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If someone you know recently lost their mother, a great way to show support is by offering them a condolence message, whether in person, with a note or sympathy card, or over text. It can be difficult to find the right words to say, so we’ve gathered a list of all the best condolences for the loss of a mother, with professional advice from clinical therapist and social worker Joseph Phillips. Plus, learn how to provide further comfort to someone who is grieving and when it’s appropriate to send your condolences.
Example Words of Sympathy for the Loss of a Mother
- “Your mother’s legacy lives on in you. I’m so sorry for your loss.”
- “Your mother has made a difference in so many lives. I’m grateful to be part of her family.”
- “Grief is a journey, and I’m going to be with you every step of the way.”
- “No one can replace your mom, but I want you to know that I’m here whenever you need me.”
- “There are no words for such a sad time. My condolences.”
- “Cherish all of your wonderful memories. I’m here for you if you need anything.”
- “To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.” – Thomas Campbell
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Be sensitive to the grieving person’s relationship with their mother. If they had a strained relationship or if you’re not sure how close they were, it may be better to avoid saying things like, “She was a wonderful mother.” Instead, focus on offering your sympathies.Thanks
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Remember, everyone grieves differently, so don’t judge the person if they aren’t acting the way you expected them to.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://parade.com/1174629/michelle-parkerton/what-to-say-to-someone-who-lost-a-parent/
- ↑ https://www.womansworld.com/life/relationships/sympathy-message-for-loss-of-mother
- ↑ https://www.choosingtherapy.com/what-to-say-to-someone-who-lost-a-parent/
- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/condolence-messages/
- ↑ https://www.womansworld.com/life/relationships/sympathy-message-for-loss-of-mother
- ↑ https://www.choosingtherapy.com/what-to-say-to-someone-who-lost-a-parent/
- ↑ https://www.womansworld.com/life/relationships/sympathy-message-for-loss-of-mother
- ↑ https://parade.com/1075647/stephanieosmanski/sympathy-quotes/
- ↑ https://www.cancercare.org/publications/67-how_to_help_someone_who_is_grieving
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/grief/helping-someone-who-is-grieving.htm
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/grief/helping-someone-who-is-grieving.htm
- ↑ https://www.cancercare.org/publications/67-how_to_help_someone_who_is_grieving
- ↑ https://www.cancercare.org/publications/67-how_to_help_someone_who_is_grieving
- ↑ https://www.seniorliving.com/article/10-etiquette-tips-sending-sympathy-cards