How to Date a Leo Man: Everything You Need to Know

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Expert-backed tips for successfully dating a bold, fiery Leo

Co-authored by Stina Garbis and Annabelle Reyes

Last Updated: November 25, 2024 Fact Checked

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Planning Dates

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Supporting Him Emotionally

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Maintaining the Relationship

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Pros and Cons of Dating a Leo Man

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FAQs

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According to astrology believers, Leo men are extremely confident and attractive, so it makes sense that they tend to have a lot of admirers. However, if you’re looking to date this bold and energetic fire sign, it can take some effort. Luckily, we’ve compiled a complete guide on how to date a Leo man, from planning dates to supporting him emotionally to maintaining the relationship. We’ve also included pros and cons of dating a Leo and insights from expert psychic astrologer Stina Garbis, so keep reading!

Dating a Leo Man

Leo men are adventurous, fun, and love to be the center of attention. To date a Leo man and make him feel loved, psychic astrologer Stina Garbis says to “participate in his favorite activities,” “laugh at his jokes, even the dumb ones,” and “compliment how handsome and strong and clever he is.”

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Planning Dates with a Leo Man

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Embrace spontaneous, silly fun. Leos have a naturally fun-loving nature and look for significant others to match this energy. When planning dates with a Leo, embrace your inner child and opt for playful, unconventional activities, instead of the typical dinner and a movie plan.^{[1]
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- For example, try doing something like mini golf or laser tag. A Leo will be delighted by these childlike games. They’ll also jump at the chance to engage in a little friendly competition.
- Leos also love spontaneity and being woo-ed, so consider surprising him with tickets to see his favorite musician. He’ll appreciate the effort you put in to plan something special!^{[2]
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- Garbis also recommends participating in his favorite activities, even if they’re new to you. For instance, if he likes football, go to the game or bring snacks on game day to show that you're interested in the same things he is.
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Plan dates where you take risks. Leo men tend to admire people who push themselves outside their comfort zone. They’re bold risk-takers themselves, so they’re looking for someone who can be their partner on all of their exciting adventures. So, if you want to keep a Leo man interested, try doing things that scare you a little from time to time to show him you’re willing to face your fears.
- For example, if you're afraid of heights, be brave and ride the ferris wheel at a carnival with him.
- Or, if you’re not an outdoors-y person, show him that you’re willing to try new things by going on a hike with him or accompanying him on a camping trip.
- Your willingness to step outside your comfort zone and broaden your horizons is bound to impress a Leo man!
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Leo men tend to be outgoing, and they love to socialize.^{[3]
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Supporting a Leo Man Emotionally

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Pay him compliments. Leos notoriously love being the center of attention, and Leo men can even come off as a bit full of themselves sometimes.^{[4]
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Research source} Because of this, it can be helpful to stroke his ego a little bit. “Make him feel like he’s the big man on campus,” suggests Garbis. “Laugh at his jokes, even the dumb ones. Compliment how handsome and strong and clever he is.” It may sound silly, but it goes a long way to make your Leo man feel loved and appreciated!
- Just try not to go overboard with your compliments and praise—you don’t want to feed a Leo man’s ego too much.
- Focus on pointing out things you sincerely like about him (“I really love when you plan romantic dates. You’re so thoughtful!”), and avoid hyperbolic language ("You're the handsomest guy ever!").
- Reader Poll: We asked 620 wikiHow readers who've dated a Leo man, and 72% of them agreed that the best romantic gestures are thoughtful gifts and bold declarations of love. [Take Poll] Boost your Leo man’s confidence by telling him how much you care about him!
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Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer with over 20 years of consulting experience. She is the author of Astrology for Real Relationships: Understanding You, Me, and How We All Get Along and is the host of the popular astrology and advice show, Ghost of a Podcast. Lanyadoo co-hosted TLC’s digital astrology show Stargazing and writes weekly and monthly horoscopes that help you heal.

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What should I know about dating a Leo? It's challenging to change a Leo's mind, so you'll often need to defer to what he wants. Leos also love being the center of attention and your crush wants to be the leader in any situation, especially a leader who is adored.
Leo men tend to be ambitious, and they never back down from a challenge.^{[5]
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Research source} Because of this, they usually look for partners who can encourage them and push them to be the best version of themselves, and they avoid partners who might hold them back. If your Leo man is working on a project, give him his space, and make it clear that you support him in his endeavors. If you try to get between a Leo and their passions, you're likely to lose.^{[6]
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Remind him to go easy on himself. Leos can sometimes be a little self-deprecating. They expect a lot from themselves, and they get frustrated if they don't meet their own high expectations.^{[7]
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Research source} As a Leo man's partner, it's important to support him and remind him that he doesn't have to be perfect.
- Try stroking his ego a little when he's down on himself—this will usually help him perk up. Say something like, "Your boss really values you because you're such a hard worker. One setback doesn't change that."
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Keep your jealousy in check. Leos are charming by nature and often attract a lot of admirers.^{[8]
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Research source} When out with a Leo, it's not uncommon to see other people hitting on your date. Leos tend to be attracted to confidence and dislike signs of insecurity, so try to keep any jealousy in check.
- Remember, while Leos are charming, they are also very loyal. If your Leo man has chosen you, he's unlikely to stray!^{[9]
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Maintaining a Relationship with a Leo Man

