11 Ways a Capricorn Man Tests a Woman

Co-authored by Tara Divina and Aly Rusciano

Last Updated: September 18, 2023 Fact Checked

Hard-working, responsible, and committed, a Capricorn man is one handsome catch! When you start dating a Capricorn, he’ll want to make sure you’re the right match for him by throwing a few tests your way. How you react and respond to these tests can help him decide if he wants to pursue the relationship, but don’t sweat it! We’ve got all the information you need to recognize, understand, and pass these tests with flying colors, so keep reading.

1

He tells you about his career.

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Hard-working Capricorns want to know if you support their ambitions. He’s devoted to his work, and sometimes that takes precedent over the relationship. How you respond to his career goals will tell him where you stand on the topic of work and relationships.^{[1]
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- Be a good listener when he talks to you about his workday. Get to know the projects he’s working on and the names of his coworkers—it won’t go unnoticed!
- Respond to his work ambitions with enthusiasm. Try saying something like, “That’s amazing! You’ve really helped the company grow.” or, “I really admire how dedicated you are. Tell me more about what you do.”

2

He leaves you on your own.

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A Capricorn man will test your independence. Maybe he walks in the opposite direction in a store or goes into the other room when he gets home. This isn’t him avoiding you, but a way for him to see how confident you are by yourself. Being comfortable with or without him will show that you’re a keeper!
- Do your own thing when he’s not there.
- Try on that dress you’ve been eyeing without his opinion or start watching your favorite TV show.

3

He asks if you can leave a tip.

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The structured Capricorn wants to know if you can financially hold your own. The 10th House governs his energy and favor for social status, material success, and reputation.^{[2]
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- Capture his attention by talking to him about finances, investments, and savings accounts. Don’t dumb down your knowledge for him—a financially conscious and secure partner is what he wants.

4

He throws you into stressful situations.

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Dependable Capricorns need someone they can rely on. With Saturn ruling his energy, he’s looking for a secure and stable relationship. He wants to know that he can come to you at any moment for anything. Purposefully putting you in stressful situations will tell him if you can keep a level head while being there for him.
- Maybe he has a coworker spend the night in your shared apartment without warning, or asks you to complete a task in a limited amount of time.
- Take a deep breath and do what you can when you can. Remember, he’s testing you, and the best thing you can do is be authentically you.

5

He asks about your job.

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A Capricorn man wants someone who's invested in their career. He’s a Cardinal sign, meaning he’s highly ambitious and hard-working. Because of this, he wants a partner who’s just as dedicated to their work and goals as he is. He might ask you questions about your current job, education, and career path. This is simply a test for him to try and get to know you better.^{[3]
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- Be open and honest with him, even if you don’t know what you want to do career-wise.
- Tell him about your dream job and how you hope to one day climb the ladder to get there.

6

He asks you to help him with something.

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Dependable Capricorns need an equally dependable partner. There’s not much a practical Capricorn can’t do, but he’ll find something he needs help with just to test you. Maybe he needs help writing an email or cooking dinner. Either way, put your best foot forward and show him he can rely on you in any situation.
- Be the person he can depend on during the highs and the lows. The best thing you can do for a Capricorn is be there through it all.

7

He takes his time making decisions.

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A Capricorn man is looking for someone patient. Saturn is his ruling planet, and he’s meticulous and slow-moving because of it. Although greatly motivated, he likes to take his time. Keep this in mind when he’s answering a question or making a decision. It could be him testing if you’ll have the patience to move at his pace.^{[4]
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- Try not to push him into making any hasty or quick decisions.
- He moves to the beat of his own drum, and giving him time and space to follow his own rhythm won’t go unnoticed.

8

He requests alone time.

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A Capricorn man wants to see if you’ll respect his boundaries. He’s a natural businessman, which means he spends a lot of time at the office or on work trips. He may not bring you on these excursions or tell you all the details, and that’s okay. When he says he’s doing something alone, this is his way of testing if you’ll be able to trust and respect him in the future.
- He’s looking for an independent partner, so be sure to allow yourself some me-time, as well.

9

He opens up about something personal.

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Capricorns will test your empathy to see if they can trust you. Emotions don’t come easily to him. With the Earth as his element, he’s practical and logical and can find expressions to be anything but. Before he tells you his soul, he’ll open up slowly. Maybe he starts by saying he’s had a rough day at work or is upset about an added commute. How you react to these subtle signs of emotion will help him figure out if he can trust you with his heart.
- Be charismatic and put on your listening ears. Even the slightest mention of emotion could be a test.

10

He’s vague about his day.

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Stubborn Capricorns need a partner who respects their privacy. He may not give you a rundown of his day, and this is all to test if you’ll ask pushy questions. This is his way of seeing if you trust him.
- There’s nothing wrong with asking a few general questions like, “How was your day?” or, “Did you have a nice day?”
- Try to avoid prying questions if he doesn’t seem to be in a talking mood. Give him space and know he’ll come to you in time.

11

He asks questions to see if you were listening.

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A Capricorn man needs to know if you’re a good listener. He’ll test you by seeing if you remember the story he told you yesterday or asking you to talk to one of his coworkers. Dates, names, and events will be thrown your way, all to see if you’ve been paying attention.
- Answer his questions confidently if you know the answer.
- If you don’t know the answer, that’s okay! Ask him for a refresher and store that knowledge in the back of your mind for later.

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