This article was co-authored by John Keegan. John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
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He loves you, he loves you not, he loves you... Or at least he will, if you know how to play your cards right. In this article, we'll teach you the best ways to win a guy over so he can start thinking of you as more than a friend.
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- Read a lot about what is happening in the world. This can lead to conversations where you both share your opinions and you can find out where he stands on certain issues. This is a good way to learn more about his mindset and whether or not you both have the same values.
- If you like a boy, never be nervous and always be confident. Whenever you are around him, tell him how you feel. And always be the girl you are because a boy does not like a girl who tries to act like someone they're not.
- Don't be worried about asking him if he's into you. The worst that could happen is him saying no and you feeling disappointed. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger!
- Show him any skills you have, like swimming, basketball, soccer, or music. He might admire you if he knows you are talented or good at something.
- Try to be funny, it will help. I know from personal experience. If you make him laugh then he will notice you more.
- Make sure to keep good hygiene. Brush your teeth twice a day and shower at least three times a week.
References
- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 26 February 2020.
- ↑ https://www.vixendaily.com/love/6-scientifically-proven-ways-make-him-fall-you/2/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/priming
- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 26 February 2020.
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- ↑ https://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/a3143/more-about-body-language-flirting-personal-space-science-of-sex/
- ↑ Laura Bilotta. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 26 February 2020.
- ↑ https://www.vixendaily.com/love/6-scientifically-proven-ways-make-him-fall-you/2/
- ↑ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a22020745/love-languages/
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- ↑ https://www.vixendaily.com/love/6-scientifically-proven-ways-make-him-fall-you/3/
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About This Article
The best way to make a guy fall for you is to be your most confident self. By pursuing your own interests and embracing what makes you unique, he can see just how great you are! Along with being your best self, get to know his friends so he sees that you get along and can start to feel more comfortable around you. While you shouldn’t smother him, make an effort to spend more time near him, such as by going to events you know he’ll be at, so he starts thinking of you more often. When you talk to him, make eye contact so he can feel special. You can also lightly touch him on his arm when he says something funny since a little physical connection can make him more attracted to you. For more tips, including how to share secrets with him to create more intimacy, read on!
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