “Hi,” give a high five, ask a question, or compliment them.[17]Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/nonverbal-communication.htm
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4839399/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/platonic-love/201908/the-secret-making-friends-adult
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4444068/
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/dealing-with-loneliness-and-shyness.htm
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/mental-health/laughter-is-the-best-medicine.htm
- ↑ Imad Jbara. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 22 September 2021.
- ↑ Patti Novak Williams. Professional Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 12 January 2021.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/insights-yet-unseen/202209/give-more-compliments-it-won-t-be-awkward-you-think
- ↑ Imad Jbara. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 22 September 2021.
- ↑ Patti Novak Williams. Professional Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 12 January 2021.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/let-their-words-do-the-talking/201607/5-nonverbal-clues-someone-is-interested-in-you
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/a-buoyant-life/202311/what-to-ask-on-a-first-date
- ↑ https://www.apa.org/monitor/2012/04/rejection
- ↑ Patti Novak Williams. Professional Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 12 January 2021.
- ↑ Patti Novak Williams. Professional Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 12 January 2021.
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/dealing-with-loneliness-and-shyness.htm
About This Article
If you want to approach women anywhere, know that it can be nerve-racking, but you should try and treat it just like how you would start a normal conversation with anyone else. Find excuses to talk to her by commenting on something interesting that’s happening or asking her a question. For example, you can say, “Do you know what song this is?” Make sure you’re being non-threatening by talking to her in a public, open area and respecting her personal space. Instead of ending the conversation by immediately asking her out, ask for her number so you can get to know her more. For more help, including how to read a woman’s signals when you're talking to her, scroll down!