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Celebrating someone’s birthday is always a fun, festive time for everyone involved. But when you’re the host, there’s so much to think about—food, games, dessert, and presents—it can all feel a little overwhelming. Fortunately, with a little planning and a lot of preparation, your birthday party can run smoothly and your guests can leave feeling happy.

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Pick a location for the party.

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  1. You can host a party at your home, a local park, a restaurant or bar, a community center, a roller rink, a bowling alley, or even at some zoos! Choose a date and time that will work for most people, like on a weekend or in the evening.[1]
    • Little kids might appreciate a party at a place with activities, like a roller rink or a bowling alley.
    • Older adults are probably fine with a party in your home or at a restaurant.
    • If gathering in-person isn’t an option, you can throw a party via video chat. Invite your guests to join a meeting on Zoom, Google Hangouts, or Skype, then eat and chat like you would at any other party.
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Pick a theme or color combination to base the party on.

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Buy finger food to feed guests.

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  1. Pick up some food that’s easy to eat on the go, like chips, sandwiches, and ice cream bars.[4]
    • If you’re hosting a children’s party, be sure to check with the other parents to see if anyone has dietary restrictions.
    • Popcorn, pretzels, and M&Ms are all fun finger foods that your guests can eat.
    • If you’d like a healthy alternative, try vegetables or fresh fruit.
    • Older adults might like food that’s a little more fancy, like crab puffs or mini quiches. If you’re hosting both kids and adults, try to get a variety of food that everyone will like.
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Buy (or make) the birthday cake.

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  1. If you’d like to get a professional to make your cake, head to your local bakery a few days in advance to put in your order. If you’re feeling adventurous, you can make and decorate the cake yourself the night before.[6]
    • If your party has a theme going, decorate the cake to match it. You can use fondant, frosting, or plastic cake toppers for a fun and easy decoration.
    • If you don’t want to deal with cutting up a huge cake for all of your guests, get some cupcakes instead. You could also splurge on some cookies as an extra sweet treat.
    • Don’t forget to grab some candles!
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Put up decorations to make your location look festive.

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  1. Balloons, streamers, banners, and confetti are all birthday classics that can’t be beat. Try decorating the outside and the inside of your location to set the mood for the rest of the party.[7]
    • If you’re going for an animal theme, put up cutouts of jungle animals, zoo animals, or aquatic animals.
    • If you’re hosting a party for a teen or young adult, try putting up a disco ball and a fun “happy birthday” banner.
    • Or, try a murder mystery party with cobwebs and old silverware.
    • You could also grab a few party hats or silly glasses for guests to wear.
    • If you’re hosting the party outside, grab some outdoor lights or hanging lanterns.
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Take a lot of pictures throughout the party.

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  1. Grab your phone or a digital camera and spend some time walking around the party to take pictures of people.[9]
    • You can send the photos out later after the party so everyone remembers what a good time they had!
    • If you’re going to post your pics on social media, make up a fun hashtag, like #BradsBdayBash or #AlyssasBigDay.
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Have the recipient open up their gifts during the party.

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  1. About midway through the party, have everyone sit down and watch the birthday girl or boy open presents.[10]
    • This is especially important during a party for a little kid. It’s always fun for their friends to see what kind of toys and games they got.
    • If you want to remember this moment forever, have someone record the gift-opening with their phone.
    • If you’re hosting a party for an older adult, opening gifts in front of everyone isn’t required. However, it can still be fun!
    • If you’d like to send out thank you cards, make sure you write down who each gift is from.

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    All the steps in the article will still apply. Depending on how many people there are in your family, you may have to adjust some things.
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    No, it's not typically the responsibility of the host to provide transportation for attendees.
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    Family is fine, too. Try opening up to more people a few months in advance so you do have friends to invite.
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This article was co-authored by Natasha Miller and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Natasha Miller is an Event Planner, Chief Experience Designer, and President of Entire Productions, an event and entertainment production company based in San Francisco, California. Notable clients Natasha has collaborated with include Apple, Google, Gap, Louis Vuitton, Tiffany & Co., and Salesforce. Natasha and Entire Productions has been awarded Inc. 5,000's "Fastest Growing Companies in America", Entrepreneur Magazine's 360 List of "Best Entrepreneurial Companies in America." Entire Productions is also a Certified Women Business Enterprise. Natasha is a member of Meeting Professionals International (MPI). This article has been viewed 124,716 times.
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To host a birthday party, decide on a fun theme, like Disney characters, with your child and send out invites to the guests 3 to 4 weeks in advance. On the day, try to set out the food, drinks, and games 30 minutes before the party starts so you can take a moment to settle. As the guests arrive, greet each of them, take their coat, and offer them a refreshment. Then, during the party, try to make sure your child opens their gifts so everyone can see what they got, but keep in mind this may not always be possible. For tips on buying supplies for a party or hosting a party for adults, read on!

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