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Whether he’s your partner, your crush, or just a friend, figuring out if a guy is sexually attracted to you can sometimes feel like a 1,000-piece puzzle. But even if he’s tough to read, there are some surefire behavioral and body language cues you won’t be able to miss. Read through our comprehensive list of signs to figure out if he’s harboring sexual feelings for you, as well as how you can send your own signals back.
This article is based on an interview with our licensed relationship therapist, Alysha Jeney, owner of Modern Love Counseling, and the co-founder of The Modern Love Box. Check out the full interview here.
Things You Should Know
- A guy might be sexually attracted to you if he makes flirty eye contact with you and can’t stop smiling around you.
- He might also like you if he touches you often and makes an effort to lean in close to you.
- A man is probably sexually attracted to you if you catch him staring at you or scanning your body up and down.
Steps
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