This article was co-authored by Tara Vossenkemper, PhD, LPC and by wikiHow staff writer, Finn Kobler. Dr. Tara Vossenkemper is a Licensed Professional Counselor and the Founder and Managing Director of The Counseling Hub, LLC, a group counseling practice located in Columbia, Missouri. She is also the Founder of and a Business Consultant with Tara Vossenkemper Consulting, LLC, a consulting service for therapy practice owners. With over twelve years of experience, she specializes in using the Gottman Method of relationship therapy with couples on the brink of divorce, who have conflict, or who feel disconnected from one another. Dr. Vossenkemper holds a BA in Psychology from The University of Missouri, Saint Louis, an MA in Counseling from Missouri Baptist University, and a PhD in Counselor Education and Supervision from The University of Missouri, Saint Louis. She has also completed Level 3 training in the Gottman Method Couples Therapy approach and has been formally trained in both the Prepare-Enrich Premarital Couples Counseling approach and the PREP Approach for couples counseling.
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Keeping a marriage lively and interesting takes effort. But no matter how long you’ve known each other, there’s always a way to learn a little more about your hubby and vice versa. It might shock you how a simple question can generate fresh conversation and rejuvenate your connection. In this article, we’ll offer you dozens of quick q’s to throw at each other, from the steamy to the spiritual to the just plain silly. Keep reading and you’ll be chatting for hours, discovering new treasures about each other along the way.
Things You Should Know
- Break the ice with a silly conversation starter. No matter how comfortable you are with each other, goofy questions will make you both relax more.
- Get flirty and romantic by asking something provocative or a question that encourages you to compliment each other.
- Don’t be afraid to get deep or philosophical. Asking about complex subjects sparks great conversation and gets ideas flowing freely.
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