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“He’s a 10 but” is a trend that originally went viral on TikTok and then became popular on X (Twitter). This trend is all about giving an imaginary person an attractiveness rating from 1 to 10. Then, you end the prompt with an odd habit, behavior, or scenario that can either move the rating up or down. For example, you might say “He’s a 10 but he hates cats,” which might cause your cat-loving friend to rerate him as a “2.” Keep reading for over 135 questions you can use for your own “He’s a 10 but” game.
Steps
How to Play “He’s a Ten but…”
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Ask your friend a “He’s a ten but…” question. This game is based on the 1 to 10 dating scale, where you rate a person based on their looks and overall attractiveness. When someone starts with the prompt “he’s a [insert number] but…” they follow it up with a trait or behavior that could make that person more or less attractive.
- “He’s a 6 but he eats pizza with a knife and fork.”
- “He’s a 10 but he screams at his parents.”
- “He’s a 2 but he always opens the door for you.”
- If “he” doesn’t fit your friend group, you can change the pronouns to whatever you’d like. All of these prompts can easily be turned into “she’s a 10 but” or “they’re a ten but” questions.
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Your friend gives the person a new rating based on the question. If the number is 5 or higher, the rest of the question is a trait or behavior that people might see as negative. If the number is 4 or lower, the rest of the question tends to be a trait or behavior that’s more positive.
- You: “He’s a 2 but he always celebrates your accomplishments.”
Your friend: “I love that, he’s a 7.” - You: “He’s a 5 but every gift he gives you is his favorite color.”
Your friend: “He’s definitely a 3. He doesn’t sound very thoughtful at all.” - You: “He’s a 10 but he’s absolutely obsessed with golf.”
Your friend: “I don’t like golf, I’d say he’s a 4.”
- You: “He’s a 2 but he always celebrates your accomplishments.”
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Your friend asks you a question in return. The best part about this game is learning about how you and your friends would change someone’s attractiveness rating based on a random fact about them. Use questions from the list above or create your own to personalize them to your and your friends’ preferences.
- This game works best when you have 2 or more people—that way everyone can give their rating based on the trait, behavior, or scenario you give them.[1]
- The “he’s a 10 but” game was created on TikTok by user @leahhwoodss in May 2022. The trend quickly spread to Twitter, where people post questions and other users comment what they’d re-score the person in the scenario.[2]