Scorpio Woman Compatibility: What Sign Should Scorpio Date?

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Learn which zodiac signs have the potential to be a Scorpio woman’s true love

Written by Angel Eyedealism | Edited by Glenn Carreau

Last Updated: August 1, 2024 Fact Checked

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Best Matches for a Scorpio Woman

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Fair Matches for a Scorpio Woman

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Worst Matches for a Scorpio Woman

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How to Attract a Scorpio Woman

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Passionate, clever, and insightful, it’s no wonder a Scorpio woman can draw eyes wherever she goes! Whether you’re a Scorpio lady, or you’re crushing on one, you might be wondering which zodiac signs have what it takes to steal a Scorpio’s heart—and you’ve come to the right place. Read on to discover which signs are best suited to a Scorpio woman, as well as how each sign can maximize compatibility with her.

This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.

Things You Should Know

Earth signs Virgo, Capricorn, and Taurus, plus water signs Cancer and Pisces are the best matches for a Scorpio woman.
Leo, Aquarius, and Scorpio all make a fair match with a Scorpio woman—not the most compatible, but not the least, either.
Air signs Gemini and Libra plus fire signs Aries and Sagittarius are typically the least suitable matches for a Scorpio woman.

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Best Matches for a Scorpio Woman

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Cancer Cancer and Scorpio share many of the same values, making them an extremely compatible and supportive couple. Both seek depth, stability, security, and loyalty from their partners, so they’ll have an innate understanding of one another’s needs. Scorpio will love Cancer’s ability to nurture and care for them, while Cancer will always feel safe with their protective Scorpio.^{[1]
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- Sign details: Cancer is a cardinal water sign ruled by the Moon, the planet of emotional depth. Cancer is a nurturing, loyal, and empathetic sign.
- This couple’s biggest strength: Their ability to create a strong emotional connection.
- How to build a great relationship: Give one another space sometimes. Cancer and Scorpio are introverts who need alone time, which they can get if they keep up with solo hobbies and hang out with other friends.
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Virgo Virgo and Scorpio’s personalities balance each other out beautifully! Where Scorpio is intense and assertive, Virgo is shy and soft-spoken. Virgo will be attracted to Scorpio’s strength of character, and Scorpio will love Virgo’s quiet conviction and loyalty. Scorpio tends to be mysterious at first, but Virgo will find that quality fascinating. In time, they’ll become a loving and tender duo.
- Sign details: Virgo is a mutable earth sign ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication. This makes Virgo a practical, logical, and loyal sign.
- This couple’s biggest strength: Communication.
- How to build a great relationship: Balance Scorpio’s possessiveness with Virgo’s independent nature. If both communicate their needs and find a compromise, they can easily overcome this issue.
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Pisces Both highly intuitive water signs, Pisces and Scorpio can communicate easily and connect on a deeper level. Pisces will understand (and share) Scorpio’s need for emotional intensity in the relationship, while Scorpio will feel comfortable showing gentle Pisces their more sensitive and vulnerable side. They’ll get along seamlessly at every stage of the relationship!^{[2]
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- Sign details: Pisces is a mutable water sign ruled by Neptune, the planet of creativity and dreams. This makes Pisces a sensitive, empathetic, and artistic sign.
- This couple’s biggest strength: Their intuition and understanding.
- How to build a great relationship: Work on creative projects together. Pisces’ creativity is sure to inspire Scorpio, and Scorpio’s inner drive and practicality can help them see each project through.
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Taurus As opposites on the zodiac wheel chart, Scorpio and Taurus are often deeply attracted to one another. While their personalities can also seem like polar opposites, they actually complement each other, fitting together like puzzle pieces. Practical Taurus needs a passionate sign like Scorpio to drive the relationship, and Scorpio will value Taurus’s stability and loyalty.
- Sign details: Taurus is a fixed earth sign ruled by Venus, the planet of beauty and love. This makes Taurus a stubborn, reliable, and sensual sign.
- This couple’s biggest strength: Their ability to balance each other out.
- How to build a great relationship: Stubbornness can arise since both are fixed signs, the “stabilizers” of the zodiac. If both make an effort to compromise instead of standing their ground, they can find harmony together.
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Capricorn Scorpio and Capricorn make a fantastic pair overall. Both tend to be cautious, but their desire for stability (and shared ambition) will bring them together over time. As they ease into a relationship, Capricorn and Scorpio will likely find that their goals and priorities line up perfectly. Plus, Scorpio can bring passion to the relationship, and Capricorn’s driven nature can keep them going strong.
- Sign details: Capricorn is a cardinal earth sign ruled by Saturn, the planet of time, tasks, and responsibility. Capricorn is a practical, driven, and ambitious sign.
- This couple’s biggest strength: Their goal-oriented outlook on life.
- How to build a great relationship: Capricorn may not be emotionally available right away, which might hurt Scorpio’s feelings. If Capricorn can learn to express their feelings openly, this pair can go far.

