How to Get My Love Back by Mantra

Co-authored by Masha Kouzmenko and Janice Tieperman

Last Updated: April 19, 2024 Fact Checked

If your lost love or ex-partner seems just out of reach, a Vashikaran mantra might be able to help. Not quite sure which one is right for you? We’ve got you covered. From an unrequited love to an unhappy marriage, we’ve put together a list of different mantras that work for a variety of different scenarios. Keep reading to see which one is best for you and your love interest.

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Lost love

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Say the mantra 108 times each day for 3 straight weeks. As you chant, picture yourself being happy and content with your lost love, without channeling any negative feelings.^{[1]
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- Full mantra: Om Namah Bhagwate Rudrav Drishti
  Lekhi Nahar Swah Duhai Kansasur Ji
  Joot Jooot Phura Mantra Ishwaro Vacha

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General attraction

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Repeat this full mantra 108 times per day, for 41 days in a row. Then, meet up with your love interest and give them a red flower–this gets the person to start thinking about wanting to be with you.^{[2]
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- Full mantra: Om Chamunday Jai Jai Stambhya
  Stambhya Bhanjya Bhanjya
  Mohay Mohay Sarvaste Namah Swaha
- Roses, poppies, tulips, bleeding hearts, yarrow, dahlia, red marigold, anemone, and begonia are all great options.^{[3]
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Unrequited female love interest

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In a small bowl, stir together a couple of drops of water with a small pinch of saffron. Then, grab a toothpick, coat it in the saffron mixture, and write “Ya Laumaail Bihakki Ya Ain Ya Ajimo” on a small, fresh sheet of paper. Power up your written message by repeating the mantra 170 times in a row. Then, soak the paper in a glass of water and offer the drink to your love interest.^{[4]
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- This mantra works best if you take a bath and freshen up first.
- Spiritual experts recommend picking up the sheet with your right hand and blocking the text with your left hand.
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What exactly are mantras and chanting?

Masha Kouzmenko
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Masha Kouzmenko is a Meditation Coach and the Co-Founder of Silicon Valley Wellness, a company based in the San Francisco Bay Area that provides holistic health education services such as mindfulness meditation and yoga instruction to businesses. She has over five years of meditation and yoga instruction experience and specializes in guided meditation. She has a BA in Economics from the University of California, Berkeley.

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Mantras and chanting are sound currents. You can chant them out loud or internally. Let your voice and sound vibrate your body and all the living cells inside you.

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Rejected female love interest

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Repeat the full mantra at least 1,108 times each day. Then, grab a piece of food and blow 7 puffs of air onto it. Snack on the now-empowered food while staring at a photo of the woman who rejected you to get the mantra working.^{[5]
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- Full mantra: Om Naamoh Kat Vikaat Ghor Rupini [your love interest’s name]
  Saay Vashmaanaye Swahaa
- This mantra is most powerful when chanted on Sunday or Tuesday.
- Only use this mantra if your love interest is single. If she’s already in a happy relationship, saying the mantra will only bring bad energy in your direction.

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Angry, distant wife

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For 11 days in a row, face eastward in your home and repeat the full mantra 108 times. As you chant, stare directly at a photo of your wife.^{[6]
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- Full mantra: Om Namah Kaamakshi Devi [your wife’s name]
  Naari Me Vashyam Kuru Kuru Swaha
- To get the most powerful results, wait until Tuesday to repeat this mantra.

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Stubborn female lover

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Wait until Thursday rolls around–this mantra is most powerful at that point. Take a bath, clean and dry yourself off, and scoop up a handful of regular salt. Then, while holding the salt, stand facing north and repeat the full mantra 118 times in a row. Finish off the ritual by sprinkling the empowered salt into your lover’s food.^{[7]
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- Full mantra: Om bhagwati bhag bhaag dayini [your love interest’s name]
  Mam vashyam kuru kuru swaha

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Male lover

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For 15 straight days, take off your clothes and stand facing north in your home at midnight. Say the mantra 108 times per day so it can start to work.^{[8]
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- Full mantra: Aim sah vallari kleem kar kleem kaampishach [your lover’s name] kaam grahay swapane mam rupe nakhe vidaray dravay dravay ed mahen bandhay bandhay sree phat
- Be careful with this particular mantra–it’s often called a “devil mantra,” and it can be really dangerous if you don’t follow the ritual carefully.

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Male love interest

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Invite your love interest to take his shoes and socks off, and swipe a bit of dust off his feet when he isn’t paying attention. While still holding the dust, go to a separate room and repeat the full mantra 7 times in a row. Then, discreetly sprinkle the empowered dust over his head so the ritual and mantra can take root.^{[9]
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- Full mantra: Kala kalua chausath veer, taal bhaagi torjahan ko bheju, vahi ko jaye, maas majja ko shabad ban jayeapna mara, aap dikhay, chalat baan maru, ulat mooth marumaar maar kalua, teri aas chaar, chaumukha deeya, maar baadi ki chaatiitna kaam mera na kare to tujhe mata ka dooh piya haram
Swami Sivananda Radha, Spiritual Teacher and Yogi

When a loved one drifts away, it's natural to grasp for ways to reconnect. Yet lasting bonds cannot be forced, only nurtured through patience and care. Turn first to self-love mantras to soothe your wounded heart. From this peaceful centre, send blessings to your beloved through mantras whispered on the breeze. If it is meant to be, your souls will reunite in divine timing.

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Male crush

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Grab a handful of cardamom (or a cardamom plant) and repeat the mantra 7 times in a row. Then, present the empowered cardamom as a gift to your love interest.^{[10]
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- Full mantra: Om namoh kala kalua, kaali raatnish ki putli majhi raatkala kalua, ghaat baasota/soti jo jagay laaobaitha/baithi ko uthaay laaokhada/khadi ko chalaay laaomohini yogini chal, raaj ki thaauamuk/amuki ke tan me chatpati lagaaojiya le tod, jo koi elaichi hamari khavekabhi na chhoray hamare saathghar ko taje, baahar ko tajehame taj aur kane jaaito chhaati phaat turant mar jaaisatya naam adesh guru kameri bhakti guru ki shaktiphuro mantra ishwaro vacha
- It might be easier to sprinkle the empowered cardamom into his food, which will have the same effect.
- Mantras and chanting are sound currents.^{[11]
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- You can chant them out loud or internally.^{[12]
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- Let the vibration of your voice and your sound vibrate your body and vibrate all the little living cells inside you.^{[13]
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What can I do if I am not familiar with Sanskrit?

Masha Kouzmenko
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Masha Kouzmenko is a Meditation Coach and the Co-Founder of Silicon Valley Wellness, a company based in the San Francisco Bay Area that provides holistic health education services such as mindfulness meditation and yoga instruction to businesses. She has over five years of meditation and yoga instruction experience and specializes in guided meditation. She has a BA in Economics from the University of California, Berkeley.

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If you are not familiar with Sanskrit, you can use an affirmation as your mantra. For example, you can say, I am healthy, I am healthy, and meditate on that affirmation. It can help your body, mind, and subconscious believe that you are healthy.

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Practice saying the mantra slowly a few times so you can really nail the pronunciation. That way, you can recite it more easily and confidently when the time comes!

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