Are Cancers and Libras a good match for each other?
Cancer woman here, I've been flirting with a Libra man for the last few weeks and I think it's going somewhere, but I've heard cancers and libras may not be good together so I'd love to hear from anyone who has personal experience or knows what to expect from these signs together
Libra is ruled by Venus, and Libra men tend to be very attractive people and being in a relationship is extremely important to them. However, Libras flip flop, so when they're in a relationship, they want to be out of one and when they're out of one, all they think about is being in them. They're constantly trying to balance things. So, you definitely want to appeal to their sense of aesthetics. You definitely do not want to be rude or gross around a Libra man. He gets turned off by somebody who’s coarse, and wants a woman that is refined and intellectual because he’s an intellectual. It's an Air sign. The Air sign loves intellectuals, but it's a Venus-based sun sign. So he definitely wants a woman who is attractive, but also intelligent.
Cancer is the most intense water sign, so she's very sensitive to the environment and can be a little on the shy side as well. She has a strong sense of emotional duty because cancers are the mother of the zodiac, but because she's a cardinal sign, she's pushy.
Cancer and Libra are both cardinal signs, and the cardinal signs are all pushy. They like to move forward. They're movers and shakers. But they're pushy about different things and in different ways. Cancer is the cardinal sign of the water elements, so, cancers are pushy about emotional matters. They’ll just keep pushing. And then Libra is the cardinal sign of the air elements, and Libras are sometimes called the "velvet gloved fists" because they're pushy and they're firm, but in such a pleasant way. Libra is diplomatic and they know how to get their way.
Cancer is the most intense water sign, so she's very sensitive to the environment and can be a little on the shy side as well. She has a strong sense of emotional duty because cancers are the mother of the zodiac, but because she's a cardinal sign, she's pushy.
Cancer and Libra are both cardinal signs, and the cardinal signs are all pushy. They like to move forward. They're movers and shakers. But they're pushy about different things and in different ways. Cancer is the cardinal sign of the water elements, so, cancers are pushy about emotional matters. They’ll just keep pushing. And then Libra is the cardinal sign of the air elements, and Libras are sometimes called the "velvet gloved fists" because they're pushy and they're firm, but in such a pleasant way. Libra is diplomatic and they know how to get their way.
I'm a cancer woman, and my libra man has been my rock. I tend to be more pessimistic than him, and he helps to reassure me when I get in my head. I've heard that conflict in cancer woman-libra man relationships can come from the libra man being too logical and not being able to understand the emotions of the cancer woman. At the beginning of our relationship, this did cause some tension, but through open communication and vulnerability we were able to overcome it. You two have the potential for a great relationship!
Libra man here. My wife and I had a bit of trouble when we were dating because I was independent and free-spirited, which made her worry sometimes. I had to give her constant reassurance that I was committed to her and emotionally invested in her, but only at the start. Once she realized I was serious about her, she trusted me more and we have a lovely marriage now.
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