What to expect when dating a Sagittarius

WikiMistRider554
11/02/24 4:13pm
Hi y'all, I just went on my fourth date with a Sagittarius and I think things are getting a little more serious, but I've never dated a Sag before and I'm wondering what to expect. What should I know about dating Sagittariuses? What are they like in relationships and what signs are compatible with Sagittarius (fyi I'm an Aries)?

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Angel Eyedealism
Angel Eyedealism
Astrologer & Performance Artist
11/04/24 10:05am
Sagittarius loves adventure and excitement. Like, if the two of you go sit on the back porch to watch fireflies, your Sagittarius partner is going to want to get on the next plane to Vegas, so try to keep date night active and fun. Sagittarius signs like being outdoors, so things like skiing trips or off-roading adventures are ideal.

So again, if you're very stagnant and set in your ways, this can be a tough relationship. I think Taurus signs are probably the least compatible in this regard. I knew a Sagittarius that was trying to have a relationship with a Taurus. I was like…dude, you have to actually go explore with them.

So, my final advice for you is to plan outdoor activities and try to be a flexible partner. Sagittarius is the rock star of the zodiac. They're very fiery and dynamic. So, that’s what they want in a partner! If that sounds like a good time to you, you’re going to be compatible with a Sagittarius regardless of your sign.
WikiChinchillaCaster400
11/04/24 6:26pm
The most commonly touted pairs for Sagittarius are Aries, Leo, and other Sagittarius signs, but I agree with Angel—really any sign can work so long as the other person is open to new experiences.

I do agree that Taurus can be a rough fit. It just seems to lead to a lot of arguments in my experience. Taurus tends to be very stubborn, which is hard for the spirited Sagittarius signs out there. I think Pisces can also be a bit of a rough fit. Pisces tend to be very thoughtful and daydreamy, but that doesn’t often bode well for Sagittarius, which is all about action.

In terms of dating a Sagittarius, just be ready for changes to your plans. Sagittarius signs love seizing opportunities to do new things, so try not to get frustrated if your partner cancels plans for something they find more interesting. Just go with the flow and say “yes” to things! It’ll all work out.
Anonymous WikiKangaroo
Anonymous WikiKangaroo
11/26/24 8:55am
I studied astrology years ago real deep. Never the Pisces until I found out I had a half- brother. Omg!! It is said that Pisces being the last sign & the end of zodiac has a bit of every sign in them. I believe it, they can be so so sweet & loving then 20 mins later caught up in some weird problem they have over thought?? So confusing, my brother is an out & out liar. Idk if he chooses to really lie, but he will tell you anything he thinks you need to hear to get what he wants. After figuring him out I realized why I never was attracted to one. Strangely tho I seemed to forever draw Pisces women to me. Oh boy! They are a handful. I'm thankful to be an ARIES!!!
Anonymous WikiKangaroo
Anonymous WikiKangaroo
12/19/24 3:17pm
Don’t agree with you! I’m Pisces too but with moon and rising in sag; so I love adventure, outdoors, travel… I’m sensitive but nature but because of my moon and rising which are more important in astrology no one ever guessed I’m Pisces!!
You have to look at everything in astrology and not just judged by sun sign!
WikiGiraffeJumper304
11/05/24 9:54am
As an Aries you’re going to have a good time with a Sagittarius partner. I’ve been in this relationship pair before actually, and it was a really great time (we only broke up because they had to move away for work). These two fire signs both value high energies and new adventures. Aries tends to be impulsive, which can throw other signs off. This isn't a problem for Sagittarius though, which is a sign that really relishes change and improvisation.

Sagittarius’s biggest issue is that they’re often too confident in themselves, which can irritate a lot of people. For Aries, this just adds to the energy of the relationship and gives fuel to the conversation and adventure. In other words, you two are in for an awesome time!
WikiLemurFlyer769
11/05/24 1:35pm
I feel like everybody else is underselling it. This is an AWESOME pair. Sagittarius and Aries are both super funny, playful, friendly, and upbeat. This is just pouring positivity on more positivity. Sure, the concerns about inaction can be real, but this is an extremely minor problem compared to all of the good you get with this pair. As two fire signs, ya’ll are going to have so much adventure together. You’ll never struggle to find something to do and you’re always going to have a partner who is down for anything. 10/10. Do recommend.
WikiAxolotlWatcher104
11/06/24 6:17am
Everything everyone has mentioned already is spot on, but there’s something I haven’t seen mentioned yet. Sagittarius tends to be a little possessive, while Aries can super prideful. So, when the Sagittarius gets upset about the Aries talking to other guys or girls at a party, Aries can have a hard time meeting Sagittarius halfway and admitting they understand the other person. It’s really important that you two avoid these kinds of silly misunderstandings, which is really all they are.
WikiCapybaraTamer317
11/06/24 5:01pm
I second what the last commenter said about Sags being possessive. The thing is male Sagittariuses are also very non-committal in my experience which is super frustrating, like...you're not allowed to be both!!!! Ugh. So I personally am over Sagittarius men but I know other people who have dated Sagittariuses and loved them.
Anonymous WikiToad
Anonymous WikiToad
11/13/24 2:00pm
I am a sag lady and married an Aries. Perfect match. <3 good luck with your lady
Anonymous WikiFox
Anonymous WikiFox
11/14/24 2:36pm
Ur one of the best matched if that’s the case
Anonymous WikiKangaroo
Anonymous WikiKangaroo
11/26/24 8:57am
Maybe it works better Sag women, Aries man. I have to say tho I've had many Aries men friends but whoop could never date one. They are super confident, over powering, usually very good looking & they know it. And I loathe stuck up men...
Anonymous WikiKoala
Anonymous WikiKoala
11/20/24 3:59pm
Good morning All,
I'm a Scorpio and just met a Sag located about 10 hours from me. We've had 4 very long and fun conversations. We both love to travel, we were born 1 month apart and both are 61. We are both healthy for our age and love many of the same things.

