Q&A for How to Make Out

That depends on how well you know them and how comfortable you feel. If you’re getting the sense that they’re really into you and the mood is light and upbeat, you might try something simple but playful, like, “Hey, wanna make out?” If you’re less certain, try something like “I’d really like to kiss you right now. Is that okay?” If they agree, you could try asking if it’s okay to go further. For example, “Can I touch you here?”

It’s natural to feel shy and awkward when you’re making out with someone for the first time. With practice and experience, you’ll get a better idea of what works and what doesn’t, and you’ll begin to feel more confident. Just go with the flow and make sure to respect your partner’s boundaries and listen to their feedback.

That’s up to you and your makeout partner. Experiment with different types of kisses, such as passionate French kisses or more gentle, teasing kisses. You can also experiment with kissing them on places other than the mouth, such as their neck, face, or hands.

Whether you feel pressured to take another step for the first time, or don't feel comfortable repeating something you've already done, say so to the person involved. Don't stick around if he or she resorts to manipulation or guilt-tripping.

Someone who wants to kiss usually faces you with the whole body, maintains eye contact, and doesn't move away from a hand on the arm or shoulder. With someone shy or difficult to read, sometimes you just have to go for it! Move in slowly and romantically, giving the other person a chance to back out.

A make out session is a kissing session that lasts at least a couple minutes. It sometimes involves "heavy petting," but not always.

If you've only brushed lips lightly, you can add a little pressure next time (within reason). Another way to add passion is to part your lips just a hair during the kiss.