How to Attract and Win Over a Pisces Woman

Pisces girls (born between February 19 and March 20) are known for being empathetic, creative, and intuitive, and they also have a dreamy and mystical air about them. With qualities like these, it’s no wonder she’s captured your attention! Check out our complete guide on how to attract a Pisces woman, from wooing her to building a relationship with her. We’ve also included insights from expert astrologer Angel Eyedealism, so keep reading!

How to Attract a Pisces Woman

To woo and impress a Pisces girl, be chivalrous, romantic, and sensitive. Show her that you’re trustworthy and kind, and take the time to get to know her through meaningful conversations. To really win her over, appeal to her creative side and talk to her about the music, art, and literature she loves.

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Getting Her Attention

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Spark up conversations about music or art to capture her attention. Pisces women are known for being creative and artistic, so these things make great topics of conversation when you’re trying to get to know her. “Music is a huge thing with Pisces. Music and art and colors. So, for example, if a Pisces woman suggests that she really loves a certain song, or that she would like to find out her would-be lover’s musical interest, that would be a way into building intimacy with her,” Eyedealism explains.^{[1]
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- Keep in mind that Pisces women tend to be sweet, compassionate, and caring. She's not the type of girl you get with and drop!
- Additionally, most Pisces women won't want to move too quickly, so if you want it to last, start by getting to know her through conversation before you make your move.^{[2]
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Be polite and chivalrous. Pisces women want a partner who's traditional, romantic, and sweet.^{[3]
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- Pisces women are genuinely kind and want a partner who shares this quality, so make sure to be polite to everyone around—not just her.
- She won't tolerate it if you're the person yelling at the waiter or the one eating all the pizza but refusing to chip in. Manners are very important to her, so keep this in mind when you’re hanging out.
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Show her your sensitive side. Pisces women are full of warmth and compassion, and they’re looking for someone who can match this energy. “If a partner is very clinical and cold, that’s a total turnoff for a Pisces,” Eyedealism explains.^{[4]
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Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} So, when you’re around her, don’t be afraid to express affection or open up about your emotions. Vulnerability and sensitivity can really make a Pisces swoon!
- However, it’s also important to be yourself, rather than pretending to be someone you’re not. She has a keen eye for motivation and character, so if you fake it in front of her, she'll likely detect it.
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Start courting her properly. Eyedealism explains that dreamy, idealistic Pisceans look for storybook romance. “They love flowers, they love candlelight…just the trappings of romance,” she says.^{[5]
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Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} So, once you’re ready to officially start pursuing a Pisces woman, try winning her over with some classic romantic gestures. Love letters, sweet gifts, and kind words about how much you admire her will go a long way.
- Don't stop this once the relationship develops! If you courted her with flowers, chocolate, and love letters, be sure to keep this up. Romantic energy will spark the relationship and keep it going.
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When wooing a Pisces, it’s important to put out good vibes. Pisces is all about vibes, instincts, and feelings. If a Pisces catches a bad vibe or feels that you're aggressive or overbearing in any way, they'll run straight for the hills. They want a musician or poet, somebody who’s full of sensitivity and creativity.
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Be creative when planning dates. Eyedealism explains that Pisces are the dreamers of the zodiac, so “putting imagination or creativity into the wooing process is what will engage them.”^{[6]
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Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} So, if you’ve already gone on a few traditional dates and you’re looking for a way to take things to the next level, lean into your creative side and plan a super unique date night.
- For example, you could take her to a paint and sip event, where you’ll both get to create beautiful artwork. At the end of the night, you can switch paintings, so each of you has a meaningful memento from the other one.
- Or, if you’re already head over heels for her, you could plan a romantic scavenger hunt to officially ask her to be your girlfriend, complete with handmade clues at each stop.
- Either way, your willingness to be thoughtful and imaginative are sure to impress her!

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Building a Relationship

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Work to understand her personality as a water sign. Like all water signs, Pisces women are emotional, intuitive, and sensitive, and they're often ruled by feelings, rather than logic. They're also compassionate and understanding, mainly because they're so empathetic.^{[7]
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- She also flows like water — meaning she's highly adaptable, laid-back, and flexible. Present her with any situation, and she can morph to fit it.
- However, Pisces is also the sign of duality, explains Eyedealism.^{[8]
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  Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} This means she can also have mood swings and flow to each side of the emotional spectrum. Show her you can keep up!
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Let her get to know the real you. When a Pisces woman is in a relationship, “she really wants to merge with the other person” and explore every inch of their mind, says Eyedealism.^{[9]
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Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} She wants to hear about that one time you scraped your knee in 6th grade. She wants to know what your top ten favorite movies are, and why. She wants to sit down and talk to you all night about your deepest dreams and fears. Don't hold back! This is a Pisces' way of truly connecting with you.
- Don't worry about her judging you—she's far too empathetic and understanding for that. If it's important to you, it's important to her, so don’t be afraid to share your true thoughts and feelings!
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Give her thoughtful, meaningful gifts. Random gifts aren't Pisces' cup of tea. She wants gifts that you've actually put thought behind, gifts that show how well you truly know her.^{[10]
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- For example, if she mentions that she’s dying to read the new book her favorite author just released, stop by the bookstore on your way home and surprise her with it.
- Or, if she says that her favorite band is going to be on tour in your area soon, surprise her with tickets and make a fun date night out of it.
A Pisces woman tends to think of sex as a spiritual, transcendent experience.^{[11]
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Research source} She sees physical intimacy as the most intense form of bonding, and she usually won’t do this with someone unless she trusts them supremely and feels deeply connected to them. Since sex is such a big deal to her, respect it, and only go this far if you plan on sticking around.^{[12]
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Let her know you are supportive of her. A Pisces woman is looking for a rock who can make her feel safe and loved, so make it clear that this is you.^{[13]
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Research source} When she’s feeling emotional or overwhelmed, be there for her. Comfort her when she’s stressed, and ask her how she's feeling if she's not coming out and saying it. When she realizes that you're in tune with her and she can let her guard down, she’ll be able to see a real future with you.
- A Pisces does not respond well to negativity or “constructive” criticism—they definitely prefer encouragement and support.
- Offer her genuine compliments (not fake or exaggerated ones — those are a total turn-off!) to build trust with her. Be her #1 fan, and she'll treat you with the same undivided attention and praise.