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Remind him you need support. Leos can get a bit too caught up in their own issues sometimes, which means that your needs can be overlooked, even if this isn’t your partner’s intention.^{[10]
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Research source} Because of this, it’s important to voice your needs and communicate your feelings clearly. Remind him that you need love, attention, and support too.
- Be upfront with your Leo. Remember, he admires confidence and directness, and if you're unafraid to ask that your needs be met, he'll be better able to meet them.
- Say something like, "I know you're super busy with work these days, but I’m really missing our date nights. I need that quality time to feel connected to you. Can we go out this Friday?"
Leo men are loyal by nature and are attracted to people who can match their levels of devotion. Leo men are also deeply romantic, so they’ll definitely swoon if you remind him that he’s the only one in your heart.^{[11]
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Work on your confidence. Leos gravitate toward strong, confident, independent people, and it’s important for them to respect the person they’re with. As a result, working on your own confidence and self-esteem can do wonders for your relationship with a Leo man. They’ll be spellbound by your boldness and self-assured attitude!^{[12]
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- To build your self confidence try learning a new skill, picking up a hobby, boosting your endorphins with some workouts, or reciting self-love affirmations.
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Deal with his temper. As a fire sign, Leo is naturally a bit temperamental.^{[13]
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Research source} This can be harmless sometimes, but if a Leo man’s temper is getting out of hand, tell him as much immediately—it’s not okay for him to take his anger out on you. Ask him to work on his anger issues for the sake of your relationship, and if he isn’t sure how to tackle the problem himself, suggest therapy or counseling.^{[14]
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- Never stay in a relationship with someone who's unable to keep their anger in check. If you feel unsafe or unhappy, it’s completely okay to leave the relationship and protect yourself.^{[15]
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Pros and Cons of Dating a Leo Man

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Pros There are many upsides to dating a bold, fiery Leo man, including:
- Their confidence and charisma. With their self-assured energy and natural magnetism, Leo men are sure to charm, and they’re typically considered very attractive by those around them.
- Their outgoing and social nature. Leo men are always up for a good time, which makes them super fun partners. They’ll love going on exciting dates with you, accompanying you to parties, and hanging out with groups of friends.
- Their love of adventure. If you’re a thrill seeker yourself, you and a Leo man can bond over daring activities like rock climbing, international travel, sky diving—you'll never have a dull moment!
- Their loyalty. Although Leo men are naturally flirtatious and tend to attract a lot of attention, once they’re in a relationship, they’re locked down. They’ll be devoted to you and only you.
- Their ambition. Leo men have high standards for themselves, and they’re also super passionate and competitive. You can trust that a Leo man has big goals, and he won’t stop until he achieves them!^{[16]
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Cons As with any zodiac sign, Leos do have a few weaknesses and pitfalls when it comes to love and dating. Here are a few of them:
- They can be a little self-absorbed. Leo men often aren’t aware that they’re doing this, and they actually care deeply about the needs of others. Regardless, they can be a little wrapped up in their own world, so you might need to be more vocal about your feelings and needs.
- They need a lot of support and encouragement. Leo men like to feel special, so they really value it when someone strokes their ego a bit. If this is something you don’t enjoy doing, it may cause a bit of a rift in your relationship at times.
- They can be a bit unforgiving of themselves and others. Because they have such high standards, Leos can get pretty upset when they aren’t met. This goes for their own failures and for others’.
- They’re natural flirts. This becomes less of a problem when you’re already in a relationship with a Leo because they tend to be fiercely loyal to their partners. When you’re casually dating or in the talking stage, however, it may be hard to figure out how they feel about you because they’re such flirts.^{[17]
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FAQs for Dating a Leo Man

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“If they’re interested in you, they’ll constantly compliment you, buy you things, show off, and brag,” explains Garbis. “They’ll twirl their hair, flex, puff out their chest, check their posture, have a sexy walk or strut,” anything to impress you. “Think big cat,” Garbis says, which makes sense, considering Leo’s symbol is The Lion.
A Leo man’s ideal woman is usually confident, outgoing, and passionate. He’s looking for someone to match his energy and be his adventure partner in life. Although any sign can date a Leo if they’re willing to work to find common ground, Leo men are typically considered most compatible with Sagittarius, Aries, Libra, and Gemini partners.^{[18]
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“Leos are the most affectionate sign in the zodiac,” says Garbis. “They are friendly, generous, love to touch, and they are not shy about public displays of affection.” So, if you’re pursuing a relationship with a Leo man, it's good to be comfortable with PDA, and it's also a bonus if your love language is physical touch!

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No matter what, be yourself, and don't try to change your whole personality to date a Leo man. Leos appreciate authenticity, and if he's the right guy for you, he'll love you for who you truly are!

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Leos are immensely faithful, but they can get overly jealous. In my experience, they hate it if you hide even smallest of small thing from them, so it's best to be up front and tell them everything, even if you think it's no big deal.
Leos do not like negative people. They don't mind helping someone or having sympathy for someone who is going through something tough, but they prefer being around positive, upbeat people who aren't complainers.
Be careful with what you say to a Leo—they take everything you say to heart, and they don't do well with criticism, even if you were just joking.

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