How to Know if an Aquarius Likes You

Written by Stina Garbis | Edited by Kira Jan

Last Updated: May 17, 2024 Fact Checked

Aquarians are mysterious, unique, captivating, and totally confusing when it comes to love. This individualistic air sign marches to the beat of their own drummer, which means that the traditional signs of romantic interest don’t quite apply. Instead, we’ve put together a list of astrologer-approved signs that an Aquarius likes you. Get ready to decode your Aquarius and figure out how they really feel about you.

This article is based on an interview with our psychic astrologer, Stina Garbis, owner of Psychic Stina. Check out the full interview here.

Signs an Aquarius Likes You

They always reach out and plan fun activities to do with you.
They go out of their way to make you happy.
They plan fun adventures and drop hints that they want to hang out.
They open up to you about their feelings.
They pull away from the crowd to talk to you one-on-one.
They want to learn everything about you.

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They make time for you.

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Aquarians love freedom but they'll give up their free time if they like you. How often does your Aquarius ask to hang out? If they’re consistently reaching out and planning fun activities for you two, that’s a telltale sign they’re interested.^{[1]
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- As one of the most dynamic signs, an Aquarius can be hard to pin down. If they’re willing to set aside regular time for you (like a weekly coffee date), your Aquarius might just have a crush!
- To keep an Aquarius interested, it’s important to give them space and time to recharge.
- For instance, if you see each other two days in a row, hold off on scheduling another hangout. Give your Aquarius their alone time, and let them be the first to reach out to plan your next get-together.

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They want to be your best friend.

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Aquarians blur the lines between platonic feelings and romantic love.^{[2]
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} An Aquarius with a crush can sometimes look like a good friend on the surface—they’ll give you emotional support, offer to help with little things, and always be up for a fun outing. But when they want to be more than friends, an Aquarius will amp up the romance and go above and beyond.^{[3]
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- They’ll surprise you with little gifts, like flowers delivered to your door or a box of chocolates.
- They’ll pick you up from the airport and have your favorite snacks ready in the car.
- They’ll offer you a shoulder to cry on and treat you to a spa day the next day.

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They hint at going on adventures with you.

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Aquarius like planning, and they’ll include you in their exciting plans if they like you! However, since Aquarians aren’t the most expressive people, you’ll have to pay really close attention to catch this subtle sign. Rather than asking you out directly, an Aquarius person will probably drop sneaky hints that they want to hang out.^{[4]
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} Don’t be afraid to take the initiative and let your Aquarius know you’d love to join in on their plans. Once an Aquarius gets a better read on how you feel, they’ll get more confident.
- Instead of asking you out to dinner, they might send a link to a restaurant and say something like, “Woah doesn’t this place look good?”
- Respond with something like, “That looks amazing! Wanna check it out?”

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They share their weird interests with you.

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An Aquarius won’t bring just anyone into their inner world of odd interests. When this air sign starts to open up, remember this is a big step for them and a sign they like you!^{[5]
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} They might whip out photos of their latest creative project, invite you over to watch their favorite movie series, or give you the ultimate rundown of a conspiracy theory they love. No matter what they’re interested in, let them know that you appreciate how they’ve shown you another side of themselves.
- Since it’s hard for Aquarians to open up, it never hurts to give them a little extra validation. Say something like, “Thanks so much for sharing that with me!”
- Remember Aquarians are often drawn to wacky, edgy topics, so don’t be surprised if your Aquarius is interested in things you’ve never even heard about.
- Aquarians want to hear about your unique interests too. Don’t hesitate to share your own hobbies and favorite topics with them.^{[6]
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They open up to you about their feelings.

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Aquarians can come across as "emotionally frozen."^{[7]
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Expert Interview. 10 December 2021.} If an Aquarius starts coming to you to ask for advice and talk about their problems, that’s a huge sign of trust. When they really like you, they’ll drop the aura of mystique and let you in on who they truly are behind their irresistible outcast charm.
- They might bring up personal topics like their family, their past relationships, and their life philosophy.
- Their tone of voice might get softer, or they might smile and laugh more around you.
- Aquarians are true visionaries. If your Aquarius starts talking to you about their future dreams and goals, chances are they’re testing to see if you to be a part of that future!

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They focus on you, even in groups.

