How to Get Subtle Revenge on Your Enemies

Co-authored by Sabrina Grover, LMSW

Last Updated: October 14, 2024 Approved

In our lives we have all been on a roller coaster, whether it is in our teenage years or in our adulthood years. There has been a point in our lives when we have fallen out with friends that we were really close to or broken up with the "love" of our lives. But we have to learn to forget about those things no matter how hard they may be. The following article will give you step by step instructions on how to get revenge back on your enemies.

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Be smart. This is the ultimate way to hurt your enemy! Especially if your enemy is smarter and more competitive than you. There are many ways that you can gain intelligence, but the one thing where we all get our intelligence from are books. Read as many books as you can. It can be science, mathematics, English, history, or even magazines and newspapers. All of these things will help you gain information. By being smart, you will totally fire up your enemy. Some of you may be too lazy, but all you've got to remember, is your enemies face when you beat them in exams and in life. Remember being smart will open you lot of doors in life. You will have a well-paid job and live a happy life with lots of friends. People will become interested in you and want to be your friend. Even the people that don't like you that much, will ask for your help. You will be respected and popular for your intelligence and that will burn up your enemy inside, although they may not seem to be on the outside. Eventually maybe they will realize what an idiot they were for leaving you and ask to be your friend again.
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Don't give up on things. They will only be happier if you give up doing things that you used to do. Continue life as normal. This may be hard, but try your hardest to live life to the fullest. This will, of course, take time, but eventually like everything else in life, you will forget about them. Time goes by. You can do it!

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Respect yourself. Don't ever let people bring you down. Remember that if you don't respect yourself then others won't.
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Act as though they are not there. Even when you see them from time to time or everyday. Just pretend that they are not there. This will also get them angry! A simple way to do this by not looking their way. Even if they stare at you just pretend that they are not there. This may be hard but keep trying and eventually you will get there.
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Be nice. By being nice to others you will be liked and this will annoy your enemy. You can do this by helping someone. Only do this if the person or people you are being nice to respects your kindness. If they have mistreated you before then know the depth of your kindness. If what they have done is forgiven and forgotten then just be normal with them. Treat people like they treat you.
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Get involved in things. Focus on your own strengths, your own positive attributes, and your own way of navigating the world. Do more activities and projects. The more energy you put into yourself, the less energy will be put into your enemy.
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Be confident. This is also another big way to get revenge back on you enemies. Once again it is not easy to be confident. But just remind yourself that you are human. No one else is better than you. You are the way you are and nothing can change that.Beat Your Enemy in everything in which you play against each other. Don't be too afraid of your enemy. Respect yourself for who you are. Remember that people don't judge you by the way you look they judge you by your character.
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Don't be afraid to change. Change things that you did wrong. Don't think that just because people know you like this doesn't mean that you can't change. It is never too late to change. Try to improve on the bad habits that you have.
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As an alternative to step 4 you could always try acting like your enemy is your best friend. This will drive them insane! As it will be a negative reaction they will be looking for out of you, rather than a positive one.
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Beat them at their own game. Do to them exactly what they do to you, so they get a taste of their own medicine.
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Respond with one word answers when they talk or ask you questions. This will make them feel that they have to make more conversation and soon they will look like they are trying to get your attention and therefore will make you look more popular than them, thus giving you a bit of power over them.

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Try beating them in sports to one-up them.

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Pick one step, do it, then do the others.

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Don't let them bring you down!

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Never do something dangerous or illegal. Otherwise, it will backfire and you will get in trouble.

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