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Fair Matches for a Scorpio Woman

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Scorpio On the one hand, two Scorpios can understand each other better than anyone else. On the other hand, they can end up being a little too much to handle! Their mutual intensity can fuel the passion in this whirlwind relationship, but it can also lead to conflict. They might rush into a relationship—and the intensity of strong-willed Scorpios can lead the relationship to combust.
- Sign details: Scorpio is a fixed water sign ruled by Pluto, the planet of renewal and subconscious forces. Scorpio is a determined, loyal, and secretive sign.
- This couple’s biggest challenge: Their competing all-or-nothing personalities.
- How to make it work: Scorpio’s obsessive nature can cause both partners to feel smothered. If they take a step back and reserve some “alone time” each week, they’ll feel freer and relax in one another’s company.
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Leo Scorpio and Leo can have red-hot chemistry with one another, but their strong personalities may clash and turn the relationship into a battle of wills. They have more in common than either sign might realize; both are passionate, strong-willed, and brave. However, as fixed signs, they’re also extremely stubborn. Scorpio could lash out if Leo tries to tell them what to do, and vice versa.^{[3]
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- Sign details: Leo is a fixed fire sign ruled by the Sun, which represents a person’s ego and sense of self. This makes Leo a loyal, outgoing, and big-hearted sign.
- This couple’s biggest challenge: Their mutual stubbornness.
- How to make it work: Leo and Scorpio can give each other all the passionate romance and stability that both signs crave—so long as they keep an open mind to the other's point of view and respect any differing opinions.
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Aquarius Aquarius and Scorpio will likely find one another fascinating, but Aquarius’s unpredictability might rub Scorpio the wrong way. Scorpio can be enigmatic and reserved but doesn’t like inconsistency. Aquarius, a free-spirited air sign, may not understand this. While they’ll share a lot of physical attraction, Scorpio is also more emotional than a logical Aquarius.
- Sign details: Aquarius is a fixed air sign ruled by Uranus, the planet of innovation. As a result, Aquarius is intellectual, driven, and forward-thinking.
- This couple’s biggest challenge: Opposing interests and needs in a relationship.
- How to make it work: Scorpio must give Aquarius the freedom to pursue their own interests, while Aquarius can be a more dependable partner by following through on commitments and making time for couples’ activities.

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Worst Matches for a Scorpio Woman

