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Your crush turned you down, and you’re probably feeling heartbroken. Now what? First, give yourself props for bravely asking out your crush. It didn’t work out this time, but keep putting yourself out there. In the meantime, you can show your crush what they’re missing as you get over them. We’ve compiled all the best tips for making your crush regret losing you.

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Look your best.

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  1. Try to put your best foot forward any time you’re around your crush. Looking your best will help you feel amazing, and your confidence will shine from within. At the same time, your crush will see how hot you are if other people see you as attractive.[1]
    • You might give yourself a “glow up” makeover. Change your hairstyle and get a new outfit. If you wear makeup, watch a few tutorials and debut a new look at school.
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Focus your attention on someone else.

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  1. There’s probably someone amazing at school who’s caught your eye. Why not see if they’d be a good match? Look for a crush who shares the same interests as you and seems like someone who’d be interested dating.[4] You deserve to be happy.
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Be confident.

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  1. Having confidence makes people perceive you as a more interesting, well-rounded person.[7] When you see your crush, stand tall so you look self-assured. When you pass them in the hallways at school, make eye contact with them and smile or say “hi” as you walk away. They’ll see that you’re a strong, confident person and may wonder if they made a mistake.
    • To boost your confidence, list your best qualities to remind yourself why you’re amazing.[8]
    Jia Jiang
    Jia Jiang, Rejection Expert and Motivational Speaker

    Rejection is a part of life, and it's not a reflection of your worth. When someone rejects you, it doesn't mean you're not good enough. It simply means that you're not the right fit for them. Instead of dwelling on the rejection, focus on improving yourself and becoming the best version of you. Remember, rejection is not a failure; it's an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.

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Spend less time with your crush.

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  1. It's hard to give up on someone you like, but it'll make you feel so much better in the long run. Be strong and distance yourself a little so you can hopefully turn the tables.Stop texting them.[11] For now, just hang out with your crush in groups rather than one-on-one.[12]
    • Ask your friends to act as buffers until you feel more comfortable being alone with your crush.
    • If you have classes with your crush, it's okay to talk to them when you see them.
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    How can you rekindle a relationship after breaking up?
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    Michele Fields is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Owner of Bon Jour Matchmaking based in Denver, Colorado. With over thirty years of experience, she specializes in helping others meet people and navigate dating and relationships. Michele has created over 300 marriages and has been featured on Denver ABC News, The Rocky Mountain News, Colorado 2 News, Denver Westworld, and The Denver Post.
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    Keep in touch with that person regularly. Remind them of the good things and good times in your relationship. You can ask them directly if they would be open to it. Do not play games.
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    How can you know if a man is not interested?
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    Michele Fields is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Owner of Bon Jour Matchmaking based in Denver, Colorado. With over thirty years of experience, she specializes in helping others meet people and navigate dating and relationships. Michele has created over 300 marriages and has been featured on Denver ABC News, The Rocky Mountain News, Colorado 2 News, Denver Westworld, and The Denver Post.
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    If a man does not make eye contact, he is not interested. If he gives short, curt answers when you ask questions, it may indicate that he is not interested.
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Tips

  • It’s totally normal to feel heartbroken and sad after your crush rejects you. Over time, these feelings will fade.
  • Your crush probably feels really bad about rejecting you. Chances are, they didn’t want to hurt you but just aren’t interested in being more than friends.
  • You might be able to get your crush to like you after they reject you. Focus on having fun and being yourself because that’s the best way to impress someone.
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This article was co-authored by Michele Fields and by wikiHow staff writer, Danielle Blinka, MA, MPA. Michele Fields is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Owner of Bon Jour Matchmaking based in Denver, Colorado. With over thirty years of experience, she specializes in helping others meet people and navigate dating and relationships. Michele has created over 300 marriages and has been featured on Denver ABC News, The Rocky Mountain News, Colorado 2 News, Denver Westworld, and The Denver Post. This article has been viewed 115,834 times.
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