I'm trying not to overthink it or push it in any direction. And i'm going out of my comfort zone as a scorpio, to drive a little bit of the communication. In the past, I always let the guy contact me.

I wasn't really even looking for our relationship. But he has sparked my interest.

Thoughts?
WikiGopherWhisperer470
12/07/24 10:35am
scorpios and sagittarius are the best duo! both understanding, intelligent, open-minded, kind, and gentle in so many ways.
i wish you the best! keep it going
WikiGopherWhisperer470
12/07/24 10:43am
sagittarius and scorpios make the best duos! they’re both very understanding, intelligent, open-minded, kindhearted , and gentle in their own unique ways.
you are both very lucky to have found each other!
as a sagittarius woman myself i’ve only met a handful of scorpios, but the connection is always strong with them.
best of luck to you two 🙏🏼 keep it goin
Anonymous WikiCave
Anonymous WikiCave
11/21/24 3:50am
Sag & Aries are a perfect couple❣️
Anonymous WikiPanda
Anonymous WikiPanda
11/21/24 12:34pm
I hear a lot of good things here. I guess it depends on the person's morals and manners going along with respect and faithfulness. A Leo here, l've dated 2 sagittarius just to findout that they aren't faithful. Was it great while it lasted that l was in love, yes, so just be careful. Always allowed yourself to see the red flags. Don't get blinded by love or thinking that you can't find someone better in case you see red flags.
Anonymous WikiPanda
Anonymous WikiPanda
11/22/24 12:25pm
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!! I am an Aries and dated 2 Sagittarius.
Anonymous WikiCave
Anonymous WikiCave
11/25/24 6:01am
Those saying "Run!" and "Sags are not faithful", be reminded that there are always exceptions. An ill mannered person will surely create problems in their relationships. This doesn't necessarily mean the zodiac sign is responsible for that.
Anonymous WikiKangaroo
Anonymous WikiKangaroo
11/26/24 8:49am
Sags like the outdoors. Fishing, camping, hiking, ...most have a very outgoing personality. I dated one ONCE.,(also an Aries) he made a point to meet me (in a local bar where most all knew others) & try to impress me with his corvette, nice body ( construction worker) he took great pleasure in being the loudest- funniest- entertainer there. It was OK, he was not annoying. But he GOT TOO BOSSY for this Aries girl. I wasn't going to chase after him or come to beck & call. Have a friend (also a Sag) married to one. They have been together for 35yrs. Still in love. Good luck, give him space to move, think, and do his thing.
Anonymous WikiStoat
Anonymous WikiStoat
11/29/24 7:04pm
Well I hate to burst your bubble. Sag man loves his Libra Woman. -signed a Libra woman
Anonymous WikiMongoose
Anonymous WikiMongoose
12/01/24 9:40am
I don't typically like Sagittarius men. They have no emotional skills or intelligence to keep things peaceful, can be verbally attacking. Being disrespectful seems to be their birth right.
Anonymous WikiCassowary
Anonymous WikiCassowary
12/20/24 11:52pm
I'm a Sagittarius. We love learning new things having a debate on whatever topic as long as you realize we are perfectly happy to disagree as long as you don't loose your cool because we won't loose ours.Any thing outside is right on the money. And if she's into you you won't have to wonder she will tell you flat out. If you can keep up with her she will be your best friend and will always have your best interests on her mind. She will compromise on most things but there is a limit. Just don't lie to her like ever....bad idea.

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Sagittarius are outgoing, straightforward people! We love our freedom so please don't smother us. We are lovers and also fighters. Don't push a Sagittarius's buttons or they will show their true "fire sign." We love to feel protected as we are protectors, too. We are also very intuitive and very optimistic. We don't like people who lie or beat around the bush.
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Let a Sagittarius like you first. If you express too much or at all, we'll run for the hills. It will feel like the chase is over. We love a chase that will keep our minds going but show that we are close because if not, we're on to the next.
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I'm a Scorpio and as such I am super stubborn, but I have been with my Sagittarius boyfriend for years! Just because your sun sign says one thing doesn't mean you're doomed. Look at the rest of your chart to see how compatible you really are together. Even if your chart says you may not be a match, you can still work to overcome any obstacles through healthy communication and practice.
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Sagittarius can't be micro-managed. We need our space and room to breathe and explore and have fun, even without you sometimes! Signs like Aquarius or other chill, easy-going signs understand this but if you're a more stubborn sign like Taurus then that's something you'll have to work on (and if your Sag loves you they'll work on opening up to you and reassuring you when you need it).
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Sagittarius men do not commit easily, but when they do commit, they commit for good. They just need time to figure out what they want sometimes. But also if you can't handle their indecision, it's your prerogative to leave!
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The key to keeping a Sagittarius man interested is to give him plenty of space and don't smother him, and keep things interesting. Sagittarians are adventurous and they get bored easily so spice things up whenever you can.