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Aries Scorpio and Aries may be attracted to one another’s emotional intensity, but Scorpio’s need for privacy can clash with an open and disarmingly direct Aries. Furthermore, their domineering natures can clash; Aries loves to run the show, but that won’t fly with a strong-willed Scorpio. They’ll match one another’s passion, but struggle to agree on who should take the lead.
- Sign details: Aries is a cardinal fire sign ruled by Mars, the planet of energy and action. This makes Aries a bold, enthusiastic, and confident sign.
- This couple’s biggest challenge: Communication and working as a team.
- How to make it work: Scorpio and Aries’ need for control may get the best of them. If they try to work together on projects, with Scorpio as the strategist and go-getter Aries executing the plans, there’ll be no stopping them!
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Libra Libra and Scorpio have very different energies. Where Scorpio is moody and cryptic, Libra is open and friendly. Scorpios have a lot of emotional depth, while Libras tend to focus on fun and lighthearted topics, which can lead Scorpio to feel like Libra is too superficial. Plus, neither sign handles conflict well; Libra can be passive, and Scorpio tends to disengage when upset.
- Sign details: Libra is a cardinal air sign ruled by Venus, the planet of beauty and love. This makes Libra a charming, outgoing, and fair-minded sign.
- This couple’s biggest challenge: Lack of communication during disagreements.
- How to make it work: Libra and Scorpio may need to work on their conflict resolution skills. Both must make an effort to talk to one another when they’re upset, since they normally avoid conflict.
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Gemini Gemini and Scorpio are often emotionally at odds. Scorpio is deep and intense right from the beginning, often fixating on the object of their affection, while Gemini is light and carefree, preferring to keep things casual at the start of a relationship. This can cause friction; Scorpio might think Gemini is too flighty, while Gemini might feel too restricted by strong-willed Scorpio.
- Sign details: Sagittarius is a mutable air sign ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication. Gemini is a smart, charismatic, and playful sign.
- This couple’s biggest challenge: Contrasting outlooks on life and needs in a relationship.
- How to make it work: They’ll need to work through their differences. Scorpio may be able to look past Gemini’s flightiness to admire their humor and intellect, while Gemini can appreciate Scorpio’s practicality and grounding presence.
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Sagittarius Sagittarius’s fiercely independent nature can clash with Scorpio’s controlling side. When a Scorpio woman falls for a Sagittarius man, she’ll often approach the relationship with an all-or-nothing attitude; she wants total devotion and an intense connection. Carefree Sagittarius might see this as restrictive, even though Scorpio really just wants to feel secure in the relationship.
- Sign details: Sagittarius is a mutable fire sign ruled by Jupiter, the planet of expansion and growth. This makes Sagittarius free-spirited, intellectual, and optimistic.
- This couple’s biggest challenge: Their lack of understanding of one another’s boundaries.
- How to make it work: Boundaries are important for both signs. Scorpio needs commitment, while Sagittarius needs space to do things by themselves. Both signs must share those needs and find a happy medium between them.

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How to Attract a Scorpio Woman

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Be honest and straightforward with her at all times. A Scorpio woman’s careful intuition makes her extra sensitive to any kind of deceit, and dishonesty is a surefire way to drive her away. For all that she likes to appear mysterious and aloof, Scorpio ladies don’t like to play games when it comes to romance. Give her the transparency and sincerity she needs, and she’ll see that she can trust you.
- Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not around a Scorpio woman, and if you care for her, tell her how you feel. She prefers being around authentic people; confidence and directness will definitely impress her!
- Scorpio women also have a keen intellect and love having deep conversations about their interests. Don’t be afraid to debate with her; she’ll appreciate that you stand by your opinions and express them articulately.
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Withhold a few personal details to make yourself seem enigmatic. Scorpio women often find partners with an air of mystery to be especially alluring. To capture her attention, reveal the details of your personal life at a slightly slower pace than you normally might with someone else. Once she realizes she’ll have to work to learn more about you, she’ll eagerly take up the challenge.
- Remember, the goal here isn’t to mislead her or make her feel like she doesn’t know the real you. Be vague about details yet honest and authentic about the information you do share.
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Create a strong emotional connection with her. Scorpio women are intense, passionate, and have a ton of emotional depth. They won’t open up or express vulnerability to just anyone, but crave a deep emotional bond with a partner who can keep up with their high-intensity approach to life, understand their needs, and support them unconditionally.
- To bond emotionally with a Scorpio woman, you may need to take the lead and be vulnerable around her first. Tell her a secret or ask her to be your sounding board while you talk through your feelings.
- If you lower your guard and show her that she has your trust, a Scorpio woman will likely be willing to take the next step and be vulnerable with you. If she’s willing to reveal her secrets to you, she’s serious about the relationship.
- Don’t be afraid to have deep or difficult conversations with her. No matter how gloomy the subject matter is, she’ll enjoy tackling it head-on.
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Respect her autonomy and need for space. Scorpio women are fiercely independent, even once they settle down with a partner. To ensure your Scorpio feels respected and empowered in the relationship, let her have the privacy she needs. She’ll still want to do plenty of things with you outside of that since Scorpios tend to fixate intensely on those they love.
- For example, a Scorpio woman might need a day alone after a busy weekend, or she might want to do a solo hobby. Accepting her need for space will prove to her that you truly care about her needs.

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