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Physical contact with other humans is essential for our emotional, mental and physical well-being. Touch deprivation (also called touch starvation or skin hunger) happens when you go without human touch for a while (and it’s not just sexual touch—you can simply be missing a friendly hug or a platonic high-five). In this article, we’ll describe some of the symptoms you might experience if you are touch starved, as well as a few ways you can cope with touch starvation.

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You feel a deep sense of loneliness.

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  1. If you aren’t getting enough physical contact in your daily life, you might feel extremely lonely or on your own. Loneliness can happen even if you live with someone or you’re in a relationship—if you’re touch starved, you’re going to crave that human connection no matter what.[1]
    • Loneliness can feel different for different people. For a lot of people, it feels like a deep sense of sadness or loss, especially when you see others that are close to each other.
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You’re having trouble sleeping.

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You have body image issues.

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  1. If you have a negative view of your own body or you struggle with disordered eating, touch starvation may play a role in that.[7] Fortunately, talk therapy and mental health professionals can help you work through any issues surrounding your body so you can regain your confidence.
    • This is most common for people who experienced touch starvation early in their childhoods.
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You’re having issues in your relationship.

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  1. Even when you’re in a romantic relationship (and having sex), you can still experience touch deprivation. This usually happens when you and your partner aren’t touching each other enough non-sexually. You might feel moody, on-edge, or irritated with your partner, even when they haven’t done anything wrong.[9]
    • If you think this might be the case for you, sit down with your partner and talk about it. You can both work to touch each other more on a daily basis.
    • Things like holding hands, hugging each other, and giving each other massages can help you alleviate your skin hunger.
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You’re self-medicating with drugs and alcohol.

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Nicole Barile, PhD, NTP
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Licensed Clinical Psychologist & Nutritional Therapist
This article was co-authored by Nicole Barile, PhD, NTP and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. Dr. Nicole Lippman-Barile is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and a Nutritional Therapy Practitioner (NTP) who practices in New York. As a psychologist, she specializes in treating anxiety and mood disorders, Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), and related compulsive disorders. As a nutritional therapist, Dr. Lippman-Barile specializes in treating blood sugar dysregulation, digestive health, and mood disorders related to food. She holds a PhD in Clinical Psychology from Hofstra University and a Nutritional Therapy Practitioner Certification from the Nutritional Therapy Association. This article has been viewed 32,813 times.
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