How to Get a Sagittarius Woman to Chase You

Co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and Madeleine Criglow

Last Updated: November 18, 2024 Fact Checked

It's easy to fall for a Sagittarius woman. They're bold, exuberant, and have the unique ability to make every day feel like an adventure. To make a Sagittarius woman chase you, take inspiration from her spontaneous and thrill-seeking approach to life. Show her that you can flirt, go for what you want, and live life to the fullest, and she'll be obsessed with you in no time.

This article is based on an interview with our astrologer and performance artist, Angel Eyedealism. Check out the full interview here.

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Compliment her on what makes her so great.

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Sagittarius women adore being praised. If you really like a Sagittarius, she'll want to know why. Be upfront about all the reasons that you like her and compliment her often. Opt for compliments that feel specific to her, like her hilarious sense of humor, her unparalleled knack for adventure, or her chic, fashion-forward style. She'll end up chasing after you in hopes of getting more compliments.
- You might say something like, "I love hearing about all the places you've traveled. You're such an amazing storyteller" or "You're seriously one of the funniest people I've ever met."
- To compliment her appearance, text her something like, "You looked great in that silk top last night. Red is your color."
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Flirt with her a lot.

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Playful and bold, Sagittarius women love to flirt. To get her to chase you, you'll have to play up the charm factor. Smile at her, playfully tease her, and engage in some sexy banter. She'll love the attention and will want to be around you all of the time.^{[1]
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- If you see this Sagittarius woman at a party, make eye contact and give her a smile. She'll appreciate your confidence and will likely come over to talk to you.
- Tease her by saying something like, "This book you recommended is amazing, but it's going way over my head. Were you a philosopher in another life?!"
- Sagittarius women are known to be pretty bold flirts. If you think she'd be comfortable, text her something a little more risqué. You might try, "Still thinking about that velvet dress you wore last night. What are you wearing right now?"
- If you've been flirting and she touches your shoulder, holds your hand, or even gives you a kiss, she likely wants you bad. Sagittarius women often express their attraction through physical touch.

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Joke around with her.

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Sagittarius women love to laugh with their romantic interests. Try texting her funny GIFS, DMing her memes you think she'd like, and even poking fun at yourself sometimes. She'll love your carefree, humorous nature and will be drawn to spend more time with you.^{[2]
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- A Sagittarius will really appreciate a silly GIF from an offbeat TV show (think Twin Peaks or Parks and Recreation) or a self-deprecating, relatable meme.
- It's okay if you don't think you're super funny. Another way to make a Sagittarius laugh is blunt, observational humor. Express your thoughts honestly and freely and she'll likely crack up.
- Remember to laugh at her jokes and smile when she's being silly, too. She wants to be with someone that appreciates her sense of humor.

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Be mysterious to keep her guessing.

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A Sagittarius woman enjoys the chase. To really intrigue her, make her work to get to know you. Reveal only a few details about yourself at a time, don't always be available to text or make plans, and end the text conversation first sometimes. She'll like the fact that you're not completely available to her and will start chasing after you so she can learn more about you.^{[3]
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- Play it coy when you're talking about yourself on a date. If she asks about your music taste, for example, don't list your entire record collection. Say something like, "I listen to all kinds of things. Indie rock is probably my favorite."
- Opt to end the conversation on a high note. After you've been texting for a while, say something like, "I'd love to keep chatting, but I've got to catch a movie. Have a great night 🙂" She'll be curious to learn more and will likely reach out again.
- Keep making plans with your friends and family so that you're not always free to hang out with her. She'll work harder to get on your schedule if you've got a full life and are a little busy.

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Plan exciting and thrilling dates.

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Opt for anything new and unexpected.^{[4]
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Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} Rather than sticking to a routine, keep changing things up to hold a Sagittarius woman's interest. Go for fun, new experiences anytime you can. Your Sagittarius woman will be thrilled to have found someone so adventurous, and she'll want to keep seeing you again and again.^{[5]
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- Try fun activities, like mini-golf, a midnight movie, and drinks at an eclectic, exclusive new bar.^{[6]
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- If you're not feeling a current date idea, don't be afraid to change things up. Text her something like, "I know we had plans to get brunch tomorrow, but I may have just scored tickets to a baseball game. Wanna check it out?"
- Don't worry about planning super romantic dates. A Sagittarius would much rather have a mind-expanding conversation over drinks than a 3-course meal at a 5-star restaurant.
- Reader Poll: We asked 355 wikiHow readers to tell us which activity would be most exciting for a Sagittarius woman, and 58% of them said that this fire sign would love going on a spontaneous day trip with you. [Take Poll]

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Be bold in the bedroom.

