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Being a role model is a big responsibility, especially when you’re on the job. How can you set a great example for your peers without setting impossible expectations for yourself? Don’t worry–you’ve come to the right place. We’ve outlined plenty of simple qualities and characteristics associated with good role models, as well as easy ways to apply those traits in the moment. When the next workday rolls around, you’ll be able to put your best foot forward!
Things You Should Know
- To be a role model in any context, acknowledge and improve your weaknesses while owning up to your mistakes. Transparency is better than perfection.
- Respect everyone around you and empathize with them to earn their trust and admiration.
- Communicate openly, honestly, and directly. Listen to what others have to say with respect and consideration.
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QuestionHow can I embody my role model's behavior?Jennifer Guttman, PsyDDr. Jennifer Guttman, is a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist, Clinical Psychologist, and the Founder of the Sustainable Life Satisfaction®, a motivational and lifestyle platform. With over 30 years of experience and practice in New York City and Westport, Dr. Guttman specializes in treating people struggling with acute behavioral disorders stemming from anxiety, depression, stress, attention deficit, and phobias. She holds a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from Drew University and a Doctor of Psychology from Long Island University. Dr. Guttman is the author of "A Path To Life Satisfaction Workbook (2018),” a monthly blog contributor to Psychology Today and Thrive Global, and a contributor to articles in major publications, media sites, and podcasts including The Washington Post, Reader's Digest, Redbook, Teen Vogue, Health, mindbodygreen.com, Harvesting Happiness, and Unshakable Self-Confidence.
Licensed Clinical PsychologistFirst, determine what traits you admire in your role model and write them down. Identify the ways you may already be modeling some of those behaviors already. Then, try to find your "room for improvement" traits and work on those!
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- ↑ https://www.ccu.edu/blogs/cags/2017/06/10-characteristics-of-an-effective-manager/
- ↑ https://online.champlain.edu/blog/top-qualities-of-a-great-leader
- ↑ Jennifer Guttman, PsyD. Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Expert Interview. 26 July 2021.
- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/brentgleeson/2016/11/09/10-unique-perspectives-on-what-makes-a-great-leader/?sh=42101a6e5dd1
- ↑ https://www.utmb.edu/impact/home/2017/02/17/top-10-ways-to-show-respect-in-the-workplace
- ↑ https://www.waldenu.edu/programs/business/resource/what-makes-a-good-leader-ten-essential-qualities-to-learn
- ↑ https://post.edu/blog/7-tips-for-developing-superior-workplace-communication-skills/
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5709796/
- ↑ https://www.waldenu.edu/programs/business/resource/what-makes-a-good-leader-ten-essential-qualities-to-learn
- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/deeppatel/2017/03/22/11-powerful-traits-of-successful-leaders/?sh=21407a27469f
- ↑ https://www.forbes.com/sites/brentgleeson/2016/11/09/10-unique-perspectives-on-what-makes-a-great-leader/?sh=42101a6e5dd1
- ↑ Jennifer Guttman, PsyD. Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Expert Interview. 26 July 2021.
- ↑ Jennifer Guttman, PsyD. Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Expert Interview. 26 July 2021.
- ↑ https://online.hbs.edu/blog/post/characteristics-of-an-effective-leader
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/six_tips_for_speaking_up_against_bad_behavior
- ↑ https://online.champlain.edu/blog/top-qualities-of-a-great-leader
- ↑ https://www.waldenu.edu/programs/business/resource/what-makes-a-good-leader-ten-essential-qualities-to-learn
- ↑ Jennifer Guttman, PsyD. Licensed Clinical Psychologist. Expert Interview. 26 July 2021.
- ↑ https://online.hbs.edu/blog/post/characteristics-of-an-effective-leader
- ↑ https://online.hbs.edu/blog/post/characteristics-of-an-effective-leader
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About This Article
When you’re trying to be a role model, setting a good example is key. For example, if you want to teach your kids to be kind, reinforce the lesson by being kind to others. It’s also important to let those who look up to you know that it’s okay to be imperfect by owning up to your mistakes and apologizing. Additionally, be consistent with your words and actions, and always do your best to follow through if you say you are going to do something. If you’re a teacher, keep reading to learn how to be a role model for your students!
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