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Got butterflies in your stomach whenever your crush walks by? Don’t worry – we’ve got your back! While no magic potion can make them fall for you (wouldn’t that be nice?!), there are tons of ways to show them how amazing – and lovable – you really are. We talked with relationship experts and are sharing their best-kept secrets for catching your crush’s eye. So, get ready to master the art of flirting (without being awkward!), feel like your most confident self, and win your crush’s heart.
How to Make Your Crush Like You
Hang out with your crush to get to know them and ask questions about their interests. Smile, laugh, and make eye contact to let them know you're interested. Be yourself and put your best self forward to show your confidence.
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Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow do I get my crush to notice me?Mark RosenfeldMark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach based in Norman Park, Australia. He founded his coaching business, Make Him Yours, in 2015. Mark specializes in helping women find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon upon its release.
Dating & Relationship CoachStart up a conversation with them! For instance, you might make a comment when you see them in class or brush past them in the hallway. Try to hold eye contact for a little longer when you talk with them, and let the eye contact linger for a little more as you walk away. -
QuestionHow do I make the first move on my crush?Mark RosenfeldMark Rosenfeld is a Dating and Relationship Coach based in Norman Park, Australia. He founded his coaching business, Make Him Yours, in 2015. Mark specializes in helping women find, attract, and keep extraordinary relationships. He has been featured in Style Magazine, Thought Catalog, Elite Daily, News.com.au, and The Good Men Project. Mark’s dating videos have received over 60 million views, and his book “Make Him Yours – Beating the Odds of Modern Dating” was a best-seller on Amazon upon its release.
Dating & Relationship CoachPay attention to the little things they mention in a conversation. For instance, if they talk about having a dog, you might say something like, "You've got to introduce me to your dog someday." If they're a tennis player, you might say, "We've gotta hit the tennis courts sometime so you can introduce me to the sport." If the other person seems enthusiastic, you can do a number exchange right away to set things up. -
QuestionHow can you make your crush fall in love with you?wikiHow Staff EditorThis answer was written by one of our trained team of researchers who validated it for accuracy and comprehensiveness.
Staff AnswerwikiHow Staff EditorStaff AnswerYou can’t really make anyone fall in love with you—only they can decide how they feel! The best you can do is spend time getting to know them, treat them with kindness and respect, and be your best self around them. From there, it’s up to them!
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Compliment your crush to help show your interest in them.Thanks
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Avoid being glued to your phone when you're with your crush.Thanks
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Try hanging out with your crush in a group if you're nervous about spending time with them one-on-one.Thanks
Tips from our Readers
- Ask a mutual friend to ask your crush if they like you or not so you don't have to guess. If you find out they like you, be subtle about it but be nice and flirty with them.
- A subtle thing to do is walk past your crush and give them compliments in passing. That can let them know you're interested and make them feel really good about themselves.
- Wear red because some studies show that men and women both find people wearing red more attractive.
References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/click-here-for-happiness/202304/how-to-emotionally-support-someone
- ↑ Adina Zinn, MPA. Certified Career & Life Coach. Expert Interview. 30 March 2022.
- ↑ Mark Rosenfeld. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 11 June 2021.
- ↑ Mark Rosenfeld. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 11 June 2021.
- ↑ https://www.bps.org.uk/research-digest/how-master-art-conversation-according-psychology
- ↑ Adina Zinn, MPA. Certified Career & Life Coach. Expert Interview. 30 March 2022.
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/lib/become-a-better-listener-active-listening
- ↑ Mark Rosenfeld. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 11 June 2021.
- ↑ https://extension.usu.edu/relationships/research/from-time-to-quality-time-making-every-moment-count
- ↑ Mark Rosenfeld. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 11 June 2021.
- ↑ Mark Rosenfeld. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 11 June 2021.
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/relationships/social-connection/relationship-help
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview.17 May 2019.
- ↑ https://www.joinonelove.org/learn/is-your-relationship-moving-at-a-healthy-pace-according-to-experts/
- ↑ https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/personal-hygiene
- ↑ Rani Gorgis. Laundry & Cleaning Specialist. Expert Interview. 7 April 2021.
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview.17 May 2019.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/articles/201207/outside-in-dress-impress-yourself
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview.17 May 2019.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/flirting
- ↑ Mark Rosenfeld. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 11 June 2021.
- ↑ Mark Rosenfeld. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 11 June 2021.
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview.17 May 2019.
- ↑ Cher Gopman. Dating Coach. Expert Interview.17 May 2019.
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/a43339872/how-to-tell-someone-you-love-them/
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/a43339872/how-to-tell-someone-you-love-them/
- ↑ https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/how-to/how-to-tell-someone-you-love-them/
- ↑ https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/how-to/how-to-tell-someone-you-love-them/
- ↑ Mark Rosenfeld. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 11 June 2021.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201107/dealing-with-rejection-handling-others-rejecting-behavior
About This Article
If you have a crush on someone and you want them to like you back, spend some time talking to them so you can find things you have in common. Be supportive when they’re feeling down, offer to help if they’re having trouble with something, and tell jokes to make them laugh so they can see what a good friend you are. Also, try to act as relaxed and comfortable as possible when your crush is around so they feel at ease. Finally, be sure to smile and make eye contact with your crush to show that you're interested and happy being around them! For tips on showing off your playful side, keep reading!
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