Bookie Meaning: TikTok, Relationships & More

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Learn what it means when a girl (or anyone) calls you “bookie”

Co-authored by Aly Rusciano Reviewed by Anyah Le Gilmore-Jones

Last Updated: September 4, 2023 Fact Checked

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When a Girl Calls You “Bookie”

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Bookie Definitions & Examples

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Responding to "Bookie"

Your phone dings—it’s a notification from your girl! You open the text and read, “What are you up to, bookie?” Bookie? What does that even mean? Take a look at what “bookie” could possibly mean from a girl and what it might say about your relationship.

Things You Should Know

On TikTok, “bookie” is used in place of saying “boyfriend,” “babe,” or “sweetheart.”
In a relationship, if your girl calls you “bookie,” she’s totally into you.
Sometimes, “bookie” is used to describe a gambler or bookworm.

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What does it mean when a girl calls you “bookie”?

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If a girl calls you “bookie,” she probably likes you and thinks you’re cute. More often than not, a girl will use the term “bookie” in place of “boo,” “baby,” or “sweetheart” in person or on social media. It’s her pet name for you! She likely thinks you’re cute and uses “bookie” as an endearing compliment or flirt. She wants to get your attention and be more than just friends!
- If she’s your girlfriend, she totally likes you! Your relationship is better than ever, and “bookie” is likely a nickname she’s trying out on you.
- She might text you, “Hey, bookie! Doing anything tonight? 😉” or caption a photo with you on Instagram with, “Weekends with my bookie >>>”
- A girl may pair “bookie” with “pookie” to show even more affection. So, if she calls you “bookie pookie” or “pookie bookie,” she’s head-over-heels for you!

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Bookie Definitions & Examples

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On TikTok, “bookie” is a pet name. Today, the term “bookie” is slang for “baby” or “sweetheart.” People often refer to or call their significant others “bookie” to say, “Hey, I like you.” Basically, it’s a placeholder for their name. Take a look at these examples:
- “Bookie, you’re the sweetest girl I know.”
- “Hanging out with my bookie is like 🤪”
- “This bookie has my heart 😘”
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A “bookie” could be someone who bets or gambles. Back in the day, a “bookie” was short for “bookmaker” or someone who determines gambling odds and pays off bets.^{[1]
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Research source} Over time, the slang term started began describing a shady person who bets on sporting events. If someone uses the term when talking about someone placing bets, they’re probably not the most trustworthy with money.
- “Gosh, he’s a bookie. Wonder if she knows where all the money goes.”
- “See that one over there? Total bookie. He’s been placing bets for hours.”
- “No gambling for me tonight, friends! I’ve put the bookie days behind me.”
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Sometimes, “bookie” refers to a bookworm or nerd. You may be called a “bookie” by someone if you love books or learning. In this context, “bookie” can have a negative or positive connotation.
- Say your bestie calls you “bookie” when you tell them you read 5 books this month—that’s a positive remark! They’re calling you a cute bookworm.
- On the other hand, let’s say a bully calls you “bookie” when you wear your glasses to school. If they call you other rude names or laugh, they may be making fun of your “nerdy” appearance.

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What to Do If You're Called “Bookie”

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Send a flirty response if you like them too. If your crush or girlfriend calls you “bookie,” don’t leave her hanging! Send her a flirty text or give her a playful wink IRL. This way, she’ll know you dig her too.
- Toss a flirty emoji, like 😉 or 😚, at the end of your message to make her swoon.
- Strike up a conversation with your crush by asking them about their day or what they’re up to.
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Give your girlfriend a pet name in return. If your girlfriend starts calling you “bookie” or “bookie pookie,” consider using a cute nickname for her too. Maybe her smile lights up your day like “sunshine,” or she’s as cute as a “ladybug.” As long as the pet name is endearing and makes her smile, you’re golden!^{[2]
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- Try pet names like “Queen,” “Darling,” “Angel,” “Princess,” “Sweetie,” “Treasure,” or “Cupcake.”
- Ask your SO if it’s okay to call her by a cute nickname—it’s always best to know how she feels about it!
If someone calls you “bookie” in a condescending way, simply mind your own business and walk away. Sometimes it’s better not to comment on snide remarks—it could fuel the name caller’s ego. So, if you have the means, remove yourself from the situation, ignore the bully, and find someone else to talk to.^{[3]
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Tell them not to call you “bookie” if you don’t like it. If you’re feeling brave, speak up and express your distaste. Not everyone enjoys being called a “bookie,” and that’s okay! Take a look at these scenarios:
- If your girlfriend calls you bookie, try saying, “Babe, I love you, but can I have another nickname? ‘Bookie’ doesn’t sit well with me.”
- If you’re accused of gambling, say something like, “Guys, I know I have a track record, but we don’t have to start calling people out.”
- If you’re bullied for being a nerd, stand up for yourself with, “You can say whatever you want, but I like how I look. If wearing glasses and reading is a problem, it’s yours, not mine” and then walk away.^{[4]
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