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Aquarians are social butterflies, but when they have a crush, they'll only want to talk to you. Look out for moments when your Aquarius pulls away from a crowd in order to catch up one-on-one. You might notice that they lock eyes with you from across the room, or choose to sit down right next to you.
- It’s normal for an Aquarius to use their oddball sense of humor and wild stories to impress a crowd. If you think an Aquarius likes you, see if they look for your approval when they start showing off at parties.
- When you show up at a social event, wear something unique and edgy to catch your Aquarian’s attention.^{[8]
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They listen to you with undivided attention.

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Though Aquarians are daydreamers, they’ll focus intently on their crush. Does your Aquarius make intense eye contact with you when you’re chatting? Do they respond to your messages right away? When an Aquarius seems focused and responsive around you, it’s a dead giveaway that they’re into you. After all, Aquarians are normally fidgety and aloof, since they’re off in their own creative worlds.^{[9]
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- To win your Aquarius over, show them the same level of interest.
- When they talk, put your phone away and ask follow-up questions like, “And then what happened?” or “What made you start thinking that way?”

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They become fascinated by your favorite things.

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Aquarians love learning, and they’ll want to learn everything about you. In the same way they pursue abstract intellectual subjects and oddball interests, an Aquarius will want to understand what makes you unique and special. They’ll take what you say seriously— don’t be surprised if they end up watching movies you recommend or reading books you mention briefly.
- Show your Aquarius your true self and don’t be afraid to teach them all about niche interests or unique topics no one else understands.

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They start intellectual conversations with you.

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An Aquarius is often guided by their brain, rather than their heart. When an Aquarius person likes you, they’ll want to hear your perspective and get to know your opinions. Keep in mind, Aquarians have a rebellious streak, so feel free to bring up a hot take on an issue or to voice an opposing opinion. They’ll respect that you can engage in an exciting debate.^{[10]
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- If you’re not familiar with a topic your Aquarius brings up, don’t sweat it. Aquarians welcome honesty and they’ll find it refreshing if you say, “I’m not super familiar with that. Could you tell me more about it?”
- Start an intellectual conversation with your Aquarius by asking, “If you could change one thing in the world, what would it be?”

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They touch you more often.

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Aquarians only show affection to people they really like. This air sign is one of the least touchy zodiac signs. Your Aquarius might not initiate close physical contact like a hug or cuddle session, but pay attention to smaller casual touches. They might brush by you in a crowd or playfully touch your arm when you’re talking.
- If an Aquarius man or woman touches you on your face, shoulder, waist, or forearm, there’s a good chance they’re flirting.^{[11]
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- For an Aquarius, physical contact is tied up in emotions—when they feel comfortable holding your hand or cuddling with you, it’s their way of saying, “I like you and I feel safe with you.”

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They give you mixed signals.

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Aquarians can take a gradual, shy approach to love. Look out for subtle flirty texts and affectionate touches that gradually ramp up in intensity. But don’t be surprised if your Aquarius seems to get a little cold or pull back. A hot-and-cold approach is pretty standard for this eccentric air sign. Stay loyal, be patient, and an Aquarius will come to you in their own time.^{[12]
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- Here’s a classic Aquarius move: You might think they’re about to go in for a kiss, and then… nope! They pull away and start talking about political reform or a centuries-old philosophical debate.
- Aquarians might also send you a short compliment text or funny text from time to time.^{[13]
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Learn How to Date an Aquarius Man with this Expert Series

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How do you tell if an Aquarius really likes you?

Stina Garbis
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Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.

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If an Aquarius is friends with you they are interested in you. They usually blend love and friendships, so there may not be a clear line where one ends and the other begins.

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How do Aquarius act when they have a crush?

Stina Garbis
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Reverend Stina Garbis is a Psychic Astrologer and the Owner of Psychic Stina. With over 30 years of experience, she specializes in providing personal and professional advice through astrology and tarot card readings. Reverend Stina has experience working with high-profile celebrities, sports figures, politicians, and CEOs. She has been featured in many publications, including Bustle, Vice, The New York Post, and Readers’ Digest and she also has a 200k+ following on TikTok. Stina holds an Ordained Minister License from The International Metaphysical Ministry University Seminary.

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They will try to hang out, will text funny things every now and then, send movie listings, and hint at things they want to try — potentially with you!

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