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Making It Last

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Value her compassion, but don’t take advantage of it. Some people see Pisceans as people-pleasers who are too ruled by emotion, but their compassion is actually their greatest strength.^{[14]
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Research source} She has empathy for everything she sees, down to the smallest flower in the crack on the sidewalk, which is a beautiful thing. However, since she’s so kind and giving, she’s also liable to be taken advantage of, so it's important to be conscious of this.
- When you ask her for a favor, she’ll always try to say yes, even if she’s already spread thin, so avoid taking advantage of her kindness and asking her for too much.
- She’ll also be slow to reach out for help, so try to do thoughtful things without her even having to ask. For example, if she’s having a rough week at work, surprise her with a delicious dinner and a fully-cleaned house when she gets home.
As Eyedealism explains, “reality is a real turn-off for Pisces,” who prefers to live in the realm of dream and fantasy.^{[15]
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Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} So, when you’re talking, match her imaginative energy, and meet her in the fantasy world she creates. Discuss your wildest goals and aspirations, and think up the most beautiful future the two of you could possibly have. Pisceans are invigorated by these types of conversations!
A Pisces woman’s dreaminess is part of the reason she loves the arts so much — they take her away from reality and put her in a place where she can use her imagination. As a result, she’ll really appreciate it if you plan activities that appeal to her interests in art, music, and culture, explains Eyedealism.^{[16]
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Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} Take her to the museum, the symphony, or Shakespeare in the park, and she’ll be in heaven!
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Be ready to build a long-term relationship with her. When Pisces has decided you're worthy of her love and devotion, she’ll treat you like you’re the center of her universe. She can love fully and unabashedly, so hopefully you deserve her. She's not the type of girl who’s looking for a casual fling—she's in it for the long haul!^{[17]
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- You'll be able to tell that your Pisces is in it to win it when she starts opening up to you and depending on you. She doesn't do that with everyone! Try to match her energy and don't hold back your true feelings — she's looking to fall truly, madly in love with someone who loves her just as much in return.
- Reader Poll: We asked 306 wikiHow readers what they, as a Pisces, value most in a relationship, and 58% of them said loyalty. [Take Poll] So if you want to connect with this water sign, you'll need to show her that you're serious and committed.

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All About Pisces Women

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Pisces women are dreamy, creative, and compassionate. Like all water signs, Pisces is deeply sensitive, and they tend to live within the realm of emotion, rather than logic. They’re also artistic and imaginative, so you’ll often see them engaging in creative activities like painting, writing poetry, or making music. As mutable signs, Pisceans are also incredibly adaptable, and they’re great at going with the flow.^{[18]
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- Element: Water
- Modality: Mutable
- Ruling Planet: Neptune
- Symbol: The Fishes
- Keywords: Dreamy, imaginative, artistic, creative, intuitive, kind, compassionate, empathetic, sensitive, affectionate^{[19]
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They want romance! You know, the flowers and the candlelight! Pisces women love the trappings of romance, since reality is a real turnoff for this sign.

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They like to know that you're putting some imagination into lovemaking and some creativity into the wooing process. If you're very rigid with a Pisces, they're going to try to escape from the relationship.

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Genuine affection without ulterior motives is a huge thing. Pisces are very affectionate and like to touch and cuddle. If you cuddle her without trying to go further, this can be a huge turn on for a Pisces woman.

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As a water sign, Pisces loves to be near the ocean. So, take her to the beach, swimming pool, or other places on or near the water for a candlelight dinner.

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If you plan on sleeping with a Pisces woman, make sure that you embrace, kiss, and caress her entire being. She needs to feel a deep mental and soulful connection in order to allow her mind and body to let go. It's about sharing an energy bond with the other person.
If you see your Pisces girl is about to cry (especially when you are arguing), all she wants in the moment is for you to hold her. She's a peace maker! If you two are arguing over anything and she cannot end the fight she will feel scared and stressed.
Pisces women will often mirror people when they're into someone romantically. If you crack jokes and she cracks jokes back, it's a really good sign.
Don't ignore her or try to play hard to get. She will move on fast. Pisces girls aren't known for sticking around when people try to play games.

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Don't come into this relationship expecting 'casual' sex. Pisceans tend to apply emotion to everything, so they aren’t looking for physicality without commitment.

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Never lie to a Pisces girl. Pisces women are very intuitive, so if she senses that she can't trust you, you'll never see her again.

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