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A Sagittarius is drawn to a self-assured and innovative lover. As you spend more time with this Sagittarius woman, try embracing your fantasies and talking about them openly with her. Your transparency and experimental approach to sexuality will leave her wanting you all of the time.^{[7]
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- It's okay if you're not sure what you like just yet. Sagittarius women are known for bringing their superb sense of humor to the bedroom. If something's not working the way you planned, laugh it off and she'll fall for you in a heartbeat.^{[8]
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Surprise her with an interesting gift.

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Hold her interest with this kind and unexpected gesture. Give her something that reminds you of her, like a flower that's her favorite color or a vintage postcard with a beautiful cityscape. If you surprise your Sagittarius woman with something special like this, she'll be super flattered and excited to keep spending time with you.^{[9]
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- Don't worry if you're on a tight budget right now. A Sagittarius woman will be excited to get just about anything, whether it's a funny gag gift from a souvenir shop or a cool t-shirt you found while you were thrifting.
- Sagittarius women are known for appreciating the arts. You might try drawing her a picture, writing her a song, or giving her a book of poetry.

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Impress her with your intellect.

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Engage in interesting and thought-provoking conversations with her. Bring up subjects like literature, philosophy, history, and humanitarian causes. These subjects really matter to Sagittarius women. If you show her that you value them, too, she'll long to keep talking to you.^{[10]
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- Opt for dates that stimulate interesting conversations, like checking out a museum or a bookstore. That way, you can ask questions like, "How did you feel about that exhibit?" or "What kind of stuff do you like to read?"
- Text her articles on humanitarian causes and political issues. Add something like, "I'd love to hear what you think about this."
- Approach your conversations with an open mind and a positive perspective. The sign of Sagittarius is ruled by Jupiter, which makes people born under this sign particularly positive, hopeful, and open to new ideas.^{[11]
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Give her space so that she feels free.

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Sagittarius women like to do their own thing.^{[12]
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Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} Try not to devote all of your energy and time to your Sagittarius crush. Stay focused on your career, keep up with your interests and hobbies, and spend plenty of time with your friends and family. Living your own separate life will really draw her in, and she'll end up seeing you as a like-minded, fiercely independent soul. She'll probably end up missing you when you're gone, too.^{[13]
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- A Sagittarius is usually pretty comfortable being alone. Show her that you're similar by taking a solo trip or spending a few hours reading by yourself at a coffee shop.
- Avoid getting jealous or territorial of your Sagittarius crush. Making her feel pinned down may send her running in the opposite direction.^{[14]
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  Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} She'll want you more if you're happy to share her with her many friends and acquaintances!

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Travel and live an exciting life.

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A Sagittarius is drawn to someone who is worldly and spontaneous.^{[15]
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Expert Interview. 13 January 2022.} Take interesting trips and see the world around you. If you're not able to travel much, try exploring the city you live in and seeking out new experiences. A Sagittarius woman is always looking for new things to try. If she sees that you take a similar approach to life, she'll want to come along on your adventures.^{[16]
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- Go on an interesting day trip with a friend and send your Sagittarius crush pictures from the destination.
- Check out new restaurants and bars in your area instead of going to your usual spots. If there's not a ton of places to choose from, order something new off the menu at your favorite restaurant.
- If your Sagittarius crush follows you on social media, try posting pictures of your adventures. Share a beautiful view from a new hiking trail or a fun photo you took in a dive bar photo booth.

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Be honest no matter what.

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A Sagittarius woman wants someone who is as blunt as she is. As you get to know her, communicate openly and directly. Your like-minded approach to communication will only leave her wanting you more, and she'll appreciate that you don't play games with her heart.^{[17]
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- Be honest about what you're looking for instead of playing games. If you've been hanging out for a while, say something like, "I really like you. I'd love to keep seeing you." She'll be super attracted to your direct approach.
- Don't be afraid to disagree with her anytime you get into an interesting discussion. You might say, "That's a super interesting point. I had a kind of different take on it."
- If conflicts ever arise between the two of you, approach the situation respectfully and talk about it. Sagittarius women aren't into passive aggression, and they'll likely be happy to work things out.

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Stay true to yourself.

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A Sagittarius woman is drawn to authentic and confident people. Avoid pretending to be someone you’re not, as she’ll see right through that. Be comfortable with who you are and embrace your quirks. She'll be super into your unapologetic attitude and will long to get to know you better.
- If you're a huge fan of cartoons, own it, even if she's not super into them. Sagittarius women like being around people with a wide array of interests different from their own.
- It can be hard to be confident all of the time. If you ever start to doubt yourself, remind yourself of all of your talents and accomplishments. You might try writing a list so you can read it over anytime you're feeling down.

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How do you keep a Sagittarius woman interested?

Angel Eyedealism
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Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings.

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They love adventure and excitement. Movement and being outdoors are must-haves for any Sagittarius. If you're very stagnant and set in your ways, things will probably not work out and you won't be able to keep her interest..

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