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It can feel painful if your ex has recently blocked you, especially if you don’t know why. Whether it’s their ego, the result of a messy break-up, or a gesture of closure, that constant cycle of what-ifs can be exhausting mentally and emotionally. Luckily, we’ve compiled a list of reasons to explain why your ex might have blocked you. Keep reading to see the many explanations for this digital ghosting and how to handle it. Who knows? By the end, you may realize this blocking was for the best!
Things You Should Know
- Sometimes, we act petty and immature after a break-up. Your ex may be blocking you to hide their shame, or just to rile you up.
- Your ex may be blocking you to honor their therapist's advice or the needs of their new partner. Try to respect these boundaries, even if it hurts.
- Blocking an ex after a break-up is healthy (and often temporary). Your brain and heart need the time and space to emotionally recover.
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QuestionWhat can you do to get over someone blocking you on social media?Supatra Tovar, PsyD, RDDr. Supatra Tovar is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist (PSY #31949), Registered Dietitian, Fitness Expert, and the Owner of Dr. Supatra Tovar and Associates. Dr. Tovar has worked in the fields of health education, clinical dietetics, and psychology. With over 25 years of holistic wellness experience, she practices Holistic Health Psychotherapy. She combines her psychology, diet, and fitness knowledge to help those struggling with depression, weight gain, eating disorders, life transitions, and relationships. Dr. Tovar holds a BA in Environmental Biology from The University of Colorado Boulder, an MS in Nutrition Science from California State University, Los Angeles, and a PsyD in Clinical Health Psychology from Alliant International University, Los Angeles.
Relationship PsychologistEven though it hurts, you can't make someone unblock you. It's best to accept that you can't change their decision. Try to wish them well and focus on moving on without them.
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