14 Subtle Signs a Leo Man Likes You: How to Know if a Leo Man Likes You

See if a Leo man has secretly fallen in love with you

Co-authored by Stina Garbis and Kira Jan

Last Updated: May 24, 2024 Fact Checked

We all know Leos are naturally fiery and flirty, so what are the signs a Leo man truly likes you? With their big hearts and courageous spirit, Leos make amazing partners, but first, you have to figure out if he’s interested! We’ve put together a guide of the clear signs a Leo man likes you and the best ways you can respond to his unique flirting style.

This article is based on an interview with our psychic astrologer, Stina Garbis, owner of Psychic Stina. Check out the full interview here.

Signs a Leo Man Likes You

A Leo might like you if he shows off his success around you. He may naturally gravitate towards you or make excuses to spend as much time with you as possible. Leos also tend to act physically flirty with their crushes—you'll know he's falling for you if he goes in for a longer hug or playfully swats your arm.

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He shows off in front of you.

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A Leo man loves being in the spotlight and he’ll want to look his best around you. Leo men get primal when they’re interested in someone, which might mean he’ll try to show off in order to prove he’s dominant and better than the rest of the crowd.^{[1]
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} He might brag about his latest success, spend a bunch of money, talk louder, or even seem to stand up straighter when you’re around. The most important thing is to respect a Leo man’s pride—they have a lot of it.
- To win your Leo over, show him that you appreciate who he is and recognize all his unique strengths and talents.
- When he’s being a show off, flash him a smile and let it show if you’re actually impressed! He’ll appreciate the validation.^{[2]
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- Leo men like to outshine everyone else because they’re fire signs ruled by the sun—the brightest, biggest object in the sky.

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He gravitates towards you.

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A Leo man knows what he wants, so he’ll seek you out if he likes you. He’ll find a way to drift towards you in a crowd or stop by your desk to casually talk to you at work. True to their lion zodiac symbol, Leos are courageous hunters who will chase you if they like you.^{[3]
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} They’re not masters of subtlety, so if you think your Leo might have a crush, chances are you’re right!^{[4]
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- When a Leo’s attracted to you, he might make excuses to spend as much time with you as possible.
- He might also pull you aside when you’re at a party or hanging out with a group of people.

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He’s physically affectionate with you.

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Leos crave physical touch and get affectionate with their crushes. You might notice your Leo will go in for a longer hug or playfully swat you on the arm to make a point. Physical touch is his way of connecting with you and letting you know how he feels.^{[5]
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- Match your Leo’s level of attention and affection. It’s really important to them to feel like their love interest is on the same page.^{[6]
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He makes intense eye contact.

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When Leos see someone they like, they don’t want to look away. He’ll catch your eye as soon as you walk in, check in with you from across the room, and make eye contact whenever something hilarious comes up in the conversation. It’s not unusual for a Leo to lock eyes and wait for you to look away first, since it’s all a part of his dominant personality.^{[7]
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- Catch his eye, flash a quick smile, and look away to let him know you’re interested.^{[8]
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He brings you into his social group.

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Leos are social butterflies and they want you to be a part of their world. When a Leo guy likes you, get ready for your social calendar to fill up. If there’s a party, he’ll want you to be his plus one. If he’s going out to dinner with his friends, he’ll want to introduce you to everyone. Odds are, he’ll be the one organizing all the events, too, since Leos are natural leaders.^{[9]
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Research source} If you really want to get his attention, try turning the tables and planning your own outing:
- Take him to a cool new bar or restaurant with live music and a vibrant social scene.
- Throw a party and introduce him to all of your friends! He’ll thrive in a fast-paced environment with a bunch of new people to meet (and impress).^{[10]
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He treats you differently than he treats his friends.

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A Leo guy is a natural flirt, but he’ll amp up his intensity if he really likes you.^{[11]
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Research source} Compare how to acts around you to how he acts around his friends, since it can be tough to tell if he’s into you or just being his outgoing, charming self. When he’s around his friends, he might seem boisterous and energetic, but that energy will get more focused when you’re around and he might show you his more vulnerable side.
- He might express a bunch of enthusiasm for his friends’ interests, but he’ll actually try out your favorite hobbies and watch your favorite movies.
- He might often compliment his friends, but he’ll talk about how unique and different you are from other people.

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He showers you with compliments.

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Compliments and praise are the standard love languages for Leo men. Leos adore receiving attention, but when they’re into you, they’ll pile on the flattery and attention.^{[12]
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} Leo men are drawn to glamor and genuine positivity, so look out for compliments when you’re really dressed up as well as deeper compliments about your spirit or personality.
- Is he dropping comments on your social media posts telling you how good you look?
- Does he talk you up in front of other people and brag about your accomplishments?

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He surprises you with over-the-top gestures.

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Leos are the most romantic sign and they have a flair for drama. Even a shy Leo guy who likes you might show up with your favorite snack or send you a thoughtful playlist (seriously, check if they’re all love songs). A bolder Leo might buy you flowers, stop by with a meal from your favorite restaurant, or organize an elaborate movie night for just the two of you—even if he says you’re just friends.
- When it comes to date night, Leos will prefer to take you to a fancy restaurant rather than cooking dinner at home.
- Instead of surprising you with a big gift, a naturally-supportive Leo might also make a grand gesture through favors. He might offer to take on a project you don’t like or ask if you need help around the house.

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He craves your approval and attention.

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Leo men need reassurance in the early stages of dating. In public settings, he might keep glancing your way because he wants to know if you’re paying attention to him. Over text, he might hide his insecurity by teasing you with a cocky line like “Miss me yet?” But deep down, a Leo man will tease you because he’s secretly a big softie who cares about how you see him.^{[13]
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- It’s best not to play with a Leo’s heart, so if you want to win him over, be genuine and straightforward. Send him a text like, “I miss you when you’re not around” and you’ll make him swoon.
- If he sends you a selfie or photo of himself, tell him that he looks handsome.
- If he’s not sure how you feel, a Leo man might not make the first move over text. Since texting makes it harder for him to use his keen social skills and charm, don’t be afraid to text him first!
- Reader Poll: We asked 622 wikiHow readers who've dated a Leo man, and 72% of them agreed that the best way to show him affection is by giving him thoughtful gifts and declarations of love. [Take Poll]

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He gets jealous when you’re around other guys.

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Leos are possessive people, and they'll want to be your one and only. He might sulk away if he sees you talking to other guys because he won’t want you to see that he’s upset. A Leo man will respond best to honesty and straightforwardness, so it’s not a great idea to play games with your Leo.
- A Leo guy should still respect your need to have a healthy social circle and friends. Look out if his jealousy seems excessive and starts negatively affecting your life.^{[14]
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He’s protective of you.

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A Leo man will stand up for you and support you when he likes you. If someone puts you down in front of him, he’ll be the first to step in. He’ll take your side whenever you have a tough time at school or work. These deep-seated protective instincts are all a part of the loyal, courageous nature that makes Leos such fantastic and supportive partners.
- When you’re having a rough day, he’ll immediately want to cheer you up with a surprise gift or adventure.

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He wants to know everything about you.

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Leos can be pretty self-absorbed, but they’ll focus on someone they like. He’ll spend time getting to know you because he wants to be the best partner and make you happy. When a Leo likes you, he’ll listen intently when you talk and ask you a ton of open-ended questions.
- Does he remember the little things like your favorite type of coffee and favorite thing to do on a Friday night?
- Does he ask you questions about your future goals and dreams? If so, he might be trying to see if he fits into your future.

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He likes you the way you are.

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Leo guys love authenticity, and they’ll make you feel special. He’ll show appreciation for all your flaws, because to him, all those quirks are what make you unique. As pompous as Leos might seem, they’re big-hearted and treat people they like with deep respect and admiration.
- A Leo who likes you will challenge you whenever you put yourself down or doubt yourself.

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He’s loyal and only has eyes for you.

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If a Leo man likes you, you’ll be the only person he’s talking to. A Leo’s laser focus on getting what they want can seem intense, but their fierce loyalty makes them amazing life partners.

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How do Leos act when they like someone?

Stina Garbis
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Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.

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If they are interested in you, they will constantly compliment you, buy you things, show off and brag. Being a naturally flirty sign, they will twirl their hair, flex, puff out their chest, check their posture, or have a sexy walk or strut.

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How do you tell if a Leo man is in love with you?

Stina Garbis
Psychic Astrologer
Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.

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Leo’s are the most affectionate sign in the zodiac. They are friendly and generous. They also love to touch and are not shy about public displays of affection.

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